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Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
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"Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
What does it for you?! "
Cold soup and raw eggs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to block for all sorts of little to big reasons. I don’t anymore, I rely on them blocking me. And I’m always surprised at some that do.
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Idiots
People that dont read my profile
If they can't accommodate
Straight but want to suck my cock I mean WTF
Been on 12 months blank profile
Been on 12 months no verifications
The list goes on......
Blocking just saves wasting my time |
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over a year ago
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"If you haven't read my profile ...I detest overly eager men... and the one liners...ugh ...nothing irks me more than ppl who don't read as it relates to stats or profiles.
Also fetishizing skin color ...huge turn off for me particularly if its what you open with 
I've had someone I blocked start a whole race related thread simply to tell me I'm overly sensitive ...petty much ?  "
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"Demands, instructions or a list of reasons why I'll never be successful on here but they'll add me to their to-do list if I follow their guidelines
Wow  "
All from very well verified couples.
Lose the beard or you won't be fucking the wife.
You're too old, too straight and too male so you don't have options. Agree to play bi and/or guarantee a sexy lady and we might consider putting you on a future list.
Facepic and phone number now or forget it.
Bearing in mind they had all contacted me and all had 60-100 veries I couldn't understand why it was my loss when I sent a two word reply, the second of which was off |
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"Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
What does it for you?!
Cold soup and raw eggs."
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"Only block people who are rude to me anything else I use the private note feature has been very handy x"
I do love a note, so so helpful when you have a memory as bad as one of things you drain rice in |
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Usually when we get unsolicited messages from freaks, creeps, pervs and weirdos. Not very often then 
Haha, it's actually if we get inappropriate messages, a barrage of dick pics or FAFs, especially from married men. |
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"Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
What does it for you?! "
Is it ok in a second message? Just asking |
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No, I don't do superhuman speed in the first place - I'm far too lazy for that
I use the notes section on profiles of interest (positive and negative ) extensively for all sorts... personal interactions, forum posts, status updates... great reminders!!!
Blocking very rare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh, as the bloke in the couple, when seeing the third cut and paste message from someone, I tend to just block immediately. Just shows that they haven't thought it through, are desperate and have no respect for others let alone themselves. Of course, always single blokes. |
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When they want to experiment with their sexuality.
I’m not a lab rat or here to teach. Especially as at the end of the experiment their guilt may cause me some hassle, violent act or a quick exit.
Block and delete, experience is key for me.
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Erotic stories.
Usernames/suggestions that show they haven’t read my profile at all (I don’t do the whole “daddy” thing at all).
Anyone that thinks being derogatory about slim women is somehow complimentary to me.
Anyone that is being rude or derogatory about their partner who doesn’t know they’re on here.
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
What does it for you?! "
Definitely this, that stuff turns my stomach  and inappropriate conversation when it has been obvious I have no interest in them, other than for "normal" conversation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Continuous messages when I've already ignored/deleted/said no thanks. "
This. Also messages from people asking if we/she wants to meet from people that meet absolutely none of the things we’re looking for on our profile |
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It’s mostly single guys I block because they see that I’m bi and think that means I’ll let anyone fuck me and can meet at the drop of a hat. If I say I’m not available and they push the point then it demonstrates they don’t understand what no means so they are blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"????? This is what gets the blocking finger going, they send a message I don't reply immediately and then they send another message with just question marks. "
?????? |
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"Demands, instructions or a list of reasons why I'll never be successful on here but they'll add me to their to-do list if I follow their guidelines
Wow
All from very well verified couples.
Lose the beard or you won't be fucking the wife.
You're too old, too straight and too male so you don't have options. Agree to play bi and/or guarantee a sexy lady and we might consider putting you on a future list.
Facepic and phone number now or forget it.
Bearing in mind they had all contacted me and all had 60-100 veries I couldn't understand why it was my loss when I sent a two word reply, the second of which was off "
Bloodyhell! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An interest in cross dressing
English not being their first language
Attached and playing without partners knowledge or permission.
Unappealing photos - masses of unkempt pubic hair/ dirty fingernails/ messy or dirty house.
If they have been rude, inappropriate or a bully in the forums. |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"I don't normally block but most messages I get from males I just delete. I wonder which part of straight they don't understand "
Easy.....it's called 'fab-straight'. Def a different definition on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if i think i know them also people who dont own a purple dressing gown "
Mr doesn't, Mrs does own a purple dressing gown.
Where does that leave us? |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
* those that read my message and delete it without replying
* those who keep looking at profile but don't say anything
* those who've been here a while but have no pics
* those who I know I'll ave no interest/connection with
* those who are homophobic
And lastly
* those who contact me telling me what they want/into and it's obvious they didn't even read my profile |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
We only generally block for two reasons.
If someone is a grade A chunt.
Or when we're browsing profiles for potential meets and find people that we're 100% certain we'd never be interested in.
It really does slim down the volume that comes up in searches and is a handy permanent filter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if i think i know them also people who dont own a purple dressing gown
Mr doesn't, Mrs does own a purple dressing gown.
Where does that leave us? "
as they say in baseball safe |
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The other instant block and delete is messages that say “I’m actually 21/23/63” when their profile says something else.
If they can’t respect people’s filters, and preferences, on here I have zero trust they’ll have any respect for peoples boundaries on a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a block button, what will they think of next
Possibly you can get messages, the wonders of the interweb"
It will never happen. At least not in my inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anything that's completely cheesy or a pish attempt at erotic fiction....though I generally give them a one line, expletive ridden review prior to blocking. |
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Smokers,
People who have bareback on their profiles or post in forums supporting it,
Straight people contacting us,
Couples profiles who haven't been verified and the male is looking to meet solo.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Asking to meet now
Attaching cock pics in a message or like you said really cringey graphic descriptions of what they'd do .
If they repeatedly message me
Are rude or abusive or ask where about s I live or work . |
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"Is there anything that gets you hitting the block button with superhuman speed?
I can’t bear an ‘erotic’ story about what the person is going to do to me, in a first message (the fact that it’s certainly a copy and paste job just adds to the ick for me)
What does it for you?! "
Not quite superhuman speed but the sea of singles and couples who claim great interest, do friends and face pics then avoid questions re free time, meeting for a social, has your partner seen us too ? etc. So annoying and hugely time wasting grrrr |
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My number 1 pet hate: Literally turns my stomach when they launch into dirty talk about what they want to do to me
Hate it when they say ‘can I ask you a question?’ No you can’t
Hate it even more when they say ‘Hey we were speaking last year but… ‘ Ermm no we weren’t, how dumb do you think I am
Messages that are a blatant copy and paste as they’ve sent you the same message ten times over
Blokes that are the furthest they could possibly be from your preference/ type listed in your bio but they repeatedly message and wonder why you don’t reply
Ones who say ‘just say you’re not interested and I won’t bother you again’, so you reply and say ‘sorry, I’m not interested, you’re not my type’ and they then go on to send continuous messages listing why you should give them a chance
Men who say you’re a fake and will block you just because you haven’t replied to their messages
I could go on! Ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Proudly attached dick pictures in first message
Locals
One liners brigade
Weirdos
Rude and arrogant
Sending a “???” or “so not your type?” follow up when I don’t respond
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Blocking locals huh. You after cyber sex? (not asking for myself) |
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"My number 1 pet hate: Literally turns my stomach when they launch into dirty talk about what they want to do to me
Hate it when they say ‘can I ask you a question?’ No you can’t
Hate it even more when they say ‘Hey we were speaking last year but… ‘ Ermm no we weren’t, how dumb do you think I am
Messages that are a blatant copy and paste as they’ve sent you the same message ten times over
Blokes that are the furthest they could possibly be from your preference/ type listed in your bio but they repeatedly message and wonder why you don’t reply
Ones who say ‘just say you’re not interested and I won’t bother you again’, so you reply and say ‘sorry, I’m not interested, you’re not my type’ and they then go on to send continuous messages listing why you should give them a chance
Men who say you’re a fake and will block you just because you haven’t replied to their messages
I could go on! Ha "
All of this... Top gal for writing it all out and if you don't mind i add..
Messages that start with 'I'd love to photograph you, doesn't have to be nude to start but we can work up to that! |
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"My number 1 pet hate: Literally turns my stomach when they launch into dirty talk about what they want to do to me
Hate it when they say ‘can I ask you a question?’ No you can’t
Hate it even more when they say ‘Hey we were speaking last year but… ‘ Ermm no we weren’t, how dumb do you think I am
Messages that are a blatant copy and paste as they’ve sent you the same message ten times over
Blokes that are the furthest they could possibly be from your preference/ type listed in your bio but they repeatedly message and wonder why you don’t reply
Ones who say ‘just say you’re not interested and I won’t bother you again’, so you reply and say ‘sorry, I’m not interested, you’re not my type’ and they then go on to send continuous messages listing why you should give them a chance
Men who say you’re a fake and will block you just because you haven’t replied to their messages
I could go on! Ha
All of this... Top gal for writing it all out and if you don't mind i add..
Messages that start with 'I'd love to photograph you, doesn't have to be nude to start but we can work up to that!"
Oh yes I forgot about that one - classic!
When they message offering photo shoots or professional photos, I just say ‘no thanks my photos are pretty good as they are’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My number 1 pet hate: Literally turns my stomach when they launch into dirty talk about what they want to do to me
Hate it when they say ‘can I ask you a question?’ No you can’t
Hate it even more when they say ‘Hey we were speaking last year but… ‘ Ermm no we weren’t, how dumb do you think I am
Messages that are a blatant copy and paste as they’ve sent you the same message ten times over
Blokes that are the furthest they could possibly be from your preference/ type listed in your bio but they repeatedly message and wonder why you don’t reply
Ones who say ‘just say you’re not interested and I won’t bother you again’, so you reply and say ‘sorry, I’m not interested, you’re not my type’ and they then go on to send continuous messages listing why you should give them a chance
Men who say you’re a fake and will block you just because you haven’t replied to their messages
I could go on! Ha
All of this... Top gal for writing it all out and if you don't mind i add..
Messages that start with 'I'd love to photograph you, doesn't have to be nude to start but we can work up to that!
Oh yes I forgot about that one - classic!
When they message offering photo shoots or professional photos, I just say ‘no thanks my photos are pretty good as they are’ "
And when you look at the profile they've got no pics! Or bad ones lol |
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"As we are well into the tens of thousands on our list, can't quite put my finger on any single thing that makes us put folk on it.
Golf?
Yes, that's one for sure! "
Along with anyone wearing a football shirt. |
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