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What do you class as no strings?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it means
No emotions it’s just sex
meet have sex for a couple off hours then go till next time we arrange a meet
Also then not getting huffy they seen a verification for so and so Wednesday and I didn’t ask them to come around instead
We didn’t have a meet planned
My only real rule for nsa
Is don’t fob me off for someone else
If we arrange to meet that day turn up
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I disagree I think you can be friendly and have sex without it being anything more "
Yes but think that would fall under the FB terms or the FWB terms
For me anyway there’s levels 4 to be exact
Level 1 NSA it’s just lust it’s just sex they use me I am use them bang a couple off hours zip and go
Level 2 FB means chat and stuff I ask how your weeks been I be a shoulder to cry on if need bween the times we to gether I will cuddle and watch a movie and stuff
Level 3 FBW we go on dates and stuff i wine and dine we have a blast
Level 4 girlfriend/boyfriend ooo god it’s got serious emmm think we better have that talk to see if it’s
Fully open realship
Hafe open
Or close
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"I disagree I think you can be friendly and have sex without it being anything more
Yes but think that would fall under the FB terms or the FWB terms
For me anyway there’s levels 4 to be exact
Level 1 NSA it’s just lust it’s just sex they use me I am use them bang a couple off hours zip and go
Level 2 FB means chat and stuff I ask how your weeks been I be a shoulder to cry on if need bween the times we to gether I will cuddle and watch a movie and stuff
Level 3 FBW we go on dates and stuff i wine and dine we have a blast
Level 4 girlfriend/boyfriend ooo god it’s got serious emmm think we better have that talk to see if it’s
Fully open realship
Hafe open
Or close
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While a good post I think it shows that we all have different definitions for the various terms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No strings means exactly that. Doesn't need to be devoid of emotions. I'm not a fucking robot. But I'm quite happy to enjoy what time I get with someone and each go our separate ways without having any real involvement in each others day life. That is what it means to me. And what I expect it to mean to those I'm sharing time with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I disagree I think you can be friendly and have sex without it being anything more
Yes but think that would fall under the FB terms or the FWB terms
For me anyway there’s levels 4 to be exact
Level 1 NSA it’s just lust it’s just sex they use me I am use them bang a couple off hours zip and go
Level 2 FB means chat and stuff I ask how your weeks been I be a shoulder to cry on if need bween the times we to gether I will cuddle and watch a movie and stuff
Level 3 FBW we go on dates and stuff i wine and dine we have a blast
Level 4 girlfriend/boyfriend ooo god it’s got serious emmm think we better have that talk to see if it’s
Fully open realship
Hafe open
Or close
While a good post I think it shows that we all have different definitions for the various terms "
Yes it dose show that if we were all the same life would be boring  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No strings means exactly that. Doesn't need to be devoid of emotions. I'm not a fucking robot. But I'm quite happy to enjoy what time I get with someone and each go our separate ways without having any real involvement in each others day life. That is what it means to me. And what I expect it to mean to those I'm sharing time with. "
Oh and keeping in touch via WhatsApp is perfectly acceptable... some I chat to daily others I won't chat for months in between. Its very individual but they are equally very much no strings. |
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"No strings means exactly that. Doesn't need to be devoid of emotions. I'm not a fucking robot. But I'm quite happy to enjoy what time I get with someone and each go our separate ways without having any real involvement in each others day life. That is what it means to me. And what I expect it to mean to those I'm sharing time with. "
Yes I get that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is no such thing as no strings. You can't have sex without a minimum commitment of time"
You can commit time to someone with no expectations of anything else though? Surely that is what is meant by no strings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no contact outside of arranging meets .....I had someone I met socially check in with me daily 3/4 times a day to see how my day was going etc and to tell jokes etc...it turned me off from getting into bed with that person simply because it's not what I'm looking for and I was very clear on that but some ppl just can't do NSA ..they're simply not wired like that . I definitely could not 10 years ago. |
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No string to me is two people that know what it is. You can talk as much as you like but meets is about the sex. Yes you can talk before and after but if your just meeting up for chats then that is not nsa.
It's about understand what each other want. If feeling get stronger on one side you talk it out and if that doesn't work then end meeting up.
I do find women can be more inclined to get a much deeper connection emotionally. But if you talk it out you can make it work as nsa. But everyone is different. |
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"there is no such thing as no strings. You can't have sex without a minimum commitment of time
You can commit time to someone with no expectations of anything else though? Surely that is what is meant by no strings?"
expectations are rarely equal in my opinion. I think using the phrase no strings sometimes causes people to treat others as disposable too |
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"I disagree I think you can be friendly and have sex without it being anything more
Is it just friendly banter without divulging many personal details?"
Depends on the person. Some it’s banter/sexting type stuff others it’s day to day or occasionally more personal stuff as I would with platonic friends. Some we have hobbies/interests in common that kinda thing
But it’s not constant daily loads of communication
But communication is very important to me sexually
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"there is no such thing as no strings. You can't have sex without a minimum commitment of time
You can commit time to someone with no expectations of anything else though? Surely that is what is meant by no strings?
expectations are rarely equal in my opinion. I think using the phrase no strings sometimes causes people to treat others as disposable too"
FWB is more the line I use. Mates you drink with mates chat and there is mates you have sex with. I don't have sex with all my mates just very special ones. |
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"there is no such thing as no strings. You can't have sex without a minimum commitment of time
You can commit time to someone with no expectations of anything else though? Surely that is what is meant by no strings?
expectations are rarely equal in my opinion. I think using the phrase no strings sometimes causes people to treat others as disposable too"
That's where communicating with those you're looking to meet helps. I would never assume that my idea of nsa is the same as someone else's, but I can normally ascertain fairly quickly if we are on the same wavelength. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where you have an understanding that neither of you get to tell the other one what they can and can't do with others and you won't be anything more than two people that get along and like to have to have sex. No soppy stuff, no hanging out together. But you're both respectful so neither of you feel used.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No strings would to us would be both parties not expecting any further contact after the event.
Being able to separate play time from real life is quite important, though that doesn't mean we would turn down further meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it zero emotion? Is it just having sex once a week/fortnight with zero feeling?
Discuss!! "
For me it's more of zero expectation, no strings mean more like no drama. We can be friends with benefits but we're not exclusive and you shouldn't be checking up on me if I have or meet other women. We meet up for sex and maybe even other fun stuff bit definitely not trying to form a relationship or necessarily be exclusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No strings means exactly that. Doesn't need to be devoid of emotions. I'm not a fucking robot. But I'm quite happy to enjoy what time I get with someone and each go our separate ways without having any real involvement in each others day life. That is what it means to me. And what I expect it to mean to those I'm sharing time with. "
Exactly this/ |
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