When we are looking for couples we might be attracted to and get on well with, it is rare to find galleries with even one photo of the man. Hannah needs an idea of whether she would find the man in a couple attractive to know whether it's worth taking steps forward with them.
I realise some couples are not looking for the man to be involved so photos are less important. This isn't directed at those couples. Other couples who want couples to be attracted to both of you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have photos of both of you.
It is by far our biggest gripe with profiles here. I get that you think the woman in your couple looks better than the man. I get that I can ask for photos. But seriously, make it a bit easier for everybody! If there was a search option to find couples who have photos of both then we'd use it and I doubt we're the only ones.
Please have photos of both of you.
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K. |
"When we are looking for couples we might be attracted to and get on well with, it is rare to find galleries with even one photo of the man. Hannah needs an idea of whether she would find the man in a couple attractive to know whether it's worth taking steps forward with them.
I realise some couples are not looking for the man to be involved so photos are less important. This isn't directed at those couples. Other couples who want couples to be attracted to both of you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have photos of both of you.
It is by far our biggest gripe with profiles here. I get that you think the woman in your couple looks better than the man. I get that I can ask for photos. But seriously, make it a bit easier for everybody! If there was a search option to find couples who have photos of both then we'd use it and I doubt we're the only ones.
Please have photos of both of you.
End of rant. "
I agree! Not that we have loads of the Mr on our profile, but you can at least see his physique. |
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"When we are looking for couples we might be attracted to and get on well with, it is rare to find galleries with even one photo of the man. Hannah needs an idea of whether she would find the man in a couple attractive to know whether it's worth taking steps forward with them.
I realise some couples are not looking for the man to be involved so photos are less important. This isn't directed at those couples. Other couples who want couples to be attracted to both of you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE have photos of both of you.
It is by far our biggest gripe with profiles here. I get that you think the woman in your couple looks better than the man. I get that I can ask for photos. But seriously, make it a bit easier for everybody! If there was a search option to find couples who have photos of both then we'd use it and I doubt we're the only ones.
Please have photos of both of you.
End of rant.
I agree! Not that we have loads of the Mr on our profile, but you can at least see his physique. "
Exactly. One or two is fine just to give an idea, but not just a knob pic. It would help soooooo much. |
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It’s difficult one as mostly looking for mmf fun so most guys want to see me not hubby. Have always been open to idea of couples but hubby is very well built so can put guys off not sure if same with couples xx |
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We use it as a filter. On every occasion we met without clear pictures of the guy it turned out they didn't want to be involved with me. Basically they just wanted to watch their partner with another man or incredibly as I'm straight, another woman. I found the lack of respect for me staggering. We rarely meet couples now |
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"We use it as a filter. On every occasion we met without clear pictures of the guy it turned out they didn't want to be involved with me. Basically they just wanted to watch their partner with another man or incredibly as I'm straight, another woman. I found the lack of respect for me staggering. We rarely meet couples now"
That's really shit. |
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"We use it as a filter. On every occasion we met without clear pictures of the guy it turned out they didn't want to be involved with me. Basically they just wanted to watch their partner with another man or incredibly as I'm straight, another woman. I found the lack of respect for me staggering. We rarely meet couples now
That's really shit. "
Yep. I often raise an eyebrow when people complain about single men when I recall a couple of very depressing experiences with reluctant men in couples |
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"Just assume they’re ugly and move on 
We would but there are so few to move on to that don't have exactly the same issue. "
True.
Looking for decent people takes time. They are out there, but definitely rare.
We’ve yet to find a couple we click with, pics or no pics.
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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
"Just assume they’re ugly and move on
We would but there are so few to move on to that don't have exactly the same issue.
True.
That's why clubs are better
Looking for decent people takes time. They are out there, but definitely rare.
We’ve yet to find a couple we click with, pics or no pics.
Good luck!"
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K. |
"Just assume they’re ugly and move on
We would but there are so few to move on to that don't have exactly the same issue.
True.
Looking for decent people takes time. They are out there, but definitely rare.
We’ve yet to find a couple we click with, pics or no pics.
Good luck!"
We are lucky to have found 2 couples that we really click with in the bedroom and in the vanilla world...they will have to pry our cold dead hands off them before we let them go. So hard to find the right fit.  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Well said !
On our couple profile we have plenty of jack as we both meet.
I'm straight so profiles full of just the lady do nothing for me.
I agree if both parties meet & get involved they should have 1 or 2 of him. |
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We have plenty of pictures of me (the Mr)... And I realised recently (to my horror) that they are mostly the first ones you get to in the gallery... But hey.. If the men can be bothered to scroll past my bum then they will enjoy the pictures afterwards.. delayed gratification innit  |
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