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does this make me selfish?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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am a straight female and at times do threesomes with two men,however when this happens i expect both men to play only with me.no man on man play whatsoever.does that make me selfish? And would a bi guy not want a 3sum with another bi guy and a female if he knew him and the other guy were not allowed to play?thoughts please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not selfish at all that's what I prefer as well....although do like bi men playing if they are in a threesome with me then hello I want allllll the attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not selfish…..unusual maybe. But I guess that as long as you lay out your wants to the guys involved, and they’re happy to conform to that…..who’s to say it’s wrong or right.
Crack on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it make me selfish that I only choose Cocopops at Morrisons when out shopping when there’s lots of other varieties to choose from? "
yes those poor frosties sit there with tears rolling down their face....shame on you  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"In my opinion no it's not selfish. The men are under no obligation to partake if they don't want the same things as you. I imagine they partake because they're happy with the agreed plans. "
This.
If they wanted to play with each other, but you didn’t want that, then you aren’t compatible and shouldn’t meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not selfish at all . If I have an MMF it’s thé very fact that both of us men give you our undivided attention and hopefully pleasure that’s the turn on……..oh and plus I’m straight  |
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Not selfish at all: we should meet the people we want on the terms we want! Assuming it was clear for everyone before the meet, the guys could have no complaints.
But I guess it did strike me as odd as to why you'd want bi guys in those circumstances? Surely finding straight guys for that scenario would be easier and just remove the issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, its not selfish at all, especially if its know at the outset that you are looking for two straight males.
I understand that during the throws of action a little guidance may be need when in those difficult positions and I don't have a problem with that, but for two guys to enjoy playing with each other leaving you in the cold seems that there's been a lack of communication along the way. |
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It’s not selfish it’s what you want .When we look for another man to join us we want a bi man and I prefer to sit and watch and then join in a little later but that’s my preference .It’s pointless going into a situation you feel uncomfortable with .. |
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"am a straight female and at times do threesomes with two men,however when this happens i expect both men to play only with me.no man on man play whatsoever.does that make me selfish? And would a bi guy not want a 3sum with another bi guy and a female if he knew him and the other guy were not allowed to play?thoughts please?"
Has somebody told you this is selfish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your all consenting to the same thing then I don’t see what is selfish about it? I know plenty of men who enjoy threesomes but wouldn’t want no man or man action!
If I was to do a three some then I would be the same as you I would want all attention on me because I’m greedy like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not selfish…..unusual maybe. But I guess that as long as you lay out your wants to the guys involved, and they’re happy to conform to that…..who’s to say it’s wrong or right.
Crack on. "
It's not unusual at all as you can see from this thread. There are loads of straight couples that have mmf threesomes. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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Definitely not selfish. I had two guys with me once I thought I was in for a great meet.
They'd agreed to meet each other before hand at my place without my knowledge. After about 20 minutes of me sat on my own bed watching the guys I kicked them out. They tried to deny it, they are both blocked now. |
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