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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
This 
Sometimes it's necessary to just cut and run.
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over a year ago
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
This hands down. |
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
Wholeheartedly agree. |
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It depends on how long you’ve been together and the reason for ending it…
If it was quite a short or casual relationship, I would just be quite to the point but compassionate, and then cut ties & block if needed
If it was a longer relationship or more potential heartache involved, be considerate of their feelings but be honest and don’t give false hope. Face to face I think is best
If they’ve cheated, screwed you over, been abusive etc, break up with them however you prefer and whichever causes you the least upset (phone, text, face to face), then block them, get some things planned in with your friends and go out and have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
Agree |
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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago
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"Being truthful and telling them in person "
agree with you here. Kinda hate that we are in the age off let's just dump them over a quick text and fuck off at least show you gave a shit at some point x
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
Absolutely this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn’t a best way. There is sometimes the only way. And sadly it’s sometimes filled with sadness, spite, revenge and point scoring.
Again there is no best way, but I would suggest at a wise old age where I can say I’m not in school anymore, being mature and honest about it should work out best no matter how you do it… But didn’t use text, a text is a shitty idea. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
Ideally, before resentment and anger sets in, face to face, in an environment where you both feel safe, comfortable and able to express yourselves without accusations or aggression, and in such a way that you can have casual social interactions in future.
If you can’t do that, and most of us can’t, just do the best you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake your own death.
Fake someone else’s death then vanish.
Organise a funeral, then say oops that’s meant to be me! Bloody phone didn’t remind me. Jump into coffin lie very still.
Convince them you are imaginary.
Convince them you ARE them, but from the future, and it’s just wrong (and technically wanking)
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"It depends on how long you’ve been together and the reason for ending it…
If it was quite a short or casual relationship, I would just be quite to the point but compassionate, and then cut ties & block if needed
If it was a longer relationship or more potential heartache involved, be considerate of their feelings but be honest and don’t give false hope. Face to face I think is best
If they’ve cheated, screwed you over, been abusive etc, break up with them however you prefer and whichever causes you the least upset (phone, text, face to face), then block them, get some things planned in with your friends and go out and have fun. "
I think this covers it well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fake your own death.
Fake someone else’s death then vanish.
Organise a funeral, then say oops that’s meant to be me! Bloody phone didn’t remind me. Jump into coffin lie very still.
Convince them you are imaginary.
Convince them you ARE them, but from the future, and it’s just wrong (and technically wanking)
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Working my way through these...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With honesty and compassion.
People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."
^ this. |
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my last two relationships were ended this way, one of them being a 5 year relationship 
