we were winked by a couple who turned out to be in our village.
They knew us because we show our pics but they remained anonomous, they wrote to us but wouldn't send pics.
We know who they are now though, but never met them with play. They're still on here too |
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Try living in Guernsey, everyone seems to be in the same street, well it seems that way sometimes as when you meet someone they will always know someone that knows someone that will know you lololol. |
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I wouldn't have an issue
but then again I don't have kids or family to consider
I'm sure the neighbours have seen enough comings and goings over the last few years (and often at all hours) to know that I don't lead a convential life.
Couldn't really give a shite what they think - what goes on, goes on behind closed doors - and I don't speak to anyone bar the usual 'morning' or 'afternoon' if we pass in the street anyway. |
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You can generaly tell who might be comfortable as to what location they have on their profile - If it's an anonymous area or some imaginary place, then I guess they're looking for some discretion in their lives 
I couldn't really imagine playing with someone who's too local,, as I wouldn't want to have to bump into them in the street - I lik eot keep some aspects of my life private  |
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"Wouldn't really bother me as long as they didn't go shouting from the roof tops!"
Chances are if all are in this for the fun even a near neighbour is going to want to protect their own anonimity so in my opinion are unlikely to be spreading gossip about your lifestyle...my first question to someone who blabs such info would be...and you know this for definate because???? |
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Chances are if all are in this for the fun even a near neighbour is going to want to protect their own anonimity so in my opinion are unlikely to be spreading gossip about your lifestyle...my first question to someone who blabs such info would be...and you know this for definate because????"
Fingers crossed  |
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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago
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I have Bristol as my location as dont wanna be shagging the neighbours,,,im actually in S.Wales....I once relented and met for a coffee with a local/ish guy after being reassured he hadnt long moved to the area and we wouldnt know each other,,,he turned up for the coffee and after 5 mins of chat then realised he was best man at my cousins wedding ,,,damn,,,lol  |
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I met a guy, who was best mates with the people across the road (who have now thankfully moved away) who's daughter is friends with my son! That was close enough  |
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"I met a guy, who was best mates with the people across the road (who have now thankfully moved away) who's daughter is friends with my son! That was close enough "
There is a certain pub in town that I will never venture into again |
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Depends on the neighbour really lol we wouldn't have a problem with the majority of them in fact one of our regular fb was married to a girl from Paul's class at school and his other ex knows missgiggles quite well ( didn't know that until after the third meet lol) but were all on here and after the same thing it's not like they are going to tell people oh I met so and so on a swinging site x |
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A next door neighbour messaged me, and it was a bit too close for comfort. I did get hassled off a Fab guy who lived one street over, but he became a major harassment, so didn't meet him either. Generally prefer a little further away, as there's plenty of us for each other, without getting complications. |
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No problem as long as all involved enjoy or not enjoy equally, would be a pain in the arse if your next door neighbour turned out to be a crap shag, but wanted many more sessions or vice versa  |
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No problem for us apart from Trace doesn't really fancy him but me and his Mrs have some good banter.
We've played years ago with a workmate of mine and his wife.
They split some years back- nothing to do with swinging- but we all remained friends.
In fact he's just left after popping in for a chat, a cuppa and a grope of Traces arse on the way out!
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