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My misses thinks she's fat...... I think she's curvy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds like the usual female pre-Xmas 'I'm fat so we're ALL going on a diet until Xmas' kind of 'I'm fat' claim to me..... 
And no she isn't. Gotta a cute ass in some of your pics though..... Lol!
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Knowing the views of some people on here, I think you're very brave to post something that could potentially knock your wife's confidence even more.
What a gamble! 
(PS I don't personally think she's fat) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel
I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self
I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence
Thank you for all your loverly comments xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have you asked he why she is feeling fat or thinks she is fat ?
i am quite happy with my size, but if i have any self doubt or things aren't going well with work or family life, my size becomes more of an issue than it is normally.
i haven't looked at the profile deliberately as whatever i or others judge will make little difference if she has a downer on herself.
and for every 50 that say curvy, it only takes 1 to say fat and whether it's true or not, it will be that that she chooses to believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel
I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self
I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence
Thank you for all your loverly comments xx"
So we can all come round then..???? 
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indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right
how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue
Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis ! |
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"indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right
how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue
Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis ! "
Body dismorphia is a strange thing. My ex had suffered bulimia when she was younger. She had been an actress and backing singer and some arsehole told her she needed to lose weight to be successful.
The dismorphia carried on as she got older. one day I gave her a pencil and asked her to draw what she thought was her outline ona wall. I then stood her against it and traced around her. Her vision of herself was twice her real size |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel
I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self
I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence
Thank you for all your loverly comments
xx
So we can all come round then..????
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"indeed bussy .. wot a great response and ur absolutely right
how a person views them selves and how a person feels about their own body image can be so far removed from reality its untrue
Gok Wan has made numerous TV series on this basis ! "
That well-known closet Heterosexual? He'll be outed soon and there'll be no more grabbing ladies boobs shouting 'what a pair of bangers!' from him!!!!! You mark my words!!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol .. his sexuality aside .. he is a master of restoring womens confidence who have lost it and for that i cant fault him
me ? or gok ? "
PMSL! Mr Wan.......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi the mrs here I just tried to explain to him it's how I feel
I ad relationship before him and was made to wear baggy clothes no makeup etc was made to feel horrible in my self
I will say wen I av a tan I feel better in myself get some confidence
Thank you for all your loverly comments xx"
If it's how you feel then it's how you feel. Lots of people have said they think you look gorgeous. I hope that deep down you believe that.
Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Question is, are you happy? I have good days and bad days body wise but overall I'm happy. Today I feel fat but I'm still happy.
Give yourself a hug. x |
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