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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello,
I’ve been on here a while and spoken to few people but, still haven’t found something I want/like. I’ve been thinking it’s something to do with my profile and it’s always me messaging first.
Can people tell me what I need to improve on and what’s good?
Ps. If you want an athletic male let me know 
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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago
Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove |
It’s often a different (lower) standard meeting someone for sex as opposed to finding someone to date or have a relationship with
If you’re struggling to find someone you want to meet try asking yourself if you’re confusing the 2 things |
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"Hello,
I’ve been on here a while and spoken to few people but, still haven’t found something I want/like. I’ve been thinking it’s something to do with my profile and it’s always me messaging first.
Can people tell me what I need to improve on and what’s good?
Ps. If you want an athletic male let me know
Thank you"
You definitely need to learn to read and respect profiles OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads are pretty pointless as every one has different ideas about what makes a good profile. As long as you feel your profile is a good reflection of who you are, there's no right or wrong answer. Truth be told even with the best profile in the world, if someone isn't into you they won't reply anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These threads are pretty pointless as every one has different ideas about what makes a good profile. As long as you feel your profile is a good reflection of who you are, there's no right or wrong answer. Truth be told even with the best profile in the world, if someone isn't into you they won't reply anyway.
Good luck op "
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Hello,
I’ve been on here a while and spoken to few people but, still haven’t found something I want/like. I’ve been thinking it’s something to do with my profile and it’s always me messaging first.
Can people tell me what I need to improve on and what’s good?
Ps. If you want an athletic male let me know
Thank you"
Well, to be fair.. sometimes it could be there is nothing wrong with your profile but with the abundance of single guys (me included) its also a matter of luck as well. You will be better to go out there and see if there are clubs or group socials going g on in your area and meet new people that way. Worked for me |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I used this on a similar thread a few days ago and it'll be my standard reply now to anyone asking for profile advice.
OK.
So if someone gave you tips on writing messages that might help.
If someone else gave you tips on creating a profile that drew people in that might also help.
If someone then accompanied you to social meets to help keep conversations going and ease any nerves then that might also help.
And then if you got any play meets someone could sit on the sidelines and give pointers then too, to make sure you provided the right kind of physical stimulation.
Obviously I'm not being serious about most of the above.
But the point is this. The second other people start doing the work for you, be it a message or a profile rewrite - the interaction between you and someone else stops being just that and becomes an interaction between you, the other party and whoever is giving pointers or tips, or who helped recreate your profile.
If people want to be sure they are getting a true picture of someone via a profile and/or a message then the content needs to come from them, not anyone else.
You (generic 'you', not you specifically) wouldn't ask someone to go to a meet on your behalf and fuck someone. Why ask them to help enable that meet in the first place?
At some point - ideally from day one - people need to take responsibility for their own interactions rather than rely on assistance from others. Not helpful I know, possibly comes across as harsh, but it's really the only way people can see the real 'you' and therefore establish if they're attracted to you and interested in meeting.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Same advice you were given on your thread two weeks ago asking the same question
Sad that you know that  "
Are you not aware of the function of the little green arrow by a users name?
The exact same question was asked two weeks ago. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ps. If you want an athletic male let me know
Thank you
I’d like an athletic female, if you can get hold of one of them for me? let me know "
The problem with athletic females is they'll probably run too fast for anyone to grab hold of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"…..
Ps. If you want an athletic male let me know
Thank you
I’d like an athletic female, if you can get hold of one of them for me? let me know
The problem with athletic females is they'll probably run too fast for anyone to grab hold of. "
thats how the lasso was invented  |
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"These threads are pretty pointless as every one has different ideas about what makes a good profile. As long as you feel your profile is a good reflection of who you are, there's no right or wrong answer. Truth be told even with the best profile in the world, if someone isn't into you they won't reply anyway.
Good luck op "
Totally agree and even if they are into you, you still might not get a first message or a reply as ladies get inundated on here. Just the way it is. |
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