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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After 5 years I've had my first no show.
Last week it was being named and shamed as a time waster by not allowing a guy over for a first meet with my child in the house.
Finally feel I've hit the side of fab so many moan about. Lol
Off home to mum it up and bake cakes for the school summer fare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5 years I've had my first no show.
Last week it was being named and shamed as a time waster by not allowing a guy over for a first meet with my child in the house.
Finally feel I've hit the side of fab so many moan about. Lol
Off home to mum it up and bake cakes for the school summer fare "
Welcome to the club ..its the pits innit... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He's just messaged saying he'd not heard anything since 11am (when we arranged we'd meet at 1:15pm leaving it at see you then) and accused me of playing games lol.
Do people really need 2 hours of reassurance before a meet once it's arranged  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After 5 years I've had my first no show.
Last week it was being named and shamed as a time waster by not allowing a guy over for a first meet with my child in the house.
Finally feel I've hit the side of fab so many moan about. Lol
Off home to mum it up and bake cakes for the school summer fare Welcome to the club ..its the pits innit..."
I mean to be fair at least it's not going to be a mad rush to get the cakes done now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's just messaged saying he'd not heard anything since 11am (when we arranged we'd meet at 1:15pm leaving it at see you then) and accused me of playing games lol.
Do people really need 2 hours of reassurance before a meet once it's arranged "
You'd think not but it's a whole new world on here .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A quick message just before to say "I'm on my way" or whatever is fine if you want to but it's not really needed  "
I was at lunch at the school with my daughter (which he knew) and I text at 1 to let him know I was just leaving.
I think it was just an excuse but that's the way the cookie crumbles lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A quick message just before to say "I'm on my way" or whatever is fine if you want to but it's not really needed
I was at lunch at the school with my daughter (which he knew) and I text at 1 to let him know I was just leaving.
I think it was just an excuse but that's the way the cookie crumbles lol"
And yet he called you a time waster? Ahh this is why we have a bad reputation |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"A quick message just before to say "I'm on my way" or whatever is fine if you want to but it's not really needed
I was at lunch at the school with my daughter (which he knew) and I text at 1 to let him know I was just leaving.
I think it was just an excuse but that's the way the cookie crumbles lol"
Well if you text him at 1 then you didn't go quiet on him.So I would agree with you that he is just making an excuse and really probably isn't worth a second chance.
Mind you I wouldn't give a second chance anyhow as it takes less than a minute to send a message to say you aren't going to go and no one is that busy they can't send a message before the time you are to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A quick message just before to say "I'm on my way" or whatever is fine if you want to but it's not really needed
I was at lunch at the school with my daughter (which he knew) and I text at 1 to let him know I was just leaving.
I think it was just an excuse but that's the way the cookie crumbles lol
And yet he called you a time waster? Ahh this is why we have a bad reputation "
To be fair it's my own fault. He cancelled twice this week but I thought I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. Should have known lol.
I always take something to do and I just chilled for an hour and enjoyed my coffee.
Onwards and upwards lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The very first meet I arranged from here ghosted just before. I've been stood up many times on BDSM sites but understand that people talk a good game then crap out when it's time to meet. The notion of someone arranging to come for a fuck and not show was an alien concept to me. I've now learnt that it's fairly common lol. Someone once said I should take a deposit and if they don't show at least you can go get a drink. Not my style but made me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the odd one will always slip thro no matter how good you are at picking meets ...his lost hope you've blocked him .... and baking cakes is thee best way to move forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My very first fab meet stood me up so I think you must be doing rather well if it has taken 5years for this to happen. Still not nice though so hope you are OK.x"
I don't get how guys just ghost meets... I struggle to get a message so when meets do come up I'm fucking buzzing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My very first fab meet stood me up so I think you must be doing rather well if it has taken 5years for this to happen. Still not nice though so hope you are OK.x"
Yeah I had a good run lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the odd one will always slip thro no matter how good you are at picking meets ...his lost hope you've blocked him .... and baking cakes is thee best way to move forward"
Yeah all blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My very first fab meet stood me up so I think you must be doing rather well if it has taken 5years for this to happen. Still not nice though so hope you are OK.x
I don't get how guys just ghost meets... I struggle to get a message so when meets do come up I'm fucking buzzing "
Maybe he was worried I was a man lol |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"After 5 years I've had my first no show.
Last week it was being named and shamed as a time waster by not allowing a guy over for a first meet with my child in the house.
Finally feel I've hit the side of fab so many moan about. Lol
Off home to mum it up and bake cakes for the school summer fare "
We must have a deranged madman roaming the streets. What a tosser!
His loss - cos you look fantastic |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"My very first fab meet stood me up so I think you must be doing rather well if it has taken 5years for this to happen. Still not nice though so hope you are OK.x
Yeah I had a good run lol"
Yeah, what's your secret ...?!
...even with my cunning filtering plans I still get blind sided now and then by a timewaster  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"After 5 years I've had my first no show.
Last week it was being named and shamed as a time waster by not allowing a guy over for a first meet with my child in the house.
Finally feel I've hit the side of fab so many moan about. Lol
Off home to mum it up and bake cakes for the school summer fare
We must have a deranged madman roaming the streets. What a tosser!
His loss - cos you look fantastic "
Awww thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My very first fab meet stood me up so I think you must be doing rather well if it has taken 5years for this to happen. Still not nice though so hope you are OK.x
Yeah I had a good run lol
Yeah, what's your secret ...?!
...even with my cunning filtering plans I still get blind sided now and then by a timewaster "
No idea. I'm pretty picky lol. Maybe that's why. I've definitely been lucky |
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"He's just messaged saying he'd not heard anything since 11am (when we arranged we'd meet at 1:15pm leaving it at see you then) and accused me of playing games lol.
Do people really need 2 hours of reassurance before a meet once it's arranged "
What a numpty... I'd say he chickened out and is not trying to transfer blame to you. |
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"He's just messaged saying he'd not heard anything since 11am (when we arranged we'd meet at 1:15pm leaving it at see you then) and accused me of playing games lol.
Do people really need 2 hours of reassurance before a meet once it's arranged
What a numpty... I'd say he chickened out and is not trying to transfer blame to you."
*Now not not... Ffs |
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I can’t abide time wasters it’s so hard to meet decent people on here especially as a single guy, I can see just from looking at your profile you are the real deal but given that’s your first no show in 5 years you haven’t do too bad and if you need a substitute just let me know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can’t abide time wasters it’s so hard to meet decent people on here especially as a single guy, I can see just from looking at your profile you are the real deal but given that’s your first no show in 5 years you haven’t do too bad and if you need a substitute just let me know "
I think I've been very lucky lol. Slide into my DMs, let's talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got stood up a couple of weeks ago for the first time since I was about 20. Met him twice before, hotel room booked. Was sat in the car park waiting with a bag full of sex toys like a right nob.
It really sucks, sorry you had to go through it too  |
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