Afternoon ladies and gents 
Hope you’re all well 
I just wanted a bit of advice ….
I’m on holiday and met some really nice people in the resort been out for a couple of drinks a couple of nights
So there’s 2 couples one of the ladies of the couples is quite the flirt with everyone
The other is friendly but a little more reserved
The gents are just genuinely nice fella’s
Not sure wether either are into this lifestyle or not but I’d like to find out …. What is the best way of bringing it up in a conversation without coming across as the creepy single guy 
Thank you in advance
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're on holiday, you're never going to see them again, go for it.
Tell them that story about when you were on holiday last year and you'd made friends with these two couples that turned into a whole lot more than friendship... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to think that we don’t need to take swinging and Fab everywhere with us. Enjoy your holiday, enjoy their company. IF they moved things along from ‘flirting) (if it is indeed flirting), then I dare say you’ll have a blast. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Imagine if they liked the thought when you brought it up and just did a straight swap. That would be gutting.
I have mentioned swinging in conversations before just to see peoples reactions. You are only testing the water.
You are there and know how the conversations are going. Good luck whatever you decide. |
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Calculate the odds Vs what you primary desire. Maybe they are or are open to it (people sometimes do things they wouldnt do on holiday). But chances are they are not and chances are if you approach the subject (in any fashion) they'll want to distance them selves from you as a result of your unwanted advance. Or a slight possibility they will not shun you for your advance and it still continue being freinds.
So chance it if your happy to lose what you have at the moment. But if your main focus is enjoying it as things are leave it. |
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but then again in your own head be it 
Yeah maybe not a god idea 