Evening all
It started about 4 weeks ago … matched with a lady on a dating site ….
Little older than myself , profile didn’t give too much away 
Anyways we exchange messages and numbers start flirting few pictures here n there  
Anyways into her fantasies and likes …. She likes a man to be dominant not forceful but take control tell her what to do … call her names 
So I’m rather inexperienced in the whole sex thing … (due to missing a big chunk of growing up ) as a result I’d say I’m quite payed back . Some would say submissive 
I’d seen some porn and asked her if she liked the specifics of what I watched
She said it was
Anyways I spent this afternoon playing a role completely out of my comfort zone
She has given me nothing but compliments said she’d never have known that it seemed very natural 
Learned a little something about myself
It was exciting but like a rollercoaster …. A thrill and nice to experience but I’m not sure I could be like that every time 
Have you taken a roll in the bedroom that you don’t find natural …?
How did you find it ?
It was nice to know she really enjoyed it and that was my pleasure 
Is this the same for you ?
Hope you’re weekend has been filled with all sorts of fun/sexy shinanigans |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The only role I found/find difficult is not being in control.
If its just a standard fuck session with no element of BDSM I struggle to hold back and not incorporate those elements - like punching their bum |
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over a year ago
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Too much effort. I like the dynamic to happen organically which can be different with different people...Some of which have taken me by surprise, but if it feels natural with someone then it's worth exploring |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Sometimes it takes a while for the dominant side to emerge.
To some it comes easy, to others it takes a while to actually let go, you will find as time goes on it will become a lot easier.
The most important thing is to communicate, it is important to know and understand limits, not just theirs but yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.
M |
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"Too much effort. I like the dynamic to happen organically which can be different with different people...Some of which have taken me by surprise, but if it feels natural with someone then it's worth exploring"
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"Sometimes it takes a while for the dominant side to emerge.
To some it comes easy, to others it takes a while to actually let go, you will find as time goes on it will become a lot easier.
The most important thing is to communicate, it is important to know and understand limits, not just theirs but yours"
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"The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.
M"
Definitely did  |
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"The main thing is that you're happy and comfortable with it. I wouldn't do it just for her if it's something you don't want to, but you may discover something about yourself you didn't know.
M"
Definitely did |
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