So.. I've been to a few swingers clubs and events.
Alot of couple (who are into single men) prefer single guys to make an effort. Initiate a conversation, chit chat, small talk and then may be get an invite for a play (if he is lucky)
My question is... there is not a great deal to talk about when you/they would like to stay discreet ie not share about their profession, location or work etc. So often there may be alot of awkward silent moments.
Can you guys suggest things to talk about with couples during a club visit or social events.
Thanks in advance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really down to your personality, it's no different to say a work event, a gig or a quiz night at the pub. You meet new people and you chat to them, take an interest in them, make people smile / laugh, find common ground etc.
If you consider it making small talk something this has to be done to get to your goal then maybe your looking at going about it all wrong.
Been your normal self is all we can be.
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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Favourite drinks, kinks, other clubs, what are they here for, have they made any friends from this lifestyle, holiday destinations, hobbies, gaming, music, films/TV shows, food
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is usually enough to talk about with sex, fab life and anecdotes there in. Enough to get an idea of if this person has the right personality to gell when naked, knowing people can see your bum hole, huffing, puffing and sweating profusely as you desperately try to live up to your hype and then sharing your cum face with strangers.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"So.. I've been to a few swingers clubs and events.
Alot of couple (who are into single men) prefer single guys to make an effort. Initiate a conversation, chit chat, small talk and then may be get an invite for a play (if he is lucky)
My question is... there is not a great deal to talk about when you/they would like to stay discreet ie not share about their profession, location or work etc. So often there may be alot of awkward silent moments.
Can you guys suggest things to talk about with couples during a club visit or social events.
Thanks in advance.
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Everything and anything… just talk to them like human beings… |
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"So.. I've been to a few swingers clubs and events.
Alot of couple (who are into single men) prefer single guys to make an effort. Initiate a conversation, chit chat, small talk and then may be get an invite for a play (if he is lucky)
My question is... there is not a great deal to talk about when you/they would like to stay discreet ie not share about their profession, location or work etc. So often there may be alot of awkward silent moments.
Can you guys suggest things to talk about with couples during a club visit or social events.
Thanks in advance.
Everything and anything… just talk to them like human beings…"
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It's more a gauge of personality rather than subject matter. Really just go with anything. Talk about what they are drinking, something they're wearing, the weather, talk about clubs, anything you can think of that's not to do with the things you can't talk about. Just be creative and let your personality shine through. If you have the vibe and personality they're looking for they'll engage with you however silly the subject of conversation is. |
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I find small talk at clubs like entrapment! Sex going on, time tick tick I don’t want to spend time talking about nonsense.
Comment on my dress, my dancing ask me my likes, smile, enjoy the moment and maybe other things happen. Most of all have fun and be open confident and comfortable |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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Everything and anything like others have said.. Just be yourself.. Remember once we were chatting to a cpl at a club and they asked what jobs we had.. So I said I work at a convent (truth) poor girl walking past nearly gagged on her drink.. 
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Be open about yourself, let conversation flow easy and try not to make it a Q&A type experience.
Be fun, flamboyant whilst enjoying the moment. Chances are they are nervous and putting on a resting bitch face to hide their caution.
Mean moody and magnificent seldom works....fun funky cool cats get the cream. |
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