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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
strange post"
No just anther I'm not getting laid so let's bash women and couples post. |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
strange post
No just anther I'm not getting laid so let's bash women and couples post."
I’m getting plenty |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
strange post
No just anther I'm not getting laid so let's bash women and couples post.
I’m getting plenty "
Why don’t you mention your preferences in your bio? I haven’t looked at it but if you like gym fit women then just say so.
That’ll surely reduce the amount of out of shapers who contact you? |
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Make sure you go and tell all those gym fit folks who find non gym fit folks attractive that they're naughty naughty boys and they're letting themselves down.
How dare they like something different to themselves.
And while I'm at it, all you people with dicks, can ya just stop. I ain't got a dick, we are not the same. Leave me alone. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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Not double standards at all, people can ask for whatever they want.
I'm not a racing car driver but I'd love to own an F1 car.
Or are you saying, that only fit people can meet fit people, only slim people can meet slim people...? |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
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No just anther I'm not getting laid so let's bash women and couples post.
I’m getting plenty "
Of course you are lol |
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How is this a double standard? They are saying who they are attracted to. You get to say what you are attracted to. That's equal. Nobody has to be attracted to the same type of person as themselves. Nobody is saying who anybody ought to be attracted to. If you are not attracted to them then don't do anything with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Yes! They are working on marriage laws for quickie divorce when one partner gains more weight than the other.
About time!! |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
No, it’s called preferences.
And out of shape does not mean that they don’t look after themselves.
Also your perspective of “in good shape” will be different to others.
Plenty of people attracted to bigger bodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make sure you go and tell all those gym fit folks who find non gym fit folks attractive that they're naughty naughty boys and they're letting themselves down.
How dare they like something different to themselves.
And while I'm at it, all you people with dicks, can ya just stop. I ain't got a dick, we are not the same. Leave me alone."
Pmsl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you not qualify for their type anyway as from your profile picture you don't exactly look like a chunky guy?
You look more gym fit...
Or do I need to put my glasses on |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
Neither of us are "gym fit" and we don't expect others to be either.. Honestly overweight is a no for us though.
We've had a few couple's state the view that they see a single male as a 'toy/fantasy', whilst we find that disrespectful. That fantasy may well include the 'buff' element..
However you only do what/who you want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find it a bit surprising that (some) gym fit guys fancy me - I don't see how it's double standards though. We all have a choice who we shag (even women!).  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
I guess it is double standards really in that you have one standard for yourself but a different expectation of others.
Obviously people are entitled to seek whatever body shape they want and others are entitled to reject them (or not).
Maybe there should be a body shape filter in the search or an option to block messages in the same way men or age groups can be blocked if you're not looking for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
I suppose people have types, I don't think that's double standards.
I also think that this site enables couples and females the ability to be as selective as they want to be, given the vast number of guys on here.
If reference to your specific example, perhaps those couples or females are only satisfied by bigger cocks. Or they want someone with loads of energy who can put Mrs through her paces and throw her around alittle. Or it could be that the male half in those couples are lacking in those two areas, hence why the female is looking for fit and hung.
Ultimately who cares what the reason is, we just have to respect that we all have different needs and desires.
If you think someone has double standards then perhaps they are not for you, just delete and move on to someone you click with x |
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Great thread (I didn’t read it) I have been crying out for double standards!
It’s high time the Swinger Commission published guidelines and regulations on double. E.g. does it mean both in the fanny or one in the foof and one in the bullet hole? ffs.
Very confusing with no double standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not double standards to find a particular body type attractive but have a different body type yourself.
Do you only go for the same kind as you'd consider yourself?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
I imagine this post not going the way you want     "
It does come across as a passive aggressive way to say fatties don't deserve fitties.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Nah, I just think it’s people knowing what they like and who are we to judge? Live and let live
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
Like doesn't always attract like, that would be weird.
They are entitled to seek gym fit people in the same way as you are entitled to only meet gym fit people.
So many people are vague about what they are looking for and then get annoyed that people contacting them aren't what they are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is funny, after all everyone is entitled to like what they like.
Now to possibly teeter into the controversial, is it double standard. No.
Is it kinda funny... yes.
But then this place isn't exactly a bastion for the self aware.
Temet nosce.
What makes me laugh even more so is those looking for the exceptional, whilst being human equivalent of a 56 reg Ford Mondeo Tdci. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes me laugh even more so is those looking for the exceptional, whilst being human equivalent of a 56 reg Ford Mondeo Tdci."
I'm confused. You just said that's okay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it's ok, I have fuck all input in anyone else's choices, tastes and decisions.
To do so would be ridiculous.
Just as ridiculous as assuming I can't laugh at the, momentary absurdity, of this place.
Relax, none of it matters. Enjoy the ride however you see fit, we'll all be dead and forgotten soon. |
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"Of course it's ok, I have fuck all input in anyone else's choices, tastes and decisions.
To do so would be ridiculous.
Just as ridiculous as assuming I can't laugh at the, momentary absurdity, of this place.
Relax, none of it matters. Enjoy the ride however you see fit, we'll all be dead and forgotten soon."
I always hear Ricky gervais ‘don’t worry we’ll all be dead soon and there’s no sequel’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
You get messages?  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Great thread (I didn’t read it) I have been crying out for double standards!
It’s high time the Swinger Commission published guidelines and regulations on double. E.g. does it mean both in the fanny or one in the foof and one in the bullet hole? ffs.
Very confusing with no double standards."
Oh how Fox has missed that arse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Relax, none of it matters. Enjoy the ride however you see fit, we'll all be dead and forgotten soon.
That's deep 
I'll try to remember you though."
Sick burns bro, I'll try to get over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it's ok, I have fuck all input in anyone else's choices, tastes and decisions.
To do so would be ridiculous.
Just as ridiculous as assuming I can't laugh at the, momentary absurdity, of this place.
Relax, none of it matters. Enjoy the ride however you see fit, we'll all be dead and forgotten soon."
Fab bringing out the skeptical in you? |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
No but it is true that single ladies and couples can be very particular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scepticism, from this place?
Nah hahaha.
Loving the ride, belter mate.
Seriously I'm loving the absolute hyper literalism being used as the foundation as an argument, for your subjective experience. Irony being, you're using my subjective experience and views that I'm content with, as a point to argue error.
If you missed the point earlier, a second lap won't help.
Smile and nod lads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scepticism, from this place?
Nah hahaha.
Loving the ride, belter mate.
Seriously I'm loving the absolute hyper literalism being used as the foundation as an argument, for your subjective experience. Irony being, you're using my subjective experience and views that I'm content with, as a point to argue error.
If you missed the point earlier, a second lap won't help.
Smile and nod lads."
Or you missed the point that I was making light of it (shrugs). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Scepticism, from this place?
Nah hahaha.
Loving the ride, belter mate.
Seriously I'm loving the absolute hyper literalism being used as the foundation as an argument, for your subjective experience. Irony being, you're using my subjective experience and views that I'm content with, as a point to argue error.
If you missed the point earlier, a second lap won't help.
Smile and nod lads.
Or you missed the point that I was making light of it (shrugs). "
Such a fun derail, gents |
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"We can’t help who we are sexually attracted to ..I’m curvy and I’m only attracted to skinny body types and my husband is skinny but likes curvier women."
I'm the same, I'm a slim guy but I love myself a curvy/softer lady. It's all personal preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if a lass is really heavy set and i want her anus i should gain weight before i message?"
Of course! If I want to message a man with a beard I grow my beard first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it’s just their preference ?
I’d be gym fit if I wasn’t on a bag full of medication
I'd be gym fit if I wasn't on a bag full of chips. "
I'd be gym fit if I'd ever stepped in a gym |
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"Great thread (I didn’t read it) I have been crying out for double standards!
It’s high time the Swinger Commission published guidelines and regulations on double. E.g. does it mean both in the fanny or one in the foof and one in the bullet hole? ffs.
Very confusing with no double standards.
Oh how Fox has missed that arse.
A"
Hahahah hey you two!  |
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Everyones right to decide who they are attracted to and who they want to sleep with. As it is yours.
Maybe this is just an observation by OP or a gripe? But personally I always get vibes of entitlement and sour grapes from these sorts of posts.
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Just a preference - at least they're up front with it so if it's not for you, you can move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be sure to let all the fit men who message me know that I cant meet them as it would be double standards
Don't you dare 
Are you sure about that "
.very sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll be sure to let all the fit men who message me know that I cant meet them as it would be double standards
Don't you dare
Are you sure about that .very sure"
we should take this to dm so as not to be displaying double standards in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brutally honest we don't care if they, fat, thin, round, square or triangles. It's more the chat and banter that piques out interest. Saying that we are in fatty group of people on here lol"
You know us we are the exact same as you - it’s about clicking with someone rather than physical appearance
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Great thread (I didn’t read it) I have been crying out for double standards!
It’s high time the Swinger Commission published guidelines and regulations on double. E.g. does it mean both in the fanny or one in the foof and one in the bullet hole? ffs.
Very confusing with no double standards.
Oh how Fox has missed that arse.
A
Hahahah hey you two! "
How's Mark? Is he still ninja or has he retired?
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By *ister CMan
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Totally get where you're coming from but you're describing a preference.
And the amount of white Knight knighting here is glorious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also hear that some men here want their dick sucked, yet won't suck dick themselves. Fucking hypocrites!
Good news is I only want to meet funny, fit, successful people who can make their partners orgasm multiple times... So deffo not one for double standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not sure that is double standards. Its just there preference. What is double standards is when they put wont meet men that cant accomodate but they dont either. Now they have there reasons. Why shouldnt we. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not sure that is double standards. Its just there preference. What is double standards is when they put wont meet men that cant accomodate but they dont either. Now they have there reasons. Why shouldnt we."
If neither can accommodate and hotels aren't desirable/affordable - why is it double standards? |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Lol that includes me. I really can't do fattness though...  |
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It's the women that put down a whole shopping list of what they want in their prospective meets. The ones who make it sound like they're the most in demand pornstar. Then you take a look at their verifications and realise the vast majority are meets with guys that don't fit any of the requirements. Not quite double standards, except when they refuse to meet people that fit their requirements.
In fantasy land everyone thinks they're gods. In the reality it's basically Eastenders/Asda level with a bunch of patch work.
The whole Kevin Samuels (RIP) etc. illustrated the delusion of most men and women in our part of the world. It's about people's perception of themselves being out of touch with reality and usually this manifests in all walks of their lives. Can't blame people, they're the product of our highly materialistic society, where everyone is told this nonsense from childhood, and only discover later in life reality. |
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
strange post
No just anther I'm not getting laid so let's bash women and couples post."
Yes, these posts keep popping up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
The vast majority of people are here to fulfil fantasises. Not to fuck someone as some kind of service to the community and make them feel better.
If a bigger lady or couple want, and can get, a gym fit guy to fuck them then why shouldn't they go for it?
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's the women that put down a whole shopping list of what they want in their prospective meets. The ones who make it sound like they're the most in demand pornstar. Then you take a look at their verifications and realise the vast majority are meets with guys that don't fit any of the requirements. Not quite double standards, except when they refuse to meet people that fit their requirements.
In fantasy land everyone thinks they're gods. In the reality it's basically Eastenders/Asda level with a bunch of patch work.
The whole Kevin Samuels (RIP) etc. illustrated the delusion of most men and women in our part of the world. It's about people's perception of themselves being out of touch with reality and usually this manifests in all walks of their lives. Can't blame people, they're the product of our highly materialistic society, where everyone is told this nonsense from childhood, and only discover later in life reality."
I'm well aware of how fat I am.
Nonetheless, I'm not going to fuck men as fat as me, or my age, because I rarely find anyone who excites me.
Maybe if younger, handsome men didn't want sex with me I might have to bite the bullet and fuck someone I'm not attracted to. However, I can go a long time without sex.
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
It’s not double standards, it’s just their preference
Do you prefer people “out of shape”, or people who look after themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the women that put down a whole shopping list of what they want in their prospective meets. The ones who make it sound like they're the most in demand pornstar. Then you take a look at their verifications and realise the vast majority are meets with guys that don't fit any of the requirements.
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Not quite double standards, except when they refuse to meet people that fit their requirements.
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In fantasy land everyone thinks they're gods. In the reality it's basically Eastenders/Asda level with a bunch of patch work.
The whole Kevin Samuels (RIP) etc. illustrated the delusion of most men and women in our part of the world. It's about people's perception of themselves being out of touch with reality and usually this manifests in all walks of their lives. Can't blame people, they're the product of our highly materialistic society, where everyone is told this nonsense from childhood, and only discover later in life reality."
"Not quite double standards, except when they refuse to meet people that fit their requirements."
Ffs!! This shit cracks me up.
"Your profile says you meet men 40 - 50. I'm a 45 yr old man so you HAVE to fuck me!!"
Go have a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the women that put down a whole shopping list of what they want in their prospective meets. The ones who make it sound like they're the most in demand pornstar. Then you take a look at their verifications and realise the vast majority are meets with guys that don't fit any of the requirements. Not quite double standards, except when they refuse to meet people that fit their requirements.
In fantasy land everyone thinks they're gods. In the reality it's basically Eastenders/Asda level with a bunch of patch work.
The whole Kevin Samuels (RIP) etc. illustrated the delusion of most men and women in our part of the world. It's about people's perception of themselves being out of touch with reality and usually this manifests in all walks of their lives. Can't blame people, they're the product of our highly materialistic society, where everyone is told this nonsense from childhood, and only discover later in life reality."
Everyone is told what from childhood now??
Some blanket statements about humans in your comment. It's not my reality on Fab or in real life and I'd imagine that perspective would make you very cynical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards? "
Nah it aint double standards, its a choice.
No idea why this and age ranges bother people so much.
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Quite often get messages of couples and females who will only consider gym fit hung guys however lots are pretty out of shape and don’t look after themselves. Anybody find that double standards?
Nah it aint double standards, its a choice.
No idea why this and age ranges bother people so much.
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It only bothers them when they aren't whatever they are moaning about others wanting |
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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago
Halifax |
Basically, don't message attractive people if you aren't attractive yourself. It's like an unwritten rule.
I'm short and ugly so I know it would be hypocritical to only want to talk to hot people. |
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"Basically, don't message attractive people if you aren't attractive yourself. It's like an unwritten rule.
I'm short and ugly so I know it would be hypocritical to only want to talk to hot people. "
Anyone yoh message now will presume it's because you think they fugly now.
Wow. |
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