We prefer to meet up for a social all goes well meet up again for play this seems too much work for a lot of others just looking on opinions x club scenario is different this is based on meeting out of swingers clubs |
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Personally me and My Girl prefer clubs. We have busy lives and can go at our convenience when free without arrangements being made prior. So great flexibility. We don't have to worry about being stood up. We get to meet people face to face first and get a good measure of chemistry pretty soon with wasting time and energy messaging for days before. If we like them all is good. But if the chemistry isn't there you are not tied down or backed into a corner like on an arranged personal meet. Either side can simply make their excuses and go explore other possibilities in the club. Thus no one risk the chance of a wasted or awkward evening. Plus if you do find people you get on with in the club you can alway arrange to meet them privately outside of the club in the future. |
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