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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s amazing how what people say can change your life ,not everyone,if sensitive it can,
In my youth I was a sex mad ,all my mates thought I had a problem as I was women mad,
Very early in life I went dancing lessons,went in to competitions etc,
When I went to secondary school,my new pals found out I went dancing lessons etc,took the piss so never went again.
My first wife got pregnant at 18, me same age,
Few years after we tried a threesome mmf,with a friend of ours,I felt quite left out,when I asked her next day about it,she told me he made her feel more full,as he was much bigger girth than me,
Then we were at a local social club where my parents went.live band etc,my mum got me up to dance with her,my wife said she was so embarrassed that I looked rediculas ,that was last time I ever danced,
I came home one day from work midday,cause had breakdown car to tow in near by,found another mate in bed with my wife,
As it happened he split up with his wife later on,when I was divorced from my wife,I took his wife out for few weeks,he really got hump about that,then he said well he was not that bothered as his wife told him I had a pencil dick and my first wife said the same,
Amazing how words can hurt so much,I found myself looking at men’s cocks to see if I was that small,took me on a journey of trying bi sex ,just to look at other men’s cocks,going from a confident guy to a depressed divorced guy,
On my third wife now,together 25 years,still same for me,we had a marathon sex session one night,laying together in bed ,feeling good,asked wife how I performed out of ten she said about a 7 ,mmm my heart sunk,another time I was going away for weekend on golf trip,she said typical,you going away and I just come on,I could go on about other things,I guess I am to sensitive,but I feel these comments have routed my life to a much less confident person,it’s so hurtful when people make personal remarks,affects some more than others "
There are no small cocks, just big holes. If they can enjoy a finger or tounge they can enjoy your cock. Good healthy PC muscles are key.
I always believe if they like you..its big enough, if they don't like you it doesn't matter if you're hung like a hamster or a donkey.
People say hurtful things to,, hurt. It doesn't mean they are true.
Why ask your wife to rate you? That's a dangerous question lol. But turn it around and ask what can you do that she would like to turn that 7 into a 10.
But don't forget sex is great, sometimes,
sex is not so great, sometimes,
and sex is just ok sometimes.
It can never be great all the time.
Focus on you're positives of which there will be many, ignore the hurtful comments as chances are thats all they are meant to be hurtful.
Get back to dancing and everything else you love and live the best happy life x
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Why not take dancing lessons again? I believe men are often in short supply at dances. You'd be popular and appreciated. 
