Well Thursday night my mum got rushed to a&e due to heart issues.
Last December she had similar but was so sick nearly died on ward but lucky didn’t.
This time the great staff are running loads tests and trying figure out what going on.
I know this isn’t Facebook but as said numerous times I don’t have big circle of friends da if any so this helps. Am absolutely petrified after last yr what may happen an due to knowledge have doesn’t help when it’s loved one.
But at moment just plodding along in work and feel so lost. Was glad got visit Saturday as last yr couldn’t but due to outbreak no visiting now which am ok with but sad still.
I posted status about other day as I’d been planning meet and cos all this been slow or delay reply about meets got told must be fake and they will spread to ppl how am fake etc must admit this did upset me as am anything but that but sometimes life and family come first.
Some nice ppl sent msgs so thanks and sorry for post here and stuff
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Hello mate. Sorry to hear about your mother,hope she gets better soon. There’s a lot of nice people on here who will always lend an ear to chat to in times like this.
As for being called fake,try not to let it bother you. If you’re genuine people will realise.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I hope you're ok, OP. It is never easy when a loved one is ill and it is even worse when it doesn't look good.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this and I hope she is alright.
There are good people here and many who care, those who are sceptical probably have their reasons but it isn't nice to be on the receiving end of that, and I'm sorry you have been.
I hope you have support in your life, and you can support your mum through this as well. |
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"I hope you're ok, OP. It is never easy when a loved one is ill and it is even worse when it doesn't look good.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this and I hope she is alright.
There are good people here and many who care, those who are sceptical probably have their reasons but it isn't nice to be on the receiving end of that, and I'm sorry you have been.
I hope you have support in your life, and you can support your mum through this as well."
Thanks everyone
Means loads I don’t have much support but am there for family
Just tough as nearly lost her last yr and now all started again boooo
Post here as always alone and feel alone esp since single last yr and my circle vanished |
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Hey OP...I hope both you and your mom are doing ok.
I know these are worrying times for you and when it comes moms well, that can be a different level of worry altogether.
Anyhoo I hope all works out for you.
And you know...people who show such a lack of understanding and call you fake aren't worth the time of day...don't spare them another thought.
Take care
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Hope you're OK op and your mum gets well soon.
Yes real life gets in the way which some people on here forget we all have.
The person had their own reasons to be sceptical for you cancelling maybe its happened to them alot.
Concentrate on your mum at the minute. I'd not worry about someone saying you're fake and going to spread it around.
Unfortunately there's some not so nice people on here, like all these sites. |
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"Well Thursday night my mum got rushed to a&e due to heart issues.
Last December she had similar but was so sick nearly died on ward but lucky didn’t.
This time the great staff are running loads tests and trying figure out what going on.
I know this isn’t Facebook but as said numerous times I don’t have big circle of friends da if any so this helps. Am absolutely petrified after last yr what may happen an due to knowledge have doesn’t help when it’s loved one.
But at moment just plodding along in work and feel so lost. Was glad got visit Saturday as last yr couldn’t but due to outbreak no visiting now which am ok with but sad still.
I posted status about other day as I’d been planning meet and cos all this been slow or delay reply about meets got told must be fake and they will spread to ppl how am fake etc must admit this did upset me as am anything but that but sometimes life and family come first.
Some nice ppl sent msgs so thanks and sorry for post here and stuff
Stay good"
Sorry to hear you’re going through this. I have experienced similar to you with one of my parents, and they have since been given a terminal diagnosis last week that I am still struggling to get my head around. Family comes first, always. And make every single moment count, because life is too short and precious.
Don’t worry about the people thinking you’re fake - block them, delete the messages and move on. Genuine people will be understanding.
Make sure you keep talking about how you feel and don’t bottle things up. Take care.
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Thanks all for nice messages and chat
Still crazy and hopefully she’s turned corner but still tough and awaiting lots tests
Glad works been crazy to distract me but still when done just me sat lonely and worried.
Thanks again |
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"Thanks all for nice messages and chat
Still crazy and hopefully she’s turned corner but still tough and awaiting lots tests
Glad works been crazy to distract me but still when done just me sat lonely and worried.
Thanks again "
Hope that's good news. 
Keeping busy keeps your mind off other things.  |
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"Thanks all for nice messages and chat
Still crazy and hopefully she’s turned corner but still tough and awaiting lots tests
Glad works been crazy to distract me but still when done just me sat lonely and worried.
Thanks again
Hope that's good news.
Keeping busy keeps your mind off other things. "
Thanks everyone news was bad scans she’s had of heart not have good outlook or views so now has have more but major delays and specialist won’t send home cos high risk or heart failure and arrest so has stay in for minimum 2 weeks and having nurse escort to cardiac scan on Friday.
So life feels sucky and works bonkers and stuff just want blow out but hard when no friend and lonely. So best able to do was just go for 6 mile bike ride but all I want do is cry esp cos been 2 weeks since seen her and when seen pic looks tired and weak.
Sorry for going on this is only place feel can speak as no where else and even work feel can’t speak so struggle alone and I’m breaking |
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"Thanks all for nice messages and chat
Still crazy and hopefully she’s turned corner but still tough and awaiting lots tests
Glad works been crazy to distract me but still when done just me sat lonely and worried.
Thanks again
Hope that's good news.
Keeping busy keeps your mind off other things.
Thanks everyone news was bad scans she’s had of heart not have good outlook or views so now has have more but major delays and specialist won’t send home cos high risk or heart failure and arrest so has stay in for minimum 2 weeks and having nurse escort to cardiac scan on Friday.
So life feels sucky and works bonkers and stuff just want blow out but hard when no friend and lonely. So best able to do was just go for 6 mile bike ride but all I want do is cry esp cos been 2 weeks since seen her and when seen pic looks tired and weak.
Sorry for going on this is only place feel can speak as no where else and even work feel can’t speak so struggle alone and I’m breaking"
Please don’t feel alone - if this is a safe space for you to get stuff off your chest then do it. I will send a message so you can reply in private if you want to chat we are more than happy to listen(read!)
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Thank you for kind messages and love
Means lots to me
We’ll still limbo mum finally had scan but now wait again and take week.
Just feel lost and lonely although glad she’s ok as I know many don’t have that luxury |
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"Thank you for kind messages and love
Means lots to me
We’ll still limbo mum finally had scan but now wait again and take week.
Just feel lost and lonely although glad she’s ok as I know many don’t have that luxury "
Sending hugs sweetheart xxxx |
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"Fingers crossed for your mum and don't let haters take up any quantity of time in your head, you have better things to be getting on with  "
Thanks I’ve moved from haters now just hurt other week now I don’t care ppl who msg me or speak have been amazing and helped |
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"Thank you for kind messages and love
Means lots to me
We’ll still limbo mum finally had scan but now wait again and take week.
Just feel lost and lonely although glad she’s ok as I know many don’t have that luxury
Sending hugs sweetheart xxxx"
Thanks Nora you sexy lady I appreciate the hug |
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"Thank you for kind messages and love
Means lots to me
We’ll still limbo mum finally had scan but now wait again and take week.
Just feel lost and lonely although glad she’s ok as I know many don’t have that luxury
Sending hugs sweetheart xxxx
Thanks Nora you sexy lady I appreciate the hug"
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"Thank you for kind messages and love
Means lots to me
We’ll still limbo mum finally had scan but now wait again and take week.
Just feel lost and lonely although glad she’s ok as I know many don’t have that luxury "
Sending your mum best wishes ,and don't ever feel bad for reaching out here x |
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"Stay strong OP, we’re here for you bud
Mike x
Thanks matey I appreciate it lots
Just struggling as work busy and find smallest things annoy me and frustrate me"
Have you told work you're dealing with lots of external stress too, mate? You should, and they should care about your wellbeing too. You're juggling a lot so only natural you're easily annoyed and frustrated at work. Hope everything sorts itself out soon! |
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"Stay strong OP, we’re here for you bud
Mike x
Thanks matey I appreciate it lots
Just struggling as work busy and find smallest things annoy me and frustrate me
Have you told work you're dealing with lots of external stress too, mate? You should, and they should care about your wellbeing too. You're juggling a lot so only natural you're easily annoyed and frustrated at work. Hope everything sorts itself out soon!"
I have but due to shortages etc didn’t make difference but usually cos I don’t make fuss and seen as reliable no one expects me struggle
But be ok eventually
Just been visit for first Time in 2 weeks cos covid restriction and she’s looking ok but after hour half visit was exhausted which isn’t her normal but waiting on results of Friday scans see how much damage has been or how sever heart failure is     
Thank you for nice messages means so much that people nice and there for me as I want me for others |
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So update after scan last week still awaiting information and stuff got quite upsetting today as a student dr told mum she’s going home and told staff. Problem was the consultant never said it or anything so idiot built her hopes up that may found what wrong and how bad damage is etc. but nope still nothing and fact specialists won’t let home makes feel more worse than thought.
Anyway am still spiralling idiot work know now but nothing can do so just keep going even though my moods on knife edge.
Happy bit been invited to break few nights with friend in Scotland this weekend to try break mind and breath parents encouraging me go guess know how hard work and crazy goin.
Just wow so tough when all my skills can’t fix this issue and just had huge cry just feel lost and vulnerable
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Thanks for the nice messages and support mum got released Saturday so her and dad are now safe and ok.
Scary times but she insisted I went Scotland on trip had planned for while and that was nice knowing she was ok and getting home so managed have few days break to recover and clear my brain after all the trauma.
Thank you again all for the support and love |
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"Thanks for the nice messages and support mum got released Saturday so her and dad are now safe and ok.
Scary times but she insisted I went Scotland on trip had planned for while and that was nice knowing she was ok and getting home so managed have few days break to recover and clear my brain after all the trauma.
Thank you again all for the support and love"
Glad things are moving in the right way for you
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"Thanks for the nice messages and support mum got released Saturday so her and dad are now safe and ok.
Scary times but she insisted I went Scotland on trip had planned for while and that was nice knowing she was ok and getting home so managed have few days break to recover and clear my brain after all the trauma.
Thank you again all for the support and love"
This is good news. Glad you got to go away. |
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Thanks everyone
Haven’t been on after time away think exhausted and stuff got sickness bug so lost few days lol and also about 12lbs (good side I guess)
Anyways finally got see mum yesterday as came visit and looking great and was so nice see her up and stuff and dad keeps making go out walks out doin things keep active so was great see her ok.
Thank you again for chats and support meant loads |
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