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if it wasnt for meets on fab i would have no sex life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab has actually helped my social confidence and helped with my sex life. So having read your op and wanting to answer, and this is just my personal opinion. Yes, I also wouldn’t have a sex life if it wasn’t for fab, but that’s not a bid thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry you're feeling sad about it, OP. For the last 7 years I've only had sex with people from fab. I met my partner here too. I don't meet anyone in day to day life that are available, attractive, or who would find me attractive. I'm happy with knowing fab is there as and when I require. It might take a bit of searching before finding someone, bit it's there. |
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"I been on here 2years now and still no sex at all it's over 2 decades since I had sex now"
Ouch! I sympathise.
If it helps at all your comment did make me feel slightly less crap about my zero sex life 
Ladies of fab, someone please please go and rescue this poor chap!! |
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"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.  "
Same here op - but that’s absolutely by choice. On fab I can be totally honest about what I’m looking for - and what I offer in return. There’s no game playing and I’ve had by far the best sex of my life on here and met some amazing men and women that I’d never have met if it wasn’t for fab.
I expect to be here for another decade at least.  |
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Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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I'm just too shy to meet people the good ol fashion way so fab is the only way that I get a sex life (when I'm looking). Also, because I'm a bit kinky it is quite helpful for that too. Hell, if it wasn't for the Internet I'd probably still be a virgin. God bless modern technology lol |
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"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all. "
I’m not exclusive to Fab, there are other sites I use to meet likeminded fun seekers, and I can actually pull in the vanilla world too (though my forum fan club would find that difficult to believe I imagine  ) . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last 3 times I had sex 2 were through Fab and 1 wasn't.
2023 is the 1 that wasn't through Fab and was a just a wild and exciting, unplanned (drink fuelled) night with a friend. We decided it was a one off, the 19yr age gap between us put her off anything more serious. |
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"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here 
I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises. "
You don't need to limit yourself. There's plenty of ugly penises here as well   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here
I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.
How is that possible. You look stunning  "
Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here
I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.
How is that possible. You look stunning
Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life. "
So you wanna meet because you want me to be savagely disappointed?! That's very cold, but also very you and I respect it enough to fuck you anyway  |
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"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here
I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.
How is that possible. You look stunning
Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life. "
It’s a shame I’m too young for you…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here
I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.
How is that possible. You look stunning
Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life.
So you wanna meet because you want me to be savagely disappointed?! That's very cold, but also very you and I respect it enough to fuck you anyway "
It'd be like kicking a puppy.
Not that I want to actually kick a puppy, just to clarify I love dogs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab has actually helped my social confidence and helped with my sex life. So having read your op and wanting to answer, and this is just my personal opinion. Yes, I also wouldn’t have a sex life if it wasn’t for fab, but that’s not a bid thing. "
How has it helped? Social confidence? Woody! |
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx"
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
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We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
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All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
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Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
.
"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
.
We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
.
All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
.
Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution."
Food for thought,of most of us applied some of this and being realistic on here and the wider world what really could be possible and really tangible!
Yet the power struggle and silly game's shall continue in here and elsewhere.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
.
"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
.
We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
.
All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
.
Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution."
So what you're saying is be less picky? |
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
.
"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
.
We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
.
All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
.
Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.
So what you're saying is be less picky? "
Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
.
"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
.
We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
.
All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
.
Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.
So what you're saying is be less picky?
Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive."
I don't read magazines and I know what I want. |
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"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.
Kx
This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.
.
"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."
.
We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.
.
And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.
.
All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.
.
The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.
.
It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."
.
True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.
.
Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.
So what you're saying is be less picky?
Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive.
I don't read magazines and I know what I want. "
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This is why I came off the dating sites, lots of nilla not hitting the spot 
