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What advice would you give to the person who is dating your ex
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
A few of them:
Please make them happy, they weren't right for me but they deserve to be happy. (in fact I've said just that to the fiance of an ex)
One:
Run like hell, they are an abuser.
Another:
Why did you take him back? He cheated on you 3 times. |
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He was a pathological liar, literally couldn't tell the truth about anything and addicted to gambling. I would say don't get involved but if you do, protect your money, put nothing in joint names and do not bale him out financially. Double check everything he says and if he offers evidence double check that too. |
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"He was a pathological liar, literally couldn't tell the truth about anything and addicted to gambling. I would say don't get involved but if you do, protect your money, put nothing in joint names and do not bale him out financially. Double check everything he says and if he offers evidence double check that too. "
Yipes, I'll give him a miss ta  |
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"He was a pathological liar, literally couldn't tell the truth about anything and addicted to gambling. I would say don't get involved but if you do, protect your money, put nothing in joint names and do not bale him out financially. Double check everything he says and if he offers evidence double check that too.
Yipes, I'll give him a miss ta "
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I would warn them about his forgetfulness and tell them not to take it to heart. It's because of his ADHD and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you when he forgets. He criticises himself for it for far longer than you'll even remember the incident. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd say to remind him you care about him. Frequently. Be gentle with him when he's not in a good place. Of course there'll be bad days but there are good as well. Cherish those. Don't lose who you are while you're there for him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fled my marriage in 2011, just after my ex started threatening to kill me..I think the woman he hooked up with after me deserved a medal to be honest, as by that time he'd been diagnosed with MND and she looked after him til he passed away in 2018 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts. "
Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts.
Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real. "
Yes to this  Also prepare to listen to constant moaning about how the world is out to get them  |
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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I lost count after the 1st 15 blokes it had in the 1st year after I left it
So which 1 would I have advised to keep the phyco bitch in a cage ??
And In all honesty I wouldn’t of give any of them any advice
No one warned me
So let them make the same mistake they will come out the other side stronger and a better judge of character |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts.
Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real. "
I'm sorry to hear that  |
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