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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You would have to ask each woman because you will get a different answer from pretty much all of us. Me personally I'm not looking for a man on fab. "
Well that's what i am looking for. Different opinions. It makes it even better! x |
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It’s all down to personal preference really but we look for fit guys who look after themselves. Who are easy to chat with and are into similar things to us . None pushy who I feel comfortable with xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s all down to personal preference really but we look for fit guys who look after themselves. Who are easy to chat with and are into similar things to us . None pushy who I feel comfortable with xx"
That's so true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He needs to keep giving me photos on the messages otherwise I'll forget what he looks like lol. I get a lot of mail everyday so it's habit just to ignore guys with no face pics attached."
To get that straight….So even though you’d spoke to him…you’d forget what his user name was ? Do you just look for attachments when going through your messages? |
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Ones that can read. We got slated yesterday as someone was looking for a regualar local. We got advice back saying we should change our profile to where live. If he'd of bothered to read our status,he'd of seen it says we live in Dorset.
Along with the handful of daily offers to meet. We only meet if we have a status or meet up. |
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Someone tall, funny and who I’m attracted to that wants to make me laugh and orgasm (maybe not at the same time) who will bring me coffee in bed and is an awesome big spoon.
Then say goodbye until the next time (without too much neediness in between). |
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By *illibethWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone tall, funny and who I’m attracted to that wants to make me laugh and orgasm (maybe not at the same time) who will bring me coffee in bed and is an awesome big spoon.
Then say goodbye until the next time (without too much neediness in between)."
Definitely this, but I'm happy to laugh and orgasm at the same time, although I may pee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Subject line says it all!
Confident people who can use their own initiative rather than asking for instructions!  "
How does this bra come off? That type of thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ability to put on a condom and stick it in in 3 seconds flat, before their cock wilts at the sight of my hairy arse  "
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There’s a back sack and crack thread you might be interested in. |
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Well, I've yet to meet two women looking for exactly the same characteristics in a guy, or with totally identical wants, needs, and desires. However if I had to generalise, every woman I've met on and off here find intelligence to be sexy, thus there's likely to be a meeting of minds, and being genuinely 6' 1" tall, not having confused inches with centimetres, not looking like Quasemodo's twin brother, confident without being ignorant or arrogant, and being able to string two sentences together has had it's advantages for me.
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"The ability to put on a condom and stick it in in 3 seconds flat, before their cock wilts at the sight of my hairy arse
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There’s a back sack and crack thread you might be interested in. "
Only if I get to watch the men having it done   |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Most women look for someone they find attractive, who is outgoing, good sense of humour and great in the sack. Big points if he's mature, respectful and honest.
Simple list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women look for someone they find attractive, who is outgoing, good sense of humour and great in the sack. Big points if he's mature, respectful and honest.
Simple list "
Yes to this
NBVN x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Shovel hands.
Ludicrously tight trousers.
I'm a simple girl really.
I definitely have shovel hands but I’d never been seen in tight trousers 
What. A. Disappointment.
That’s what my dad says  "
Okay, I'll stick to shovel hands. If they're a bit of a knob I'm putty. |
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"Shovel hands.
Ludicrously tight trousers.
I'm a simple girl really.
I definitely have shovel hands but I’d never been seen in tight trousers
What. A. Disappointment.
That’s what my dad says
Okay, I'll stick to shovel hands. If they're a bit of a knob I'm putty. "
I’ll go with shovel hands, I usually call them my massive mungo hands. Shovel is an upgrade |
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"He needs to keep giving me photos on the messages otherwise I'll forget what he looks like lol. I get a lot of mail everyday so it's habit just to ignore guys with no face pics attached."
I'm trying to entice women, not put them off!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman "
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x  |
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x "
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish "
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Haha, I wasnt taking it literally. Its the sentiment behind the saying that makes me hugely uncomfortable.
You are suggesting that it is better to ask a successful guy how to attract a girl, rather than asking the girl herself.
That reduces women down to things that can be controlled and manipulated (fish), rather than us being people with autonomy and preferences. That is an appalling way to view women. It makes me cringe that you think in this way.
As I said before. I am not a fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's reductive reasoning at all, implying by virtue women are things.
I suspect it's a reflection of the constant threads asking advice on profiles, getting meets, being successful.
So you ask the, in this metaphors case, the fisherman, how they are successful. No one is saying you're a fish.
There's no point saying to a guy with the world's worst, or better yet, zero pictures, awful profile, and utterly incorrect mindset that, hey, read that profile, you're in.
You have to cover the basics first, the fundamentals.
Be really really, ridiculously good looking.
Blue steel. |
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish
Oops, i deleted by accident.... here it is again.
Haha, I wasnt taking it literally. Its the sentiment behind the saying that makes me hugely uncomfortable.
You are suggesting that it is better to ask a successful guy how to attract a girl, rather than asking the girl herself.
That reduces women down to things that can be controlled and manipulated (fish), rather than us being people with autonomy and preferences. That is an appalling way to view women. It makes me cringe that you think in this way.
As I said before. I am not a fish "
I believe it is better to ask a successful guy because he’s been successful
I find it weird to take that saying and only twist it into “women can’t be controlled and manipulated wahhh!”
Men are trying to get women
Women are trying to get men
Couples are trying to get whoever
Everyone’s trying to get somewhere
Don’t look so deeply into a simple saying. Successful men know, and have done what it takes, to be successful. Ask them. Don’t ask a woman that’s never been in a man’s shoes how to do a man’s job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish
Oops, i deleted by accident.... here it is again.
Haha, I wasnt taking it literally. Its the sentiment behind the saying that makes me hugely uncomfortable.
You are suggesting that it is better to ask a successful guy how to attract a girl, rather than asking the girl herself.
That reduces women down to things that can be controlled and manipulated (fish), rather than us being people with autonomy and preferences. That is an appalling way to view women. It makes me cringe that you think in this way.
As I said before. I am not a fish
I believe it is better to ask a successful guy because he’s been successful
I find it weird to take that saying and only twist it into “women can’t be controlled and manipulated wahhh!”
Men are trying to get women
Women are trying to get men
Couples are trying to get whoever
Everyone’s trying to get somewhere
Don’t look so deeply into a simple saying. Successful men know, and have done what it takes, to be successful. Ask them. Don’t ask a woman that’s never been in a man’s shoes how to do a man’s job "
Hmm... we have very different outlooks on life. Your way of viewing things makes me uncomfortable, ans there is no way I would ever date you or swing with you. But there are plenty more fish in the sea so you and I dont have to like each others way of doing things.
Fay
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Otherwise you might catch …….crabs? "
Whilst we are having fish for tea..
If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime.. Is that relevant? |
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish
Oops, i deleted by accident.... here it is again.
Haha, I wasnt taking it literally. Its the sentiment behind the saying that makes me hugely uncomfortable.
You are suggesting that it is better to ask a successful guy how to attract a girl, rather than asking the girl herself.
That reduces women down to things that can be controlled and manipulated (fish), rather than us being people with autonomy and preferences. That is an appalling way to view women. It makes me cringe that you think in this way.
As I said before. I am not a fish
I believe it is better to ask a successful guy because he’s been successful
I find it weird to take that saying and only twist it into “women can’t be controlled and manipulated wahhh!”
Men are trying to get women
Women are trying to get men
Couples are trying to get whoever
Everyone’s trying to get somewhere
Don’t look so deeply into a simple saying. Successful men know, and have done what it takes, to be successful. Ask them. Don’t ask a woman that’s never been in a man’s shoes how to do a man’s job
Hmm... we have very different outlooks on life. Your way of viewing things makes me uncomfortable, ans there is no way I would ever date you or swing with you. But there are plenty more fish in the sea so you and I dont have to like each others way of doing things.
Fay
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"Don’t ask fish how to catch fish, ask a good fisherman
Oh, yuck.
I am not a fish. You are not going to "catch" me no matter how good at "fishing" you are. This makes me cringe so bad.
What do I look for in a guy? Someone who shares my outlook on life and who is looking for the same things as me.
"What things are you looking for?" Go and read my profile and you will find out.
"But Fay, you're profile is too long... I dont wanna read all that!"
No worries! But that suggests that you arent for me so please dont message. Happy fabbing!
Fay x
If you take a saying that literally, then you have the brain of a goldfish
Oops, i deleted by accident.... here it is again.
Haha, I wasnt taking it literally. Its the sentiment behind the saying that makes me hugely uncomfortable.
You are suggesting that it is better to ask a successful guy how to attract a girl, rather than asking the girl herself.
That reduces women down to things that can be controlled and manipulated (fish), rather than us being people with autonomy and preferences. That is an appalling way to view women. It makes me cringe that you think in this way.
As I said before. I am not a fish "
Loving the fish analogy that has grown arms and legs..
Kind of assuming the fish in question is a female.. Could it work if the fish were a male? |
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet "
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird "
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
T"
It is kinda weird though isn’t it
All the guys that want to meet are doing something wrong and can’t get a reply
And lots of the ones that are doing something right and getting replies won’t actually go out and meet
It’s a weird paradox |
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird "
Fab Bermuda triangle? |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird "
It’s just stupid numbers games isn’t it? Like tinder and other ball achey apps. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Fab Bermuda triangle? "
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The most basic of skills ...The ability to read and comprehend ?? and of course a nice throbbing cock dribbling pre cum and the balls full to overflowing with a can of beer handy or even a remote or a can of smelly spray on stuff that always get's Mrs4 over excited ..  |
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
It’s just stupid numbers games isn’t it? Like tinder and other ball achey apps. "
I dunno, it does just seem very odd how often you see the 2 statements
When I had a couples profile it did shock me how many guys would arrange a meet and not show up
Maybe it’s confirmation bias. You only see threads crying about not getting meets or people not turning up. Actually I’m almost certain that’s what it is now |
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
T
It is kinda weird though isn’t it
All the guys that want to meet are doing something wrong and can’t get a reply
And lots of the ones that are doing something right and getting replies won’t actually go out and meet
It’s a weird paradox "
I wish I could give an answer that explains it but there's some that message continuously over time and then when you arrange a video call or coffee they just disappear. That I do find weird and happened more than once to me as a single. Then weeks or months later they try again but who's going to bother with that? I certainly didn't.
This is classic thread of what's the code to open the safe, some figure it out and then when they've cracked the code they don't want what's inside. It's like cracking the code was the fun part.
But in answer to the OP, no two safes have the same code!
Have to say though I agree with the comment about us not being fish or safes and we are actually people. But I do think men can view getting a woman into bed like some sort of puzzle or set of moves to win, like chess!
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
T
It is kinda weird though isn’t it
All the guys that want to meet are doing something wrong and can’t get a reply
And lots of the ones that are doing something right and getting replies won’t actually go out and meet
It’s a weird paradox
I wish I could give an answer that explains it but there's some that message continuously over time and then when you arrange a video call or coffee they just disappear. That I do find weird and happened more than once to me as a single. Then weeks or months later they try again but who's going to bother with that? I certainly didn't.
This is classic thread of what's the code to open the safe, some figure it out and then when they've cracked the code they don't want what's inside. It's like cracking the code was the fun part.
But in answer to the OP, no two safes have the same code!
Have to say though I agree with the comment about us not being fish or safes and we are actually people. But I do think men can view getting a woman into bed like some sort of puzzle or set of moves to win, like chess!
T"
The thrill of the chase, per say |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
It’s just stupid numbers games isn’t it? Like tinder and other ball achey apps.
I dunno, it does just seem very odd how often you see the 2 statements
When I had a couples profile it did shock me how many guys would arrange a meet and not show up
Maybe it’s confirmation bias. You only see threads crying about not getting meets or people not turning up. Actually I’m almost certain that’s what it is now "
Well the next time I get someone turn up for a meet I’ll post a thread about it |
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"You would have to ask each woman because you will get a different answer from pretty much all of us. Me personally I'm not looking for a man on fab. "
Shame - because there are 10s of 1000s of men looking for you…. |
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
T
It is kinda weird though isn’t it
All the guys that want to meet are doing something wrong and can’t get a reply
And lots of the ones that are doing something right and getting replies won’t actually go out and meet
It’s a weird paradox
I wish I could give an answer that explains it but there's some that message continuously over time and then when you arrange a video call or coffee they just disappear. That I do find weird and happened more than once to me as a single. Then weeks or months later they try again but who's going to bother with that? I certainly didn't.
This is classic thread of what's the code to open the safe, some figure it out and then when they've cracked the code they don't want what's inside. It's like cracking the code was the fun part.
But in answer to the OP, no two safes have the same code!
Have to say though I agree with the comment about us not being fish or safes and we are actually people. But I do think men can view getting a woman into bed like some sort of puzzle or set of moves to win, like chess!
T
The thrill of the chase, per say"
Yes exactly.
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"Someone who actually wants to meet when you suggest it…honestly and guys come on here and moan about women all the time when they can’t even grow their own balls and commit to a meet
Isn’t that weird though?
Bunch of women saying men won’t commit to a meet
Bunch of men saying they don’t even get replies
Where are all these guys in the middle getting responses and not turning up?
It’s so weird
Probably with their wife or other half instead and couldn't think of a good excuse to be absent.
Or with their partner on their couples profile looking for meets.
T
It is kinda weird though isn’t it
All the guys that want to meet are doing something wrong and can’t get a reply
And lots of the ones that are doing something right and getting replies won’t actually go out and meet
It’s a weird paradox
I wish I could give an answer that explains it but there's some that message continuously over time and then when you arrange a video call or coffee they just disappear. That I do find weird and happened more than once to me as a single. Then weeks or months later they try again but who's going to bother with that? I certainly didn't.
This is classic thread of what's the code to open the safe, some figure it out and then when they've cracked the code they don't want what's inside. It's like cracking the code was the fun part.
But in answer to the OP, no two safes have the same code!
Have to say though I agree with the comment about us not being fish or safes and we are actually people. But I do think men can view getting a woman into bed like some sort of puzzle or set of moves to win, like chess!
T"
Fair point, I’ve definitely cracked the code before then realised I didn’t even want it |
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He has to fit the list of physical attributes to be initially attractive. He needs to show he can pay attention to what we are looking for. He needs to show he is cool, calm and respectful. He needs to be available when we want. We need to be those things in return to make It work. |
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Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics |
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"Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics"
Top 10% might be underselling it too |
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That’s the multi million question right there with lots of varying answers!
I always assumed that I knew what I was looking for then I came ti fab and was like hell no that’s not what I want and it made me open my eyes more to other things! |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics
Top 10% might be underselling it too "
Yeah looks play a bit of part, obviously, but that goes both ways. I’ve had loads of guys block me after I’ve sent a face picture.
I just want someone who is fun and interesting and you only find that out by building a connection and meeting but you already know my feelings about guys and meeting…catch 22. |
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I’m one of those who needs visual stimulation first I can’t help it and I’m not talking model good looks either just someone who looks nice, nice enough body, great banter then I’m sure we will get along just nicely |
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"Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics"
Part of me wants to dispute this but nah, I'm just going to leave it and let all the guys have it that they're in the top 10% best looking. You're welcome kings  |
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"Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics"
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"Most women on here would turn down 90% of men from a face pic. Fab is not the place to come if you are insecure about your looks as you will take a battering unless you are in the too 10% of men for aesthetics
Part of me wants to dispute this but nah, I'm just going to leave it and let all the guys have it that they're in the top 10% best looking. You're welcome kings "
Your smile pic 13th may is top 1% . Id love to make your top 10% |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me a genuine smile where their eyes smile too. They look well kept and healthy so they don't have to look like a model but face is really important "
Not sure why you've blocked me lol |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first "
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me! |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me! "
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc. |
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Someone who fulfils all the things I’m looking for is a major red flag.
I become hugely suspicious that they are saying it thinking it’s what I want to hear.
Also you may think you fulfil them all but you can’t speak for someone. What about good old attraction? It may sound shallow but I will only meet or sleep with people I find physically and mentally attractive |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc."
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit. |
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"Someone who fulfils all the things I’m looking for is a major red flag.
I become hugely suspicious that they are saying it thinking it’s what I want to hear.
Also you may think you fulfil them all but you can’t speak for someone. What about good old attraction? It may sound shallow but I will only meet or sleep with people I find physically and mentally attractive "
That gap in thought process, where I believe I fulfill the criterias but the other person knows that I don't, is what I'm actually going after. |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit. "
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know. |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit.
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know."
Too far away - i know that, hence the reason why i asked a hypothetical question.
Bearded - agreed
Prefer married women - "prefer" not "only prefer"
Not my type - we're back to the same circle!
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"Everyone is allowed to have a type.
It’s life. Or in your world would we all just fuck each other with zero attraction?"
Fair enough. But we live in a world where "my type" is a pretty bland argument. People expect people to elaborate sometimes as well but i understand your approach. Much appreciated! x |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit.
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know.
Too far away - i know that, hence the reason why i asked a hypothetical question.
Bearded - agreed
Prefer married women - "prefer" not "only prefer"
Not my type - we're back to the same circle!
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You're not going to be everyone's type... I know I'm not.
I can only go by how you present yourself on your profile... Maybe that just needs some work? |
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"Everyone is allowed to have a type.
It’s life. Or in your world would we all just fuck each other with zero attraction?
Fair enough. But we live in a world where "my type" is a pretty bland argument. People expect people to elaborate sometimes as well but i understand your approach. Much appreciated! x"
You realise that finding someone facially attractive can’t necessarily be quantified! Attraction can be instinctive, I like tall, bearded tattooed types with good bodies, that doesn’t mean I’ll be attracted to every guy that has all those. |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit.
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know.
Too far away - i know that, hence the reason why i asked a hypothetical question.
Bearded - agreed
Prefer married women - "prefer" not "only prefer"
Not my type - we're back to the same circle!
You're not going to be everyone's type... I know I'm not.
I can only go by how you present yourself on your profile... Maybe that just needs some work?"
Absolutely agree with it. Definitely need to work on my profile and yes, I respect your time and your comments. Means a lot to me! |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit.
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know.
Too far away - i know that, hence the reason why i asked a hypothetical question.
Bearded - agreed
Prefer married women - "prefer" not "only prefer"
Not my type - we're back to the same circle!
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I don’t see a circle though? The you’re “not my type” is because of those reasons. You can’t be everyone’s type… |
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"Everyone is allowed to have a type.
It’s life. Or in your world would we all just fuck each other with zero attraction?
Fair enough. But we live in a world where "my type" is a pretty bland argument. People expect people to elaborate sometimes as well but i understand your approach. Much appreciated! x
You realise that finding someone facially attractive can’t necessarily be quantified! Attraction can be instinctive, I like tall, bearded tattooed types with good bodies, that doesn’t mean I’ll be attracted to every guy that has all those."
Well that's a pretty good argument that i can get behind with. x |
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"Tells you on my profile what I'm looking for... Would really help if they actually read it first
So if i was to reach out to you, i know I've gone through your profile and fulfill all the things you're looking for. Then how would you decide on me whether or not I'm okay for you?
P.s- if it's something bad then just send me over a DM. Don't want everyone to laugh at me!
If you did... We'd have a social. But you personally, don't.
Also depends how someone approaches me, if they're polite, decent, genuine etc.
The "don't" part, is what I'm actually looking for. It's not just you, but generally, it's now started to make me feel like shit.
Too far away, not my type, bearded, you prefer married women... It's your profile telling me what I need to know.
Too far away - i know that, hence the reason why i asked a hypothetical question.
Bearded - agreed
Prefer married women - "prefer" not "only prefer"
Not my type - we're back to the same circle!
You're not going to be everyone's type... I know I'm not.
I can only go by how you present yourself on your profile... Maybe that just needs some work?
Absolutely agree with it. Definitely need to work on my profile and yes, I respect your time and your comments. Means a lot to me! "
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"Someone tall, funny and who I’m attracted to that wants to make me laugh and orgasm (maybe not at the same time) who will bring me coffee in bed and is an awesome big spoon.
Then say goodbye until the next time (without too much neediness in between)."
Jeez why don’t you just name me instead of all the hints!!  |
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"Big penis, little ego."
And with so many it's the other way round. And usually driving in a ridiculous manner, high powered, over priced, German cars on finance to keep that big ego of theirs massaged. |
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