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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rather shocked to read your responses to be honest. Maybe this is a place for the self entitled "
But nobody knows what context you are talking about?
All depends on what you think makes someone entitled?
Are you talking about people on here? |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"Rather shocked to read your responses to be honest. Maybe this is a place for the self entitled "
Maybe other people are entitled to their view and your sense of self entitlement to the one true view is skewed?
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"Rather shocked to read your responses to be honest. Maybe this is a place for the self entitled
But nobody knows what context you are talking about?
All depends on what you think makes someone entitled?
Are you talking about people on here? "
A summary:
Not replying to messages - within Fab rules and culture, not entitled.
Having preferences and boundaries - imperative in this context, not entitled.
Other than that: maybe entitled, depends on specifics. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Rather shocked to read your responses to be honest. Maybe this is a place for the self entitled "
You haven't given enough information for reasoned responses, you've just chucked a buzzword into a post.
I'm entitled to better provocation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rather shocked to read your responses to be honest. Maybe this is a place for the self entitled "
As i said
Depends what that self feels entitled to.
Everyone is entitled to respect, privacy, choice. No one is entitled to a reply or a reason for rejection |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Don’t you just hate self entitlement?"
Are you talking about your own or someone else's?
I know what I feel entitled to and what I also feel others should be.
I do hate it though when people feel entitled to things that they're most definitely not though. Happens occasionally on here and in real life to.
I give them zero time, effort and energy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t you just hate self entitlement?"
Oh, I hate it. All those single guys who think that they deserve an answer or to be invited to put their dick inside of me just because they sent me a message on a swinging site and maybe included a picture of their dick or face. I find it especially rude when they comment on how long it took for them to read my profile and imply that they therefore deserve a response. I mean, how self-entitled is that?
Oh, wait... Ive got this wrong, havent I? Were you talking about the people who dont reply to the single men? Or who refuse men because they dont match what they are looking for?
Awkward... lets just change the subject and pretend that didnt happen.
Fay x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t you just hate self entitlement?
Oh, I hate it. All those single guys who think that they deserve an answer or to be invited to put their dick inside of me just because they sent me a message on a swinging site and maybe included a picture of their dick or face. I find it especially rude when they comment on how long it took for them to read my profile and imply that they therefore deserve a response. I mean, how self-entitled is that?
Oh, wait... Ive got this wrong, havent I? Were you talking about the people who dont reply to the single men? Or who refuse men because they dont match what they are looking for?
Awkward... lets just change the subject and pretend that didnt happen.
Fay x "
Defined it quite well by assuming it was about you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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How about you give context |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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thats very general detail dude detail thats all we ask  |
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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I am a big fan of people trolling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
I beg your pardon?!"
never beg  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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Not really.
Your opening post was vague, didn't state whether you were talking about your own, someone in particulars or just people in general.
You'll get assumptions made if there's a lack of required info. If you want detailed, relevant answers then you#ll have to be more specific.
Unless this was just a hand grenade post of course?
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
I beg your pardon?!never beg "
It's a figure of speech  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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Op if I jumped in to bed with everyone that messaged me they be a line around the block
And you be moaning about take sloppy 100ths
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
I beg your pardon?!never beg
It's a figure of speech "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
No one’s being rude op
The lounge has its un written rules
And without context most loungemites
Took it you were talking about woman not reply to message
So the lounge dose what it dose best |
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
I am just glad that calling someone a snotty bitch means you are not an arsehole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
You're posting on a forum on a swingers site.
Yet talking about someone who came into your shop.
I think you really should have posted on some kind of 'psychic medium' forum if you wanted responses related to the scenario you've just described.
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
So, if you'd said that originally, you would have got a different answer.
With no context, we have to default to context of these kinds of complaints on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place? "
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him |
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue."
I don't think you're reading the responses properly. Quite a few of them are asking you to unpack your initial question a bit more before they can do your the favour of providing an informed answer.
That's a good thing, isn't it?
On the other hand, you seem highly offended that people aren't just agreeing with you. Can you see the irony there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get blocked if polite on here for no re season lol sometimes think why do I bother messaging "
To you it might appear to be for no reason. But for the recipient, it’ll be a good reason to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t you just hate self entitlement?"
Like the people who leave their rubbish on beaches and parks? Or the friends who assume you will give them a lift at stupid o'clock even though they do sod all in return? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him "
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
Then you said no, and everyone stood up and clapped, right? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Okay people. Okay "
Yes, the person in your shop was, based on the information you have provided, rude.
I hope this answer to your original question helps enhance your understanding of the human condition, such that your second day working in a shop is less confusing....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him "
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Okay people. Okay
Yes, the person in your shop was, based on the information you have provided, rude.
I hope this answer to your original question helps enhance your understanding of the human condition, such that your second day working in a shop is less confusing....
hugs "
Good feedback. Glad you chipped in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them."
Usually similar questions from a single man refer to women/ couples who don't reply to messages. Likely the reason for most of the replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them."
But you made assumptions that everyone thought it wasn’t an issue (without the details), which therefore didn’t agree with your view. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them.
Usually similar questions from a single man refer to women/ couples who don't reply to messages. Likely the reason for most of the replies. "
So you made an ass of u and me |
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over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them.
But you made assumptions that everyone thought it wasn’t an issue (without the details), which therefore didn’t agree with your view. "
No, I observed people assuming a different issue that I hadn’t even realised was an issue, but okay. |
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
Hope u put her in her place x |
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over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
Wouldn’t it have been so much easier to have written this in the first place?
But then he wouldn’t have been able to get so self entitled about everyone disagreeing with him
At no point did I disagree. I just found the responses to the statement interesting that a lot of people made it about them.
But you made assumptions that everyone thought it wasn’t an issue (without the details), which therefore didn’t agree with your view.
No, I observed people assuming a different issue that I hadn’t even realised was an issue, but okay. "
You were asked for context from the start. I feel you wanted this outcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Entitled to respond how they wish, that kind of self entitlement? "
im pretty sure it was a rejection thing originally then spent a good 20 mins coming up with someone pushed in in the queue
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"No, I observed people assuming a different issue that I hadn’t even realised was an issue, but okay. "
Go back and read the first eight responses.
3 were "it depends, we need to know more"
1 was "I am against hate"
3 were fairly jokey and in no way displaying an entitled attitude
1 was distinguishing between rudeness and entitlement
Reply 9 was you expressing shock at the responses thus far, none of which were particularly assumptive.
But yeah, *other* people are the problem.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I observed people assuming a different issue that I hadn’t even realised was an issue, but okay.
Go back and read the first eight responses.
3 were "it depends, we need to know more"
1 was "I am against hate"
3 were fairly jokey and in no way displaying an entitled attitude
1 was distinguishing between rudeness and entitlement
Reply 9 was you expressing shock at the responses thus far, none of which were particularly assumptive.
But yeah, *other* people are the problem...."
Problem? |
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
calling bullshit on this story. But well done Op you finally got people commenting on one of your threads.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses
calling bullshit on this story. But well done Op you finally got people commenting on one of your threads.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Interesting assumptions from all. You must all be big fans of white privilege, sexism, and gender inequality. None of you seem to think self entitlement is an issue.
You don't think that, if this was true, it would constitute a "problem"? "
With? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's difficult to judge others as being self entitled, without knowing the full info.
The girl in the shop may have just received bad news, have 2 kids scrapping in the car or be stressed over something else and so wants in and out the shop quickly.
But if you know someone in life who is rude and self entitled, thinks they are above everyone else and lacks humility, then yes, that's bad. |
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"Ok then. Initially I was referring to an individual snotty bitch that had just been into my shop demanding we serve her first ahead of the two young black gentlemen.
The interesting part I observe here is that arseholes come out everywhere and rudeness just encourages others to join in.
Good people are few and far between, but never expected those kind of responses "
You got responses based on a post with absolutely zero context despite being asked several times.
In the above scenario yes it's absolutely rude. |
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"You don't think that, if this was true, it would constitute a "problem"?
With?
If the shop assistant gig doesn't work out, try dentistry. You're a natural..."
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