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After 3 months on Tinder and no matches: finally deleted
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never had a single match on Tinder either. For what it's worth, I had many meets through Hinge. That works if you are looking for something serious. |
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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago
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"Thing that annoys me is lack of effort in their opening messages like 'hi' or 'hello' or an emoji. I always write my intro messages with a few sentences introducing myself."
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Agreed, I was an active messenger when I match with someone and it’s impossible to communicate with anyone who does one word messages, thinks an emoji is a sentence, and doesn’t ask questions
I too deleted tinder but do have a profile on a dating site, not to meet anyone but to snoop around on if I’m bored, mostly to see if I recognise any friends, family or neighbours |
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That said it's because of tinder I am where I am sexually now! 5 years ago at 60 I got a new phone one of my daughters set it up for me! She said I've downloaded tinder for u! I said what on earth for? Having been celibate and not interacting what so ever with a man for 13 years! She said well u never know
! So gave it a look and from there to pof to here! And a jolly good lot of fun on the way! Been an enlightening 5 years for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here only as crude as some off the messages are sometimes at least they honest and upfront in what they want / looking for
None off this week to two week bs chat off what they think you want to here and then ither pumped dumped and ghosted or if not give up the goods to soon just outright ghosted
At least with here I know exactly what it is
And I am good with that as long as I know and not been lead down the garden path |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even on the rare occasion I match, conversation hardly ever transpires. Dating sites are just a waste of time!"
Funny isn't, different people's experiences? I have totally bombed out on fab despite being on here for an embarrassing number of years. My only two fwb were from regular dating sites (Not Tinder).. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation. "
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages. |
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To be honest when I first went on the app I wasn’t getting too much luck. However I then did a search on how to write a good profile and what pictures to display, then my luck changed.
First, put up honest pictures, no filters.
Second, with the pictures ensure some show you doing something, preferably outside walking in the countryside up a mountain, playing tennis a type of activity that’s better in a couple than alone ...but definitely no displaying fish 
Third, the text needs to stand out from the rest. Something that could start a conversation. Part of my text said ‘I don’t like gravy’ I got quite a few matches after that and practically all asked me why ? 
I believe women will be more interested in what you’re saying than what you’re displaying. Admittedly there still have to be some attraction as well.
If you choose not to carry on, good luck with other methods of meeting. It’s tough out there in the dating world I know.  |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What other sites have you tried?
Have you got single friends , where do they use? Just wondering if it’s an area thing that’s an issue "
Only other one I tried was Bumble, but got the same result, so decided to just stick with Tinder by itself.
I have a few single friends, and they get dates here and there. There are a lot of people to match with in Aberdeen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find myself flicking left a lot on there but it seems anyone I’m attracted to isn’t attracted to me.
Just the way it goes I guess.
I find fab much better |
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages."
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar.  |
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My luck with dating apps is pretty hopeless, I did get one successful meet on Badoo. It's not much better here, but I feel like I've more hope of finding people on Fab and Fet.
It's not easy but don't give up |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. "
You're a beautiful woman - you'd have gotten lots of matches and messages.
Not saying that you're lying, more that you would've gotten a lot of messages, and the few guys you liked enough to message ignored you. Being selective on there is one thing, but to suggest you struggled on tinder just isn't true |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting.
If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
No matches as in you didn’t swipe on the likes you received? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages."
You self depreciation is exhausting
It's no wonder why no one would meet you, if you're like this online I dread to think how you are in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting.
If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it."
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it |
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I haven’t been on Tinder for 8 years, but had some good meets back then as well as got myself a stalker from it!!
But as with all sites it’s a funnel and you have to wade through the rubbish to get any reward. |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
I'll be super honest but as I join the forums a lot I notice your negativity hugely, that and that only would be a put off for me, your a decent looking bloke your cock is absolutely fine despite what you may think but the negativity and comparing yourself constantly is a off-putting.
If the tinder was as negative as your posts then I'd say be that's maybe why.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you appearance wise, face and cock look good, embrace it.
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And another from me also, really not attractive (also has met 3 times in a month recently) |
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it"
This can be said for all dating sites including Fab.
It’s just a bit of fun. Don’t take it too seriously. The moment you do it’s beaten you. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. "
This is actually quite rude of Cammo. He frequently calls people (usually women from what I have seen) liars, all whilst moaning his lack of success on here and elsewhere... Yet his veris paint a different picture 
Maybe some projection. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar.
This is actually quite rude of Cammo. He frequently calls people (usually women from what I have seen) liars, all whilst moaning his lack of success on here and elsewhere... Yet his veris paint a different picture
Maybe some projection. "
I didnt mean to insinuate she is a liar. She obviously would have done well on tinder in terms of likes and messages, but has been selective with who she wanted to message. Nothing wrong with being selective at all. Unfortunately the ones she liked didn't message back.
Didn't mean that she wasn't successful though |
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar. "
You probably ignored his opening message |
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar.
This is actually quite rude of Cammo. He frequently calls people (usually women from what I have seen) liars, all whilst moaning his lack of success on here and elsewhere... Yet his veris paint a different picture
Maybe some projection.
I didnt mean to insinuate she is a liar. She obviously would have done well on tinder in terms of likes and messages, but has been selective with who she wanted to message. Nothing wrong with being selective at all. Unfortunately the ones she liked didn't message back.
Didn't mean that she wasn't successful though"
Do you complain to all the woman on tinder like you do here?
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
Nope, not the case at all. Moreover, I have no idea why you'd insinuate that I'm a liar.
You probably ignored his opening message "
I haven't messaged her, actually. Wouldn't have had a chance either way |
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"Congratulations
It's not a record to be proud of  . I'm sure if I looked like you I'd have plenty matches by now. Didn't fancy my chances going into it, but zero?"
How do you know exactly what Rex looks like?
As it happens, he has a great personality that comes through big time, both in written messages and in person. That's why he gets replies to messages etc. |
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"Congratulations
It's not a record to be proud of . I'm sure if I looked like you I'd have plenty matches by now. Didn't fancy my chances going into it, but zero?
How do you know exactly what Rex looks like? "
If you go oop north, there's billboards of him all over the shop, like Che Guevara in Cuba or something. |
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"Congratulations
It's not a record to be proud of . I'm sure if I looked like you I'd have plenty matches by now. Didn't fancy my chances going into it, but zero?
How do you know exactly what Rex looks like?
If you go oop north, there's billboards of him all over the shop, like Che Guevara in Cuba or something. "
He wishes |
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"Congratulations
It's not a record to be proud of . I'm sure if I looked like you I'd have plenty matches by now. Didn't fancy my chances going into it, but zero?
How do you know exactly what Rex looks like?
If you go oop north, there's billboards of him all over the shop, like Che Guevara in Cuba or something.
He wishes "
He's also on Wish, but I wouldn't recommend looking.
His action figure looks like someone put Hugh Jackman in a tumble dryer for a few hours.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gosh Cammo. I really think you should stop trying to meet people either on here or on other dating apps. You really arent in a good place for meeting people.
Go do some self reflection, personal growth, all that shenanigans. Then come back to it in a couple of years when you are a person who can bring their entire self.
No one wants to date or play with someone who hates themselves so much. Even I wouldnt give you a chance (and I dont give a damn what people look like). Go be celibate and perfect your masterbation technique, and stop whinging! It makes other people feel shit about themselves too.
Spread the love and positivity, not the body-hate and self-disgust.
Or ignore me... either way!
Tough love!
Fay  |
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"Gosh Cammo. I really think you should stop trying to meet people either on here or on other dating apps. You really arent in a good place for meeting people.
Go do some self reflection, personal growth, all that shenanigans. Then come back to it in a couple of years when you are a person who can bring their entire self.
No one wants to date or play with someone who hates themselves so much. Even I wouldnt give you a chance (and I dont give a damn what people look like). Go be celibate and perfect your masterbation technique, and stop whinging! It makes other people feel shit about themselves too.
Spread the love and positivity, not the body-hate and self-disgust.
Or ignore me... either way!
Tough love!
Fay "
Brilliantly put Fay |
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Never been on Tinder, but I've found plenty of hookup sites that are a good match for me.
Not everyone is a good match for every site (I really struggle to find what I'm looking for on here, for example), but the glory of online hookups is that there are a billion sites out there and one of them will suit better.
Hope you find what you're looking for, whatever that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on Tinder off/on any matches usually resulted in ghosting, though I went on a couple of dates with a nice lady last month, just not the one for me.
Used PoF/Match before, though you have to pay tk be able to message with Match, had a few LTRs through them.
I reckon it's more difficult when you reach 50+ to find dates.
Good luck OP |
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By *shyaWoman
over a year ago
bedford |
"That said it's because of tinder I am where I am sexually now! 5 years ago at 60 I got a new phone one of my daughters set it up for me! She said I've downloaded tinder for u! I said what on earth for? Having been celibate and not interacting what so ever with a man for 13 years! She said well u never know
! So gave it a look and from there to pof to here! And a jolly good lot of fun on the way! Been an enlightening 5 years for me x"
Absolutely fantastic! you go girl! |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it"
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change "
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab"
Keep positive man you never know |
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Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab"
I suspect this mentality is a big part of what is holding you back. Keep your chin up |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab"
He won me over with his wit and personality, not just his looks, the whole package, show that and you'll get further than you think |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab
Keep positive man you never know "
I'm very positive about myself, even though its not coming across that way. I know what I have to offer and what my strengths are, but im also realistic as to how far I will get by being a plain looking, average built single guy |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab
He won me over with his wit and personality, not just his looks, the whole package, show that and you'll get further than you think "
It's not always about the package you know
Jokes aside, happy for you guys! |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received.
Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them.
Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand.
If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received.
Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them.
Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand.
If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right.
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Ah, so now I know why I matched with so many sexy men who then deleted me |
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I get matched. Afew messages. Some speak to me on Instagram. Afew dates but no relationships or really great time from tinder. I can also say the same about being on fab. Afew meets but nothing really successful |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received.
Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them.
Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand.
If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right.
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We once did a fake male profile on another dating site as a prank but was absolutely amazed how many women were willing to speak to me, especially i used average looking guy but good bio and chat up lines lol |
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It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received.
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Not the best advice in my opinion.
I personally think the accounts that do well on any platform come from those who are themselves and original. Emulating others isn’t really you / true self… |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for/feedback you’ve received.
Practice! Care less about a match going anywhere and just go for it with the chat. If it starts to go well, move off the app ASAP. Ideally to a meet but WhatsApp or whatever works too. If you sit chatting on the app back and forth for days you’ll probably never meet up with them.
Swipe right without even looking — don’t bother wasting time reading profiles and making a considered decision at this point. If you’re a woman, you can afford to do this, but as a man it’s generally far far more efficient and a lot less demoralising to carefully consider any matches you actually do get, rather than doing it before hand.
If you’re not getting many matches after a few months then delete and remake your account with tinder. This shows you to people again and on a different day, different time, different pictures etc they might decide to swipe right.
We once did a fake male profile on another dating site as a prank but was absolutely amazed how many women were willing to speak to me, especially i used average looking guy but good bio and chat up lines lol"
Couldn't have been just an average looking guy if it was getting matches and messages |
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It’s all a game, really.
Get some feedback on your photos choices. Create a fake female profile and look at what other guys are doing with theirs. Emulate those you think stand out as likely to be attractive or hit the goals you’re going for /feedback you’ve received.
Not the best advice in my opinion.
I personally think the accounts that do well on any platform come from those who are themselves and original. Emulating others isn’t really you / true self…"
Emulating doesn’t mean you have to wholesale pretend to be someone else. I probably conveyed the point badly if that’s your interpretation. Of course, you have to inject your own personality into it and be real or it all falls down when you transition to dating/meeting people.
I think we’ve perhaps had very different experiences of Tinder. For me it took effort to stand out and get matches. If you don’t get any then you never get the chance to let personality shine. At that point it doesn’t matter how ‘authentic ’ your profile is; you’re still sat at home watching crap on Netflix, alone! |
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"They can't handle American spirit I guess  xx
How do you get kicked off Tinder? "
I know someone who got kicked off Tinder, as she was using it for multiple one night stands. She suspects one or more of her meets reported her. I told her about Fab, not sure if she joined. |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C"
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then. |
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I (Luke) haven't used it for about six years now, but it worked really well for me when I did. I only got the occasional bit, and they were blindingly obvious.
I'm curious to know if it is overrun by bots now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know people of all levels of looks, personality (everything) who have matched with people and had dates etc.
Just be you, have fun and chat. Dont go into it looking for 'the one' it adds pressure and is very off putting.
Please no more negative and using 'average'. It's not so bad being a normal bloke, most of us are.
We just reflect our good points rather than using a megaphone to amplify our bad points.
All the best. |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then."
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit? |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?"
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others"
I tell you this myself. I'd do it more often to others if they didn't ban for it.
C |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
I tell you this myself. I'd do it more often to others if they didn't ban for it.
C"
Thanks for your honesty |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"If it wasn't for tinder I wouldn't have found my way back here
(Say thanks to tinder Marc )"
Talking to someone on there it came up in conversation when we were having an open and frank chat about what we were wanting, they mentioned they were on here and reminded me about the site (I was on here years ago with an ex) |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
Go to CJ's in Glasgow and make things happen... |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
You are not alone |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others"
You do..all the bloody time |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time "
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up |
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Before the Internet you could reply to lonely hearts through the local free paper pushed through the door, for a small fee you could send a letter to who you wanted to which was more of a blind date really and a few weeks normally for any replies, I did,t just write to anyone mind but I took it to heart in them days when I got stood up but I got more replies and meets than on any dating site on the Internet I've been age will make a difference I agree but they were different days for sure..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I deleted tinder after a couple of months too. Nobody actually wants to talk, felt like it was just all about validation.
Yeah, as if you struggled on tinder...
This is a serious thread. I'm out here not getting a single like, not a single bit of interest, and you're trying to compare when you'd have gotten hundreds of likes and matches, and plenty of messages on top of that. Sounds more like you were just ignoring lots of opening messages.
You self depreciation is exhausting
It's no wonder why no one would meet you, if you're like this online I dread to think how you are in person "
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up "
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal. |
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I've been on it for over a year, admittedly I don't use it much, but when I did I only had a few matches, and then they would never chat.
No idea what the point of matching is, it you then don't talk. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
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I have read this thread. I was on tinder last part of 2021. Yes was 67. Yet I did get matches. A lot turned out to be bots, scammers . A few females did message. Until lockdown restrictions ended.
One again liked her photo( was attracted to) liked.Plus lived less than a mile away to me. Though very big age gap. She days later liked me. We messaged . Saw each other after about two months. Still good friends now and messaging yesterday .Still see each other
Even though big age gap. So I cannot work out why OP cannot get chatting , messaging to females? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal."
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating.
But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere.
Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one".
Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now.
The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know.
Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well.
What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved?
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating.
But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere.
Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one".
Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now.
The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know.
Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well.
What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved?
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Fair play to your friend who is dating the lady from the corner shop, good for him. It's a nice organic story for this age . I can't even imagine that happening. Most female servers can't wait to get rid of me
I guess that's the double edged sword. I'm not successful at all online, but if I try to talk to women in bars or a cafe or something, I'll just be seen as a creep |
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over a year ago
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I don't use it, however OP, you appear a handsome guy, maybe the females are to nervous to write back/ think they won't have a chance. No idea- some F are on there as they love the attention but not interested in meeting. Maybe you could put a snap shot on here and all the tinder experts could help you out |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
We have been together for 26 years so wouldn't know where to begin with modern dating.
But I do have a couple of freinds who where on numerous dating websites for years before they got anywhere.
Freind One was on and off various sites for about 8 years. Met a few ladies over that time and even dated a few for a bit but wasn't till last year he met "the one".
Freind Two was on dating sites for about 6 years. Got no where on any of them so he gave up. Then the lady in his local corner shop asked him out after years of flirting and they've been on 3 dates now.
The real issue is no one dare ask anyone out face to face anymore. There seems to be this mindset that says its wrong to bother people in their workspace, its inappropriate to ask out a work collegue or you are a creep if you approach someone you barely know.
Yeah I get it, there's some strong arguments as to why that's happened and I can see why but it just feels like all modern dating is a reliance on dating apps. It's worse after lockdown as well.
What happened to.people talking face to face or being willing to talk to new people without a phone involved?
Fair play to your friend who is dating the lady from the corner shop, good for him. It's a nice organic story for this age . I can't even imagine that happening. Most female servers can't wait to get rid of me
I guess that's the double edged sword. I'm not successful at all online, but if I try to talk to women in bars or a cafe or something, I'll just be seen as a creep "
If you both physically attracted to eachother, you definitely won't think it's creepy. Just bloody lucky that person approached you.
Personally, my honest response to your profile, it's your photos that would put me off. You wrote a good bio and you got plenty of verifications. But something about your demeanor comes across not very confident or plain. And just the random holding your cock isn't really that appealing. Think I would be bored in bed with you. So I would definitely upload better photos |
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"I don't use it, however OP, you appear a handsome guy, maybe the females are to nervous to write back/ think they won't have a chance. No idea- some F are on there as they love the attention but not interested in meeting. Maybe you could put a snap shot on here and all the tinder experts could help you out "
If he's written to them. I doubt that be the reason. Usually I don't respond to my tinder matches is because I studied their profile or message properly and nothing on it really entices me to reply. Like something they said has put me off lol |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on "
It’s attention |
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over a year ago
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"Tinder is one of those things you don't take seriously... Message them with no intent other than making them laugh! Conversation soon flows then you're away and one thing leads to another
At least that's my experience with it
This 100% for any site including here, you need that initial grab of their attention, Marc and me met off the back of some cheeky flirting on a thread (and also at a time i was adamant i wasnt looking to get involved with anyone), get more involved in threads and less self depricating, get to some socials and let people get to know you in person and not just a photo on a screen, you'll be surprised how your luck may change
Good for you guys . I doubt that will ever happen to me, though. I'm not most women's type. Something I've learned through tinder and fab"
Have you considered the reasons why people don't seem interested BEFORE they get anywhere near your cock?
I'm sorry to say, you come across as a deeply unhappy, and completely self centred person. If anyone disagrees with you they're either a liar or they couldn't understand. Then you backtrack to avoid an argument, while explaining how unhappy you are. You cycle through phases of 'i'm leaving because it's making me sad', 'i'm going to change and be more positive', 'i'll tell everyone how much easier life is for them'.
On here, you're hard work, all the time. A lot of people have offered support, advice, empathy and positivity. Somehow, you manage to ignore or forget all of it in seconds.
If dating apps and fab make you so unhappy, why don't you stop using them and spend time offline, with other people.
Is it time for you to take into account the impact your posts and comments have on other people? |
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I’ve always found bumble better than tinder for dating. I have a ‘message everyone who I match with’ policy and if they don’t message back within a couple of days I delete. If we are chatting and the messages dry up, I delete. I don’t get a tonne of matches, but I only swipe on people I actually think I’ll get on with, so it’s more about hobbies and the bio.
I don’t take it too seriously, my attitude is got to be in it to win it, but honestly if I’m single forever than that is also fine. I think it’s easy to become jaded with internet dating, I do take pretty regular breaks. If you are really serious about wanting to meet someone probably a paid dating site is for you. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Personally, my honest response to your profile, it's your photos that would put me off. You wrote a good bio and you got plenty of verifications. But something about your demeanor comes across as very plain"
I mean, that's just my face, there's nothing I can do to change my face. Haha |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D"
I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heres the thing Cammo
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 99 out of a 100 women wont be into you, but 1 will.
Take that one woman, and do the negative stuff you do, with putting yourself down, and you'll go from hot to not in 2 seconds flat.
Negativity isnt attractive.
If you think shes out of your league, she will be purely because of your attitude
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder? "
That’s 2 of us.
I’ve never been anywhere near dating/hookup apps/sites.
Oh wait…..what’s Fab’ again……  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In response to whoever said just swipe right on everyone, Tinder uses an algorithm and swiping right on everyone actually lowers your chances of being shown to people. There's plenty articles online about Tinder's ELO scores if anyone wants to read about it.
Not saying you do this Cammo, but just some info for anyone using Tinder. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"In response to whoever said just swipe right on everyone, Tinder uses an algorithm and swiping right on everyone actually lowers your chances of being shown to people. There's plenty articles online about Tinder's ELO scores if anyone wants to read about it.
Not saying you do this Cammo, but just some info for anyone using Tinder. "
I'd echo this to anyone using Tinder as well It's never how I've interacted with it.
I've only ever right-swiped people I would want to talk with |
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"In response to whoever said just swipe right on everyone, Tinder uses an algorithm and swiping right on everyone actually lowers your chances of being shown to people. There's plenty articles online about Tinder's ELO scores if anyone wants to read about it.
Not saying you do this Cammo, but just some info for anyone using Tinder. "
True to a point. But for 99% of guys just swiping right on everything is still the right move. Most efficient use of time |
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over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on
It’s attention "
Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP.
I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on
It’s attention
Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP.
I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by. "
I'm nothing like this in person. In real life I put myself across as well as I can, and don't mention anything about my obvious deficiencies.
But on here I can be more honest about why I'm failing on this side of things.
I don't say any of these things for attention, only to bring myself to terms with it over time so I won't be bothered by it anymore |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on
It’s attention
Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP.
I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by.
I'm nothing like this in person. In real life I put myself across as well as I can, and don't mention anything about my obvious deficiencies.
But on here I can be more honest about why I'm failing on this side of things.
I don't say any of these things for attention, only to bring myself to terms with it over time so I won't be bothered by it anymore "
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
I feel like I’m alone in never having tried Tinder?
That’s 2 of us.
I’ve never been anywhere near dating/hookup apps/sites.
Oh wait…..what’s Fab’ again…… "
Wash your mouth out! Fab is for genuine swingers, remember? Not general hook-ups |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on
It’s attention
Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP.
I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by.
I'm nothing like this in person. In real life I put myself across as well as I can, and don't mention anything about my obvious deficiencies.
But on here I can be more honest about why I'm failing on this side of things.
I don't say any of these things for attention, only to bring myself to terms with it over time so I won't be bothered by it anymore
You need psychological input."
Probably just need a break from all these apps to be honest. Been comparing myself to others too much recently. I get that its draining for others |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal."
This.
I pondered the other week whether this was body dysmorphia, or pure attention seeking.
It's definitely attention seeking, it's better to just ignore it.
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Cammo, how do you explain your veris? You have more meets than the vast majority of men on here and the comments are positive. Are these people lying? Are your constant remonstrations a bit rude to them? I just don't know |
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"I only got matches here and there from what turned out to be bots.
Has anyone else matched this pitiful record of zero matches or likes?
Please tell me I'm not alone? :D
Sorry fella, never had an issue on there whether bearded or not.
C
Lucky for you, Guess it's just me then.
If we say its def just you will you stop this shit?
Would be nice to hear this honesty from others
You do..all the bloody time
Well your honesty is appreciated. Not many have the directness to tell me it's my appearance and body that is the issue, but you've stepped up
Are you blind? Do you read the comments people leave you? We are so fed up of your melodrama its unreal.
I think he's either a troll or seriously attention seeking
Either way it's depressing to read? He somehow manages to derail every single thread he posts on
It’s attention
Your constant attention seeking and “woe is me” is completely draining OP.
I can’t imagine how much of a mood hoover you must be in real life. I have no doubt that you are struggling on dating apps if your forum posts are anything to go by.
I'm nothing like this in person. In real life I put myself across as well as I can, and don't mention anything about my obvious deficiencies.
But on here I can be more honest about why I'm failing on this side of things.
I don't say any of these things for attention, only to bring myself to terms with it over time so I won't be bothered by it anymore
You need psychological input."
I've never see it phrased that way I just cackled so hard lol....but yes agreed. |
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy? "
I did not know this |
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy?
I did not know this "
Your wifi must be down then |
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy?
I did not know this
Your wifi must be down then "
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy?
I did not know this
Your wifi must be down then
Haha! "
Don’t worry; many would regard it as a blessing (don’t green arrow him ffs) |
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy?
I did not know this
Your wifi must be down then
Haha!
Don’t worry; many would regard it as a blessing (don’t green arrow him ffs) "
I was being sarcastic lol |
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"Fuck me is this still going?
Only another 40 posts to go……
Buckle up then mate, we're in for the long haul
Not in Cammo’s case; don’t you know he only has a short willy?
I did not know this
Your wifi must be down then
Haha!
Don’t worry; many would regard it as a blessing (don’t green arrow him ffs)
I was being sarcastic lol "
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