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By *oveAndBang OP Couple
over a year ago
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After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it? |
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By *oveAndBang OP Couple
over a year ago
where the mood takes us |
"Yep as a straight woman who is half a couple ,this frustrates me too.
If only the female plays then i get having no pics of him,otherwise think they should have one or 2 of him.
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Precisely,
If it's a cuck couple or hotwife couple then fair enough |
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this is a source of frustration for mrs jones when we are looking for couples. she is bi curious rather than bisexual and for us a couples meet is about a full swap with opposite partners
so ladies please encourage your partner to put some photos up for mrs jones!!!  |
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Totally agree especially if the guy will be involved in the play
I (Mrs) generally get the final day in who we meet & im more interested in the guy than the woman so if the profile is mainly full of pics if the woman it's a no before the conversations even started from us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are both happy to put our faces and bodies out here. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex and nudity is nothing to be ashamed of.
But we understand that is not everyone. But at least show equal pictures of the couple. |
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"This is a source of bewilderment to us.
How do you couples ever get together?
Honestly? We rarely do.
We feel for you.
Hope springs eternal. X"
Thank you. We kind of gave up after a couple of depressing experiences, we concentrate more on single men now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree, there's not enough photos of the males on couples profiles. It would appear the females are far more photogenic than their male partners. There's a mixture on our profile but still slightly more of Mrs BB |
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Its hard for us as Mrs is straight so isn't interested in seeing loads of pics if the female and none of the male. If a man is active then he should be pictured, it's quite simple. We always have a pretty equal mix, if slightly more of Mrs, but always a fair showing of us both.
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Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me  |
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"Agree, there's not enough photos of the males on couples profiles. It would appear the females are far more photogenic than their male partners. There's a mixture on our profile but still slightly more of Mrs BB "
People often say it's because the man is less photogenic. That doesn't fill me with hope frankly. |
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We tend to avoid those profiles. Unless they attach pics to a message. We presume they won’t be our type.
In these times it’s very easy to take photos of anything and load them on here within minutes. If they don’t know what photos to take then they probably wouldn’t be exciting in the bedroom either
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By *oveAndBang OP Couple
over a year ago
where the mood takes us |
"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me "
Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes |
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"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me
Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes"
I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more. |
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"Its hard for us as Mrs is straight so isn't interested in seeing loads of pics if the female and none of the male. If a man is active then he should be pictured, it's quite simple. We always have a pretty equal mix, if slightly more of Mrs, but always a fair showing of us both.
Mr."
agreed. it doesnt have to be an equal mix (ours isn’t) but it does seem fair to give a couple some indication of what the man looks like especially if he is playing. once a contact has been made it is then up to both parties how and when they share face pics and take the conversation forward |
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"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me
Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes
I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more. "
Do fabs actually matter to a guy ? Beards gets loads of fabs but he doesn’t put his pictures up for them and neither do I. We just put selfies up where we are having fun, out and about or on holiday. When we put up meet requests we always ask for Facebook/instragram style photos from guys as we feel any they put on there would be a better quality than ones likely to be seen on here. |
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It's a long running debate and likely one that won't ever be solved but yes, as a couple looking for couples we do like to see pics of both asap so we can establish an all round attraction, too often we've engaged in chat only for the face pics of both to be sent and we've had to end it there and then 
Obviously we have more of Alyson in our gallery but there's a fair few of me as well |
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I feel that our profile should have more pics of me ( dan) and we do have them for anyone that's interested, I just can't imagine hundreds of couple's winging there way to north Devon because of some pics of me lol  |
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"Sorry not sorry but I like taking photos for my man, which more often or not end up on here. Guess you can use it as an additional filter which is always good. We don't see if as a problem as we're seeking single men when we meet and they tend to prefer pictures of me
Totally get You however for a couple looking for both, man and woman it's just frustrating sometimes
I can appreciate that. But I can kinda see why. When as a couple a female picture will get significantly more fabs than the male. Can't be particularly nice. I try and fab or send messages when I see nice male pictures. Sometimes I think we can/should hype them up more.
Do fabs actually matter to a guy ? Beards gets loads of fabs but he doesn’t put his pictures up for them and neither do I. We just put selfies up where we are having fun, out and about or on holiday. When we put up meet requests we always ask for Facebook/instragram style photos from guys as we feel any they put on there would be a better quality than ones likely to be seen on here. "
I think they do from what I see on the forum. And it's a nice confidence boost when people like your photos regardless of gender I think. So if we want to see more male couple photos, can't harm to fab send a compliment can it?
Know if I get a nice component on a photo it increases the likelihood of me posting another. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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We have exactly the same frustration Y enjoys women possibly more than the guy's, but even so..
We've tried to get a balance, however it's predominantly pictures of her..
Have we posted enough of D? |
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It frustrates me. If we were looking for single men we'd skip over any profiles with no pictures, and the same applies to couples with only pictures of the lady. And no, a blurry, half-inserted penis doesn't class as a suitable picture in my eyes.
We have a pretty equal amount of both of us, and won't engage with couples that don't have at least two or three full-body shots of both people. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants. 
I'll fetch my feather duster shall I? "
And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It frustrates me. If we were looking for single men we'd skip over any profiles with no pictures, and the same applies to couples with only pictures of the lady. And no, a blurry, half-inserted penis doesn't class as a suitable picture in my eyes.
We have a pretty equal amount of both of us, and won't engage with couples that don't have at least two or three full-body shots of both people. "
You have a couples profile? 
Lily! Since when? |
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"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.
I'll fetch my feather duster shall I?
And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well? "
Flying helmet I'll do, celery is just grim |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
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"Or is for him getting 2 girls show with no male involved? I am still don’t know why is that way? I am straight but some soft play with women is acceptable xox I do prefer testosterone xx"
Maybe, though I'm of the same preference as you...even if they thought they were just watching I don't think anyone would want to have a ming leering at them, I couldn't think of anything more off-putting! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"You display what sells or draws the customers in in the shop window, not the dusty old crap no one wants.
I'll fetch my feather duster shall I?
And the flying helmet and the wet celery as well?
Flying helmet I'll do, celery is just grim "
Depends what it’s used for  |
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"After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it? "
Ann just looks better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm awful at taking selfies. The one I took earlier made me look like a startled Fragle.
Nelly, however, is awesome at it.
When we're together we either never get time or forget. |
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We’ve got pics of both.
We’re a full swap couple and will only engage with profiles who have the same vibe on the pic front.
Photos of mainly the fem tell us to avoid the profile. It’s a good filter.
Sasha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a while on Fab We've noticed that majority of couples profiles are full of female's pictures and very few or none of male's ones. As much as we both appreciate tasty photos of ladies in hundreds of different poses We would love to see guys being shown too. What's your thoughts about it? "
Your photos are super nice. Do you both take them?
I can see men are less careful at taking pics on here, Less effort, aesthetically talking and at editing them.
For my couple’s profile I’ll have to take the photos. Or he will under my supervision. Even for his solo profile, I took the photos . Maybe it’s just the fact that women are more into making the effort to have photogenic profile.
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