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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fabswingers is a meeting site where the vast majority don’t actually want to meet.
Fabswingers where women/couples are in the minority and can have the pick of who they choose.
It’s an interesting combination, frustrating for some and lots fun for others.
What’s your experience of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only joined in march but met plenty of lovely ppl and had lots of fun. If you combine it with clubs it's perfect for arranging to meet and keep in touch with people you've already met. |
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"Fabswingers is a meeting site where the vast majority don’t actually want to meet.
Fabswingers where women/couples are in the minority and can have the pick of who they choose.
It’s an interesting combination, frustrating for some and lots fun for others.
What’s your experience of it? "
I've found Fab to be a great way to meet likeminded fun seekers over the years. Sure; there's an element of time wasters/dreamers/nervous newbies/all-round fakes in here, but overall, I've loved the adventures I've shared because of Fab, and continue to do so!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t any complaints
I find the people who rant about that sort off thing
Don’t put effort in to they profiles
Bio reads like thay just want to get then end away witch is fine but most aren’t looking for that
They pics are a couple off hafe ass cock pics nothing about it stands out
Then you have the people who aren’t exactly truthful in they profiles
Ie looking for woman and couples but trying to meet tv/ts
And also find when ask for help and you give them it normally falls on deaf ears
As when I give help I always check the profiles 3-4 days later and normally fined no change at all
My honest opinion
Is be truthful in your profile
Be truthful in what your looking for
Ie if they just want a bang or if they want a regular play mate and movie in to more kink
For me both is fine
But have patiences
I maybe not up for that one off bang right this second
But can gartee I am going to get the horn sooner or later
And remember so and so wanted a bang so you know what let’s see they free at the weekend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see fab as social media for swingers. We don’t meet often but do enjoy clubs.
Mostly I use fab for the forums and club guest lists. Mrs doesn’t use fab at all. |
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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago
Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove |
I’ve had a couple of men turn up dressed and smelling like tramps, and some very much under the influence of alcohol
For that reason I would only meet men I have met before, at least that way I know what to expect |
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"I see fab as social media for swingers. We don’t meet often but do enjoy clubs.
Mostly I use fab for the forums and club guest lists. Mrs doesn’t use fab at all."
Excellent description
And the social part of it all is far more important to a lot of us then just getting laid. |
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By *nobyMan
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Being male and of a certain age I find it more frustrating than real life where you can at least speak (message) anyone you want. Being automatically blocked from sending messages etc. because of my age and gender is not nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is just somewhere to find people with similar interests and not a knocking shop. It can sometimes take years to get around to meeting someone in person and at other times a meet can come right out of the blue. |
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As a single woman I’m apprehensive to meet anyone from this site for sex for multiple reasons, safety being on the top of the list but I will gladly engage in various activities in club settings.
I’m on here for exploration, chat and rediscovery.
I met some fantastic people I can call friends. |
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I have had all sorts of experiences on here from unbelievable time wasters such as one who failed to turn up to a hotel meet and others who just like chatting to FWB who I saw for years. Ppl like these make the site so worthwhile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabs is a long game. You have to put in to get out but when it pays off the rewards are totally worth the mild irritations along the way.
Without it I would not have my second job and be part of an amazing team. I have met some incredibly sexy men, got up to lots of mischief through meets and have one or two "hotter than hell" FBs. I've learnt a lot about myself and other people through the forums. I get that not everyone is like me and I'm not in any hurry to try and fit in with everyone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a website where sometimes I connect with people I wanna hang out with, sometimes I don't. I like the social side of it and I like the diverse range of people I might encounter even if it is just for a wee chin wag. |
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It provides the tools for you to express yourself in whatever way you want.
Clubs, socials, cams, forums, locals…they are all accessible thanks to the site.
What you do with those tools depends on how well your FAB experience is.
We have a great time.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab isn't the be all and end all of the swinging scene, it's just a tool.
We don't rely on just fab to meet people or do the things we want but it's a handy tool for finding out about some events etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab isn't solely a meeting site, swinging for a lot of people is a community.
When we was active we rarely met from here as we preferred clubs but this is a good site to use the forums to discuss mutual interests also it has a great club section. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
We have been on here for a few years and have met up with 2 guys from here - both really nice decent fellas I might add.
That may not sound like a lot to some of you but this lifestyle isn't all consuming for us. To us it's a form of escapism from 'the norm' and a chance for my good lady to be naughty and let her hair down.
Without Fab we probably wouldn't have got this far so for us it's been a plus being a member on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good so far! We've had some great meets and befriended some lovely people 
We just bypass the time wasters, "fake profiles" and people not meeting, you soon find the gems on the site 
Miss S x |
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I can count on my hand the number of meets I’ve had solely from the site… not very many.
I use this site mostly to browse interesting profiles, fab hot pictures I see, have a natter in the forums, find out about club events and to keep in touch with friends I’ve met at said club events. Don’t have a bad word to say about fab as I feel it’s changed my life for the better from both a social and sexual perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can count on my hand the number of meets I’ve had solely from the site… not very many.
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I count on my hand for meets. Never let me down.
Apart from that one time after I'd been chopping a chilli. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arranging to meet is just over aspect to the site.
There are several others, chat rooms, clubs section, fabbed pics and videos as a few examples.
We're here to meet, when we can but when we're not available, we also enjoy the exposure side of things, the pics and vids on our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing it's different for everyone on here, some are here to meet, some are not what does it natter to you what people do with their time on here or how the use fab.
Lots meet lots don't, lots don't use the forums, lots do, lots go to to clubs abd parties only, done only here for chats.
I'm on/off here over 4 years and have had very few play meets, have been to loads of socials but way I see it, it suits me.
As someone above said there are lots of these moany threads, giving out about peoples fab journey, why not just enjoy the site for what it offers, if it doesn't offer you what you want, leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had good and bad experiences. Sadly lots of time wasting chats that lead no where. But also chats that do. It’s not the site that cause problems, it’s the people who use them. It’s an interesting debate you have started. No I don’t think you were moaning. I’m not sure how anyone could see this as negative. It has just allowed grown up debate like much of social media should. By the way gorgeous profile x |
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"I don't see fab as a meeting site I see it as a networking site. People use this site for lots of different reasons and that's OK. "
So do you think their should be a separate site like fabs then just for meeting I stead of fabswingers fabhookup or something  |
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This isn't a lifestyle choice for me or many many others. It's a distraction and a little escapism every now and again.
I come and go when it pleases me and despite having more than 60 veris over 5 years and 4 different profiles plus a handful of other meets than didn't include a veri, only 7 of those were more than a social so in many people's eyes I'm probably a timewaster and shouldn't be here because I'm not embracing what they believe to be the correct way.
I've never claimed to be a Mandalorian so if this isn't the way that's fine with me because my way is the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't a lifestyle choice for me or many many others. It's a distraction and a little escapism every now and again.
I come and go when it pleases me and despite having more than 60 veris over 5 years and 4 different profiles plus a handful of other meets than didn't include a veri, only 7 of those were more than a social so in many people's eyes I'm probably a timewaster and shouldn't be here because I'm not embracing what they believe to be the correct way.
I've never claimed to be a Mandalorian so if this isn't the way that's fine with me because my way is the way. "
Oh but you have a lovely lightsabre  |
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