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Guys in couples - how did you meet your lady?
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
There are lots of lucky guys on fab who have wonderful girlfriends or wives. My question is: how did you guys meet?
I'll be taking notes, as I haven't had a date in a very long time - I believe Gordon Brown was Prime Minister at the time :D |
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A mutual friend set up a chat group at the beginning of covid lockdown.
Work and footie friends to laugh, cry, support each other, talk bollocks and take the piss.
We got chatting outside of the group and hit it off.
I mentioned I had cats.
Lady Astor likes cats and invited herself down.
Once lockdown was over, she rocked up.
A year after we started chatting we finally met, 16 months later here we are.
Winston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A mutual friend set up a chat group at the beginning of covid lockdown.
Work and footie friends to laugh, cry, support each other, talk bollocks and take the piss.
We got chatting outside of the group and hit it off.
I mentioned I had cats.
Lady Astor likes cats and invited herself down.
Once lockdown was over, she rocked up.
A year after we started chatting we finally met, 16 months later here we are.
Winston "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are lots of lucky guys on fab who have wonderful girlfriends or wives. My question is: how did you guys meet?
I'll be taking notes, as I haven't had a date in a very long time - I believe Gordon Brown was Prime Minister at the time :D"
We live in a small place, everyone knows everyone. J (mr) added me on Snapchat, we got chatting and somehow along the way ended up together and on here - so very random as neither of us was looking for anything with anyone, never mind thinking we’d meet someone we’d completely click with, and want the same things with… 
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"There are lots of lucky guys on fab who have wonderful girlfriends or wives. My question is: how did you guys meet?
I'll be taking notes, as I haven't had a date in a very long time - I believe Gordon Brown was Prime Minister at the time :D"
Tinder. |
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over a year ago
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I got a job as financial controller at a famous London club and Aurelia was the cleaner on our floor.
She couldn't speak any English and I couldn't speak Portuguese but we started having coffee every morning and six months later we got together. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I got a job as financial controller at a famous London club and Aurelia was the cleaner on our floor.
She couldn't speak any English and I couldn't speak Portuguese but we started having coffee every morning and six months later we got together."
Well you're all very lucky men. Times like this I wish I could meet someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a job as financial controller at a famous London club and Aurelia was the cleaner on our floor.
She couldn't speak any English and I couldn't speak Portuguese but we started having coffee every morning and six months later we got together.
Well you're all very lucky men. Times like this I wish I could meet someone "
It actually felt like fate as I had previously accepted a job for a hotel and restaurant in Oxford but the London club job came up and I went there instead.
We saw each other on the very first morning I started. |
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Through a meetup group. Several nights out and she realised I had kinks and we were always the last ones out talking.
Had a discussion about being FWB but after the first time we realised nope. Then it was discussions about fantasies and here we are |
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We met through forums. LvM offered to apply after sun on my back when I was complaining about my sunburn, we eventually met a few months later for what was supposed to be a one off weekend as we lived fairly far from each other. Fast forward we got married on the fifth anniversary of our first meet which happened to be two weeks ago. 
K |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"We met through forums. LvM offered to apply after sun on my back when I was complaining about my sunburn, we eventually met a few months later for what was supposed to be a one off weekend as we lived fairly far from each other. Fast forward we got married on the fifth anniversary of our first meet which happened to be two weeks ago.
K"
Very nice . I would love to meet someone through Fab |
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"We met through forums. LvM offered to apply after sun on my back when I was complaining about my sunburn, we eventually met a few months later for what was supposed to be a one off weekend as we lived fairly far from each other. Fast forward we got married on the fifth anniversary of our first meet which happened to be two weeks ago.
K
Very nice . I would love to meet someone through Fab"
I know this will sound like cliche but it will come at the right time...neither of us was looking for anything serious and yet here we are
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure that I could share my partner even if I met them on here I still couldn’t do it! I still wouldn’t rule out a relationship from fab but we both would have to be looking for the same thing….
I do though like to hear of other couples who swing together does that make me sound odd  |
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"I’m not sure that I could share my partner even if I met them on here I still couldn’t do it! I still wouldn’t rule out a relationship from fab but we both would have to be looking for the same thing….
I do though like to hear of other couples who swing together does that make me sound odd "
Not to me it doesn’t. Personally I’ll never ever get my head around how people can share someone they love. But it intrigues me nevertheless
I know I’m on a swingers site before anyone says that  but it wasn’t what I was searching for when fab popped up and I’ve always found what I wanted on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not sure that I could share my partner even if I met them on here I still couldn’t do it! I still wouldn’t rule out a relationship from fab but we both would have to be looking for the same thing….
I do though like to hear of other couples who swing together does that make me sound odd
Not to me it doesn’t. Personally I’ll never ever get my head around how people can share someone they love. But it intrigues me nevertheless
I know I’m on a swingers site before anyone says that but it wasn’t what I was searching for when fab popped up and I’ve always found what I wanted on here "
Very similar to how I feel also! |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
"A mutual friend set up a chat group at the beginning of covid lockdown.
Work and footie friends to laugh, cry, support each other, talk bollocks and take the piss.
We got chatting outside of the group and hit it off.
I mentioned I had cats.
Lady Astor likes cats and invited herself down.
Once lockdown was over, she rocked up.
A year after we started chatting we finally met, 16 months later here we are.
Winston "
We are another COVID lockdown couple. Although we first met nearly 10 years ago. We'd been Facebook friends and chatted occasionally. Started chatting more in lockdown and eventually met up again.... the rest as they say is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also met on Fab, I (Sin) just moved to the area & was looking for a local FWB, met Boss & we had awesome chemistry & banter from the start. Though, in establishing how we were both OK with it being casual/FWBs, we both thought the other was asking for a date... So we went on a date neither of us expected & it evolved from there. I married him because he gives me the best orgasms & he says he married me for my bum!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not sure that I could share my partner even if I met them on here I still couldn’t do it! I still wouldn’t rule out a relationship from fab but we both would have to be looking for the same thing….
I do though like to hear of other couples who swing together does that make me sound odd
Not to me it doesn’t. Personally I’ll never ever get my head around how people can share someone they love. But it intrigues me nevertheless
I know I’m on a swingers site before anyone says that but it wasn’t what I was searching for when fab popped up and I’ve always found what I wanted on here "
Until I met J (Mr), I never in a million years thought I’d ever be with someone who wanted to explore the scene as well. We just click completely on so many different levels, and there a deep level of trust, respect, love and communication between us. We both care about each other’s sexual pleasure and sharing these experiences together with other people is really horny. As I say, never expected to ever feel like this with someone, but it’s so liberating and amazing. I don’t ever take our relationship for granted, just wish we’d met 20 years ago lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Neither of us were looking, it just kind of happened
That often seems to be the way it happens .
I've tried many ways, unfortunately "
Think the universe is a dick & hits you in the face with something, when your actively not wanting or hoping, just doing you. Hang in there. Sin xo |
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She was a lap dancer (still is) we got on really well and wanted me to have a dance and I said I’d rather spend the money taking you out. Went back in a second time and asked her again had a dance and now we’re married |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"She was a lap dancer (still is) we got on really well and wanted me to have a dance and I said I’d rather spend the money taking you out. Went back in a second time and asked her again had a dance and now we’re married "
Lucky you, and well done . If I tried that I'd get a slap, thrown out and a restraining order within 24 hrs |
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I met My Girl on here. Never ment to be anything serious but after the first meet it was clear there was something more between us. When it works it works. I didn't know exactly what an awesome woman and relationships I could have until I met her. She was made for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My man is busy so I'll answer.
He messaged me on here, his profile said... if you want to sit and watch TV on Tuesdays and Thursdays I'm not your man.
So I replied back with 'what about Wednesdays?'
Few messages on and a social distanced walk we became a social bubble, then a couple.
T |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"My man is busy so I'll answer.
He messaged me on here, his profile said... if you want to sit and watch TV on Tuesdays and Thursdays I'm not your man.
So I replied back with 'what about Wednesdays?'
Few messages on and a social distanced walk we became a social bubble, then a couple.
T "
That's cool . Well he's a very lucky man. Sadly I don't think I'll ever be able to find someone, but it's a nice thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife got sent to pick up her younger brother from Scouts I didn’t think I stood a chance but 42 years later we are still together "
Wasn’t Church Street was it in Pinxton? |
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I'd recently moved to the UK and went to the pub with some of my flat mates. The now Mrs Bang Bang was dressed as Spongbob and decided to sit on my lap for a chat. She annoyed me immediately and later proceeded to stalk me on Facebook.
I reluctantly accepted on the 4th time and insisted I wasn't looking for anything serious. That was 14 years ago... |
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Male half here.
We met because my mother and brother thought they where funny.
So I was 21. I'd broken up with someone after dating them since I was 17 and was just taking me time (you know how it is getting over your first relationship). didn't want to go out or anything, just worked and moped for a bit with the whole "woe is me" thing. I was 21 and suffering a broken heart for the fist time. Don't judge lol.
After 3 months of this they thought they would put an advert in the lonely hearts pages of the local newspaper just to get me out of the house.
I was not happy. Really hated the idea and thought it was "sad".
Long story short, after a few bombs you could call blind dates, I was about to give up on it when I got a phone call from my now partner and wife of 26 years. The phone call turned into a 6 hour phone call, we then met the following day and then the day after that we didn't get out of bed for days.
So jokes on them as I'm still laughing all these years later.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chatted in the South West chatroom, met as friends for the best part of a year, my charm wasn't working on her, so one night plied her with rum and took full advantage
I play the long game me
Max |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"When we was 19 we met at a boxing event... exchanged numbers and a kiss then met up the following week and the rest is history  "
Very nice . And he's a very lucky guy!
I wish I had a chance at meeting someone |
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I shared a house with my mate who worked in an office. I phoned him to ask what we were gonna have for dinner and my now MRS answered. I said to him she sounds nice.. within a week we were in the pub having a few. After that she said she would suck me off if i cooked her a sunday dinner... 22 years later the rest is history |
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"We met through forums. LvM offered to apply after sun on my back when I was complaining about my sunburn, we eventually met a few months later for what was supposed to be a one off weekend as we lived fairly far from each other. Fast forward we got married on the fifth anniversary of our first meet which happened to be two weeks ago.
K
Very nice . I would love to meet someone through Fab"
You will just give it some time  |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
We met at a pre-drinks with friends in my flat before heading out to a club. A came along after having been invited by a mutual friend and the rest is history Best. Night. Ever. A truly life changing event!
C x |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"We met through forums. LvM offered to apply after sun on my back when I was complaining about my sunburn, we eventually met a few months later for what was supposed to be a one off weekend as we lived fairly far from each other. Fast forward we got married on the fifth anniversary of our first meet which happened to be two weeks ago.
K
Very nice . I would love to meet someone through Fab
You will just give it some time "
It won't, but thanks for the kind words . I've been in lots of the scenarios mentioned here, and no one has even given me a look like they're interested |
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"I've been in lots of the scenarios mentioned here, and no one has even given me a look like they're interested"
And the numerous threads and comments you post just make that more unlikely.
I honestly think it's for the best that you are not getting meets. You do not appear to be in a good place in terms of your self-image. Maybe take a break from it all, consider some counselling and come back later? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been in lots of the scenarios mentioned here, and no one has even given me a look like they're interested
And the numerous threads and comments you post just make that more unlikely.
I honestly think it's for the best that you are not getting meets. You do not appear to be in a good place in terms of your self-image. Maybe take a break from it all, consider some counselling and come back later?"
Whilst I do agree with this I just think that this is who he is his personality and the fact that he just seems to be very honest on here.
Sometimes we cannot see in ourselves what someone else can see though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving reading everyone’s stories
Just to throw ours in - we met on a rather popular fetish site, just thought it was some passing appreciation for each other initially but conversation started, we got totally drawn into each other. Here’s the cheesy part… first time we met we hugged and we both just knew that this was it. We immediately started talking about us as a couple and making plans. Sounds mad, felt right. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Loving reading everyone’s stories
Just to throw ours in - we met on a rather popular fetish site, just thought it was some passing appreciation for each other initially but conversation started, we got totally drawn into each other. Here’s the cheesy part… first time we met we hugged and we both just knew that this was it. We immediately started talking about us as a couple and making plans. Sounds mad, felt right. "
That's a nice story, glad you guys found each other |
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"Loving reading everyone’s stories
Just to throw ours in - we met on a rather popular fetish site, just thought it was some passing appreciation for each other initially but conversation started, we got totally drawn into each other. Here’s the cheesy part… first time we met we hugged and we both just knew that this was it. We immediately started talking about us as a couple and making plans. Sounds mad, felt right. "
Nope. Dosent sound mad at all. My wife and I knew on that first date. We moved un together just weeks later as well. Everyone said we where mad amd hormone driven but here we are together still 26 years later.
When.you know, you know.
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been together 29yrs married for 24 yrs 
