Re-watching Californication and there is quote that resonated with me as sometimes people don't engage through nervousness and end up missing out.
“A morning of awkwardness is better than a night of loneliness.”
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"How awkward is it?
'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.
Probably the "oh morning, did that just happen" kinda awkwardness "
I hope never to be in that position but I've seen what loneliness does to a person. I'd probably choose the awkward morning. |
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Does this statement mean it's better to have spent the night with someone you feel awkward with, instead of loneliness?
I'll take loneliness rather awkwardness. |
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"Does this statement mean it's better to have spent the night with someone you feel awkward with, instead of loneliness?
I'll take loneliness rather awkwardness. "
I took it to meant asking someone for a drink etc.  |
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"How awkward is it?
'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.
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So true..if I wake up next to my boss I'll take the loneliness option thanks
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I read it as it could be better to act on something and feel awkward than wonder what could have been.
It's good to get a different perspective on the quote though and I do agree that no fling is a fix long term loneliness and should not be taken lightly.
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"How awkward is it?
'I can't remember your name'awkward or ' OMG you're my best friends husband ' awkward.
So true..if I wake up next to my boss I'll take the loneliness option thanks
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"I'd take the loneliness. It's better than feeling like you gave your body away to some twat. I know what both feel like.
Its even worse when you feel that way after a wank  "
Daft bugger |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I haven't rewatched Californication, but my memory of it would incline me to disagree with the statement.
Such temporary relief of loneliness, perhaps accompanied with awkward regret, feels like a recipe for a deep dive into the black hole of the soul.
Also, I'm not sure I can just use another body as a quick fix for loneliness. Although, I am haappy to use a willing body for a quick fix for horniness.
I like my awkwardness at the beginning, build from there and have enough connection to navigate future awkward moments.
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