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How often do women message first ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How often do women message first on here I guess it does happen but not as regular as I thought it would as a women what stops you from messaging someone you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
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I assume the reason some women message me first do so based on my forum presence. Local women never message me first and I've stopped sending the first message too. I suppose the downside to that is not many of the forum interactions rsult in a meet due to various reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
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Expand the age range?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my best meets as a single came from women that messaged first. Some women just block delete all messages and go look for what they want and that worked for me when single |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've sent quite a few first messages.I don't mind sending a first message if it's a profile I like or something that catches my attention like the forum's or a status.The worst they can do is ignore it after all. |
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Quite often in fact, I’ve had women message first from all over. Usually from a forum post or if they see we’re going to the same club and to meet in maybe one occasion.
Having a decent profile that stands out helps I guess. |
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By *KloganMan
over a year ago
Ramsbottom |
A few.. and they’ve all been really lovely and ridiculously ace humans to get to know.
I don’t know why, maybe it’s my profile? Location? Boredom? Who knows? but it’s a treat to get one in the inbox.
One in particular 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had my “tape measure” pic’ on display, I’d get quite a few first contact from women. I guess the silly nature of the pic’ was a conversation starter.
I still get the odd first message from women, usually to compliment that profile made them giggle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Barely ever. Always think that the guys I like would never be interested in me  "
Had a wee peek at you, and there is nothing I see that would put me off.  |
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"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
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Take note lads ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
Expand the age range? "
That's the range im looking for. Everything else I can find elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nowhere near as many from guys...!
Is always nice when I do receive and we connect and meet-up, since much prefer kissing the lady’s than I do a guy (sorry guys). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 99% off the time
well the ones who aren’t new
Most woman who have been here a while have there filters set tight
So they mail box’s don’t get bombared
If they see someone they like they message witch in turned voids the filter for that person
So normally it’s the woman messaging first so she can still keep filters up |
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I haven't sent a first contact message since the beginning of 2020 so every conversation in the last 2½ years has been initiated by the women who have messaged first.
They all say that the effort I put into my profile and my forum engagement encourages them to say hello even if it's the first time they have made first contact with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
But if you’re finding the age range you’ve selected not suitable .. then surely you need to change ?
Expand the age range?
That's the range im looking for. Everything else I can find elsewhere. "
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Some will be comfortable doing so, some won’t.
The ones that are OK with it just need to be given sufficient reason to do so; that part is on you.
If it helps give any credibility, I had someone message me yesterday with a lovely compliment on my profile and we DM’d across the rest of the evening.
Make yourself someone people would like to talk to and they will.  |
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
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That's because of your age range lol you're look for boys and not men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do women message first on here I guess it does happen but not as regular as I thought it would as a women what stops you from messaging someone you like "
0.000000000000000001% of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done and would do it more but 99.9% of male profiles in the age range i seek only have extreme cock shot close ups and profile text that says "will fill in later" or "just ask" along with statuses branding all women as time wasters.
That's because of your age range lol you're look for boys and not men"
Yes, aunty/nephew dynamics seem to work better with people substantially younger than me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments. |
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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago
Halifax |
"Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments. "
Damnnn. You didn’t even have to try. Guys will bone pretty much anything and I know I’d show up too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments.
Damnnn. You didn’t even have to try. Guys will bone pretty much anything and I know I’d show up too. "
I've been stood up at hotel meets and when hosting at my home many, many times. |
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By *arco_pMan
over a year ago
Hednesford |
"Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments.
Damnnn. You didn’t even have to try. Guys will bone pretty much anything and I know I’d show up too.
I've been stood up at hotel meets and when hosting at my home many, many times. "
more fool them for not showing to an extremley sexy lady, but then i guess that is what spoils it then as doesn't exactley fill you with confidence for the next one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments.
Damnnn. You didn’t even have to try. Guys will bone pretty much anything and I know I’d show up too.
I've been stood up at hotel meets and when hosting at my home many, many times.
more fool them for not showing to an extremley sexy lady, but then i guess that is what spoils it then as doesn't exactley fill you with confidence for the next one"
I just move on. There is quite a surplus of men on here. Some are heaps of fun so I just focus on those rather than the flakes. |
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By *arco_pMan
over a year ago
Hednesford |
"Once there was someone I liked on here so I messaged him telling him that I had a hotel booked and I'd like to meet him there, I even sent the booking confirmation so he knew it was a genuine offer.
He turned up and it was a great meet.
Typical fab messages I get from guys when my age filters are down are just graphically sexual comments.
Damnnn. You didn’t even have to try. Guys will bone pretty much anything and I know I’d show up too.
I've been stood up at hotel meets and when hosting at my home many, many times.
more fool them for not showing to an extremley sexy lady, but then i guess that is what spoils it then as doesn't exactley fill you with confidence for the next one
I just move on. There is quite a surplus of men on here. Some are heaps of fun so I just focus on those rather than the flakes. "
good for you |
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