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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think...
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"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people
Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol"
I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab. |
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over a year ago
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"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people
Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol
I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab. "
This, I'm nosey also  |
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"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself.
Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else.
I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those  "
I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s  |
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"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself.
Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else.
I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those
I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s "
Some of them may be pure fiction  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself.
Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else.
I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those
I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s
Some of them may be pure fiction x"
Its not about reading the veri but looking at the profile of whose left the veri |
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"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself.
Always be yourself. Don't compare to anyone else.
I never leave sexual veris. I dislike reading those
I don’t either and I don’t show them. I just like looking at everyone else’s
Some of them may be pure fiction x
Its not about reading the veri but looking at the profile of whose left the veri"
Nah. I just check they're real |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man
Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of?"
Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol |
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"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think...
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I do if I’m genuinely interested in meeting them - yes. What I’m looking for now is pretty specific - guys who are great company out of the sack and bloody good in it. I like to try to find ways of cutting through all the hyperbole and gushing sentiment to get a feel of what they’re actually like - particularly if they’re not very local.
If someone with an out of focus pic of their gash as their only pic and a badly written profile heaps praise on them - I’m not likely to take it too seriously. |
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Yes absolutely take a look at the people they have met, that’s why we like to publish ours so anyone planning on meeting us is welcome to take look at ours to.
Not really interested in details of meets or how well they have performed just it’s nice to know that they were good company and reliable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I do, I go down that rabbit hole and look at who's verified them too. If their verifications are from people that look a bit grimy I give them a miss."
That sums it up perfectly lol |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Oh yes always.
Some people just leave polite veris, but you get to know how they are politely wording “nice enough bloke but boring shag” lol.
Also certain people have entirely different preferences to myself.
Omg, I have definitely been here a long time! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think...
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Nope… playing six degrees just leads you into a rabbit hole
Your opinions of someone may not be the same as someone else’s… and just because you may not have a high regard of someone it doesn’t mean they do |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man
Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of?
Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol"
Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious. |
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I'm not nosey and I never compare but I'll always follow the veri trail due to previous experience.
I've never seen a veri yet that would encourage me to meet someone but I've seen plenty that would put me off completely either because of the content or because of who it's from. |
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Yes always look at veris, often look at who left them, you get a flavour for what that person or couple is about and really verification are the foundation of good swinging on here, like minded people connecting socially or maybe more |
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"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think...
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I follow veries but more because I'm nosey lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. Well not the full trail, I lose interest after a couple.
For one, I'm curious/nosy. There are certain people that I'd probably choose not to follow after. And it's interesting to read how people describe each other, I think you can pick up on certain things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man
Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of?
Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol
Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious. "
Looks....sorry |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Not only do I compare but sometimes I look at profile and think ....really? With him? I'm a bad man
Is it the other man's personality or looks you disapprove of?
Dont disapprove lol but im an ugly shallow man lol
Ok, what are you judging them on, looks or personality? Or something else? Just curious.
Looks....sorry"
No need to say sorry, I decide who to chat to based on a face picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do, if theres only one or two... You can find the circle of fakes then.
Other than that ..
Yes again. As it's a better way of finding profiles than the search button ! |
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Another reason I follow the veri trail is for consistency.
If someone says we have a lot on common in regards to being fussy about who they meet and how often but their verification trail says otherwise it's a handy filter. |
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We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one.
3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place.
It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole......
Winston |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes yes I do.
I will also not meet someone if they are veried by certain people it's just easier not to,than get pulled into background dramatics that happen on here. "
Exactly the same for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one.
3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place.
It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole......
Winston "
I do this all the time |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one.
3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place.
It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole......
Winston "
Has the journey ever led you to someone you'd rather meet than your original starting point? |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Another reason I follow the veri trail is for consistency.
If someone says we have a lot on common in regards to being fussy about who they meet and how often but their verification trail says otherwise it's a handy filter."
The issue with that is we all have different ideas as to what we're fussy about. I've seen women on the forums say they're fussy, yet I've declined offers from more than one man on their verifications.
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"We follow the trail, then follow that trail, and the next one.
3 hours later we've no idea who we were looking at in the first place.
It's the Fab equivalent of a YouTube rabbit hole......
Winston
Has the journey ever led you to someone you'd rather meet than your original starting point?"
Thats a good question...... I don't think so.
It's often led to people we've added to our hotlist though.
Winston
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"Another reason I follow the veri trail is for consistency.
If someone says we have a lot on common in regards to being fussy about who they meet and how often but their verification trail says otherwise it's a handy filter.
The issue with that is we all have different ideas as to what we're fussy about. I've seen women on the forums say they're fussy, yet I've declined offers from more than one man on their verifications.
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I get that completely. I don't send messages so all conversations are started by others and I average 1 new message a month.
When I suddenly get 3 or 4 messages from different women who have all been verified by a man with a history of grooming and who has been repeatedly removed from chatgroups for predatory behaviour it raises an eyebrow and is an immediate red flag.
Or when women start working their way through my verifications to ask about me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you look at a profile of someone you like the look of you look at the veris...do you click on whose left the veri? Do you look at that persons profile/pics?and think...
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Yes and it pretty much always puts me off meeting the person. That's why I prefer to see no veris on their profile.
I don't care who/ how many they've met, I just don't want to know. |
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I don’t display my veris for the very purpose of not satisfying the jealous bitches who want to know who I’ve met! It’s no one else’s business!
If I’m meeting someone new yes, if their veris are displayed I check to see who they have met but I don’t trail them - however if there is someone on their list I specifically don’t trust or don’t like I won’t meet them. I don’t trust the experience won’t be shared after so I don’t go there.
I always wonder why those who say they don’t display veris break their neck to ensure EVERYONE knows when they have met someone!! Like we really care…. 
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No as we like to make our minds up about people and it’s not like people display any bad veris anyway.
We are here for fun not drama so it’s none of our business who they have met as long as we like them then that’s all that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I follow the trail. And I compare myself. "
Ditto! I’m small framed so if all the veris are from the opposite body type to me I avoid! Might be unfair to them but it would make me too self conscious to enjoy it! |
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc "
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. "
Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prudes. |
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless.
Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes."
What's not to like about prunes?
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Yep for a number of reasons/things I want to avoid just a few examples ;
Bare back play
Shagging the entirety of fab or trying to!
Fuck and go types
But also
Checking they really are into older and/or larger ladies
Checking they like to play as I do
Checking they haven’t a crazed stalker! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot of people on this thread hide their verifications…. But they check out other people just in case of what?….  "
If someone has theirs displayed they are asking for them to be read. So what if someone reading them hasn't displayed theirs. Some people are private, some aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless. "
Erm, a verification is not a sex review. They're simply meant to confirm that someone turned up, is what they say they are and wasn't a serial killer. Perhaps you should consider an escort site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?"
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless.
Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes.
What's not to like about prunes?
Winston "
Probably wouldn’t want too many prunes if she likes buttfucking with a dinosaur dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at the names on the verification but I don't compare myself to other people
Im guilty of comparing myself to the veri lol
I don’t compare myself I’m just a nosy bitch and I also like to see who people have met. Some I won’t even meet if they’ve met certain people. We all have our ways of doing fab.
This, I'm nosey also "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I think it's natural curiosity to see who's behind veris that have been left for someone that interests us.
In the past, it hasn't influenced the interest I'd have in the person. That was shaped by how they came across and their interactions with myself and others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people on this thread hide their verifications…. But they check out other people just in case of what?….
If someone has theirs displayed they are asking for them to be read. So what if someone reading them hasn't displayed theirs. Some people are private, some aren't. "
I don’t have an opinion. I make up my own stuff when people are verified but don’t show them. I imagine they have fucked their way through the site.
Just when people suggest hidden profiles shouldn’t be able to read other peoples profiles. Maybe the whole site should be like for like. You can only read them if you display yours. If your into the lifestyle your in, or not.
Just thinking out loud.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't think 'oh them' though. I love to think that there are fabbers out there for every taste or preference, same way as a curvy girl I'm not everyone's taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about."
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read. "
Not read them but look at who as left the veri |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read.
Not read them but look at who as left the veri"
Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read.
Not read them but look at who as left the veri
Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that."
I think you hit the nail on the head there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read.
Not read them but look at who as left the veri
Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that.
I think you hit the nail on the head there."
It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm.
I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils... Treat with respect etc
Would be happy to see more veri's like this. Some of the veri's left on women's pages or about women on couples pages are very m'lady cliche cut and paste texts. Some of them are so gushingly bland about a meet which could have been anything from caressing the ladies hand through to being buttfucked pegged with a dinosaur dick.......that they become a bit meaningless. Dost he save a girls blushes? No, it comes across a creepy and a bit pointless.
Yeah need to know if she will take hard anal with cream pie or else what's the point in wasting time on her. Don't want no prunes.
What's not to like about prunes?
Winston "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read.
Not read them but look at who as left the veri
Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that.
I think you hit the nail on the head there.
It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm.
I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now. "
Is everyone you've ever fucked a carbon copy like a Robert Palmer video? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. It's none of my business.
No sense of curiosity?
Someone's sexual history doesn't interest me. As long as we're compatible that's all I care about.
It’s kind of where I sit. But there is still the curiousity factor that I’m nosey. so I do read.
Not read them but look at who as left the veri
Oh I avoid that. Don’t want to get into a place where I start to compare myself, I’ll never make any type of move of I did that.
I think you hit the nail on the head there.
It’s worrying isn’t it. They’ve seen 6ft ripped pro wrestlers in the past but she likes quirky humour and polite guys…..hmmmmm.
I think I’ll save my copy and pasted message in my notes folder for now.
Is everyone you've ever fucked a carbon copy like a Robert Palmer video? "
All at the same time? I wish. |
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I do. Mainly to check that they are actually verified, not just one of the many that have one verification from a hidden profile that’s most likely fake.
If there’s a few verifications I’ll have a look and see if what they say (like bigger women / experienced in group play etc) is shown in them.
There are a couple of people that I do avoid folks if they’ve met. Just can’t be arsed with the drama they bring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at the veris and may click on the profile, but not to compare myself to people. Mainly cos I am plain nosy and a perve  "
I do this too. I'd never compare myself because that way madness lies. If someone is really interested in you, who they've met previously is of little consequence. |
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