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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
I’m sure some do.
Probably because they like it."
I’m guessing they do like it, but what’s the driving factor? Is it a father figure thing? I’m not sure. I’m getting inundated by 18 year olds messaging me looking for older guys. |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
I’m sure some do.
Probably because they like it.
I’m guessing they do like it, but what’s the driving factor? Is it a father figure thing? I’m not sure. I’m getting inundated by 18 year olds messaging me looking for older guys. "
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over a year ago
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20.  "
Your bio says women aged 18-27 I don’t understand the problem here |
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20. "
When I was 21 I had a 19 year okd friend who's boyfriend was in his 60s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why? "
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes. |
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20.
When I was 21 I had a 19 year okd friend who's boyfriend was in his 60s "
Blimey! For what reason though? Money? Or kindness?  |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
I’m sure some do.
Probably because they like it.
I’m guessing they do like it, but what’s the driving factor? Is it a father figure thing? I’m not sure. I’m getting inundated by 18 year olds messaging me looking for older guys. "
I had a spate of fakes doing that to me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes. "
Hey! Some of us can locate the clitoris without Google maps I'll have you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes. "
I do. Haven’t really been with anyone my own age (bar one or two experiences) for years. And this comment is exactly why! |
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20.
Your bio says women aged 18-27 I don’t understand the problem here "
That might be it then!
I prefer a woman to look like a woman and not a teenie bobber ! |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes. "
Learning the ropes?! Lol
Is that what they call it . On the job work experience!  |
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20.
When I was 21 I had a 19 year okd friend who's boyfriend was in his 60s
Blimey! For what reason though? Money? Or kindness? "
He was broke so it definitely wasn't money . She just liked him. He was kinda controlling though so it didn't last long and he moved on to another in her early 20s. She's now married to someone only about 5 years older I think. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes. "
Unfortunately, they are often, very much mistaken, in my experience |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes.
Hey! Some of us can locate the clitoris without Google maps I'll have you know "
Yeah right |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes.
Hey! Some of us can locate the clitoris without Google maps I'll have you know
Yeah right "
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I like men in their 40s and I'm 30 if that counts.
I was really talking about teenage women going for guys in their 30’s , 40’s ….
I’m getting loads of messages each day from women under 20. "
Chat to them and find out if they are genuine. Don't send nudes |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes.
Unfortunately, they are often, very much mistaken, in my experience "
What do you mean by that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes.
Hey! Some of us can locate the clitoris without Google maps I'll have you know
Yeah right
Haha "
We still use an A-Z I’ll have you know. |
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"I'm sure most women prefer men a few years older at least. Do women in their 20s fancy men 40+? Only in mens head lol"
I dated a guy 30 years my senior when I was 28. Didn't last long, it was the first time for both of us for a large age gap. |
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"Alas most men in their 40s won't be attractive to younger women. You have to know your limit. Anyway surely it's a bit embarrassing to have a young lady with a big age difference on your arm?"
I agree. You can hear them all whispering ‘is that his granddaughter?’ Lol
But if you’re under the sheets, no one’s looking! |
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"Alas most men in their 40s won't be attractive to younger women. You have to know your limit. Anyway surely it's a bit embarrassing to have a young lady with a big age difference on your arm?"
Bit embarrassing vs massive ego boost.
Potato/Potahtoe I guess |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
We have wisdom and maturity. We don't feel we need to compete with all the young guys.
A certain sense of "don't give a fuckism"
No mortgage and lots of disposable income.
Good oral skills.
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Yes, I’ve always gone for older men, usually around 10 years older. I’m not attracted to boyish looks, I prefer men who are a bit more weathered haha. Usually find they have more subtle confidence, better chat, just generally sexier. |
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"Weathered I like that. You need a seafaring old sea dog then. "
I’ve always been attracted to more rugged guys… give me scars, weather-beaten skin and broken noses over a pretty boy any day haha. They’re not (usually) as needy as the younger ones either x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For local yes I do
I find guys my own age or younger are just looking for a brag bang to tell they mates down the pub or what ever in some group chat or something
Don’t need stuff flying around my door step or close to home for family or friends to hear
How Daved came over I sucked him like a dyson then he banged me all night this way that way and the next and I screemed his name and begged for his dick
When in reality
Yes daved came over yes I sucked Daved like a dyson
Yes Daved did bang me but wasn’t quite as he sed Daved only lasted 4-5 minutes and poped his load and ran just as I was getting in to it
Now everyone knows and I am painted and the local bike
I mean I am but don’t need everyone to know
Find older guys are out off that fase off life
So don’t need to worry about everyone knowing and Tom the older guy can come around and take a ride when he likes for being discreet
Sorry for the long post just thought I would explain my awner |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
They do. Many prefer experienced, confident men who know exactly what they're doing to fumbling little boys still learning the ropes.
Hey! Some of us can locate the clitoris without Google maps I'll have you know "
What's Google maps? |
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over a year ago
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"Alas most men in their 40s won't be attractive to younger women. You have to know your limit. Anyway surely it's a bit embarrassing to have a young lady with a big age difference on your arm?"
Pardon? Why would I be embarrassed with an intelligent pretty woman next to me? I’d be f’kin honoured.
Her age wouldnt embarrass me, it’s the immature onlookers who are looking my way and not getting along in their own f’kin lives.
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Some do (ok I am transgender but as a penis owning human I feel still can input on this ). My regular play mate is 18 and she is pretty switched on mentally for decent shared hobby/ interest conversations ..ontop of the sexual side .
I am 23 years older than her . Her view is simply she finds most trans women her age group dickheads and ranty / zealots to be around for too long … With me she likes I am run of the mill, laid back and just enjoy sexual experiences with no drama / stress … |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course they do.
The older I get, the more attention I get from younger women. Though historically I've always been more attracted to people older than me.
Younger women see older guys as safer, less full of bullshit, more experienced, financially secure, more in touch with their emotions etc. Young guys might look nice, but they're often quite vacuous and lack subtlety both sexually and emotionally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My other half is 14yrs older than me - his age is irrelevant his personality is everything!
It’s not an age I find attractive it’s the person - he is however a total silver fox "
Me too! x |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
I’m sure some do.
Probably because they like it.
I’m guessing they do like it, but what’s the driving factor? Is it a father figure thing? I’m not sure. I’m getting inundated by 18 year olds messaging me looking for older guys. "
Its more likely they are looking for your money  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why?
I’m sure some do.
Probably because they like it.
I’m guessing they do like it, but what’s the driving factor? Is it a father figure thing? I’m not sure. I’m getting inundated by 18 year olds messaging me looking for older guys. Its more likely they are looking for your money "
In my experience, not at all |
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I am older trans woman and I have a few younger women I spend time with , one of my fuck buddies is 18 .. she is just obsessed with the chick with a dick / boobs aspect. I find in the lgbt community there is a very open sense to age amongst some
I find younger men more problematic though generally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, of course, does depend on each individual person though.
Some are bloody lovely and some unfortunately are not so nice!
Same with all ages that though, good and bad with all age ranges. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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12.5 years difference here and it just works.
Mostly because we are both nourishing our inner children together.
And if I need to wipe His bum one day so be it !
T. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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like all thing as they get older many will start to get problems male or female physical or mentally so the pool of men/women who can have a good session becomes harder .... now as a older woman ive lost no sex drive if anything its higher now than ever so a fuck n go wont cut it for me its ahs to be a good session if you cum you repeat sort of guys so thats what i look for in a man on top of sexual attraction ...
so what i look for affects who going to meet me or not im very blunt when exchanging message's im not interested if all you want is to empty your balls so the age group of men i generally meet is 30 to 40 some younger some older are guys who can go the distance its never about the age its about what i get from it and what i can give you ...
its swinging people look for what they want and what they want from it we are all different some like quickie some dont some like certain ages some dont so like a rock hard cock some wont care its a scene where people can pick ..its swinging there no entitlement there no sex on a plate or you will get sex no matter what its an attraction and matching scene it a fact sadly that women and couples will always do very well in (even if theres a lot of rubbish to sort) and sadly men wont due to the numbers and percentages
men have it tough at any age but men 60+ will find it very tough unless already on the (tiny) club scene and well known again down to % mainly
some time people need to be bluntly open
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why? "
Some do for sure as I seem to get phone sex with them and have met a girl in her 20s a few times. |
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For me it's a maturity thing, I just find men my own age a little 'laddish'.
10 years older than me and up i seem to be able to get on better with, in general (that doesn't mean I think all)they have a little more life experience etc.
But women, I'm happy with my age
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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago
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"For me it's a maturity thing, I just find men my own age a little 'laddish'.
10 years older than me and up i seem to be able to get on better with, in general (that doesn't mean I think all)they have a little more life experience etc.
But women, I'm happy with my age
Xx"
We're like a fine wine/whiskey we get better with age |
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"For me it's a maturity thing, I just find men my own age a little 'laddish'.
10 years older than me and up i seem to be able to get on better with, in general (that doesn't mean I think all)they have a little more life experience etc.
But women, I'm happy with my age
Xx
We're like a fine wine/whiskey we get better with age "
Yes definately!! |
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"For me it's a maturity thing, I just find men my own age a little 'laddish'.
10 years older than me and up i seem to be able to get on better with, in general (that doesn't mean I think all)they have a little more life experience etc.
But women, I'm happy with my age
Xx"
How about 30 years older?
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I've always preferred older men, can't say why particularly... thats not to say I don't enjoy having fun with younger guys too though lol... its usually younger guys hound invites to join us in club, im a lucky vixen, get the best of both |
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why? "
I must admit, since turning 50 in here, I receive more interest from younger women than those of an age similar to me, and long may that continue |
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"I've always preferred older men, can't say why particularly... thats not to say I don't enjoy having fun with younger guys too though lol... its usually younger guys hound invites to join us in club, im a lucky vixen, get the best of both "
0lder man here with a liking for a Vixen!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't dated anyone older than me for over 20 years - so yes, women often like older men, for a variety of reasons.
I always come with this disclaimer: "Please do not assume I have my shit together". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do younger women actually go for older men? And why? "
Some do ..some don't ..it's all about great sex & connection no matter what age , if an older guy gives a woman multiple orgasm's she's gonna want that ..if a younger woman want to fuck an older guy simply because she loves fucking him and him her well then that's gonna happen too , everyone has different tastes and needs but the bottom line is whatever does it for whose involved or what works . |
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