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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess just after some feedback as to weather it's worth saying that I am if I'm mainly after ladies and only the occasional guy if I'm attracted.
Any and all feedback is appreciated xxx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think it depends on how much self worth you have, more than, is it worth it..
I would want people to meet me, not what I choose to declare about myself or hide.
Some won't meet bi guys and that is down to their preferences and should be respected. A few shout and enjoy the platform to denounce bi guys, just never rise to it.
Be you and enjoy the people who will meet you and not focus overly on the ones who won't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a straight man married to a bi woman it would be hypocritical to have any issues with bi-sexuality.
Just as I know J is not going to run rampant in the changing rooms at M&S due to random women taking their shirts off, I know any bi guy will manage to resist my charms should we happen to be naked in the same woman 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a straight man married to a bi woman it would be hypocritical to have any issues with bi-sexuality.
Just as I know J is not going to run rampant in the changing rooms at M&S due to random women taking their shirts off, I know any bi guy will manage to resist my charms should we happen to be naked in the same woman
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 too many 'straights' think they are so attractive that bi's will be slavering uncontrollably all over them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will attract some and put others off.
Personally, I think if you are bi you should state just that.
That way you are being true to yourself whilst allowing tbose who _iew your profile an HONEST perspective.
You will not be attractive to everyone - no one is, but at least you are going to attract mail from those who are genuinely interested in meeting you.
Good Luck. Have Fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be honest, if you also play straight but someone don't like the fact you are bi and that's the only thing that puts them off. Then It's their lost at the end of the day.
But lying about it to get more meets is just plain wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op - in the shortest possible answer i've ever posted when this question crops up......
It's never been an issue with me or anyone i've met. Might be an issue for those I haven't - but why would I worry about that!
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best to just state what you are, some couples might be put off incase you jump on the straight male, others are more open minded and dont really mind, i would just state on ur profile that u can play straight or bi. There are plenty of couples that lv to play with bi guys, there are plenty of threads about bi guys an couples |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Best to just state what you are, some couples might be put off incase you jump on the straight male, others are more open minded and dont really mind, i would just state on ur profile that u can play straight or bi. There are plenty of couples that lv to play with bi guys, there are plenty of threads about bi guys an couples "
Wish I could find some of those couples lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will attract some and put others off.
Personally, I think if you are bi you should state just that.
That way you are being true to yourself whilst allowing tbose who _iew your profile an HONEST perspective.
You will not be attractive to everyone - no one is, but at least you are going to attract mail from those who are genuinely interested in meeting you.
Good Luck. Have Fun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the hypocrisy comes from the misconception of bi-guy = gay guy!
As a straight fella, I'm self aware enough to know that just because a bi fella likes a cock......it doesn't mean it's my cock he wants!
Live & let live and play safe!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the hypocrisy comes from the misconception of bi-guy = gay guy!
As a straight fella, I'm self aware enough to know that just because a bi fella likes a cock......it doesn't mean it's my cock he wants!
Live & let live and play safe!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know plenty of bi men and it doesn't bother us what sexuality they are.
We don't play sexually with bi men as I (Mr) feel a little uncomfortable when it comes down to being in close proximity in the boudoir lol (had an unpleasant situation once and I don't want to talk about it   |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"We know plenty of bi men and it doesn't bother us what sexuality they are.
We don't play sexually with bi men as I (Mr) feel a little uncomfortable when it comes down to being in close proximity in the boudoir lol (had an unpleasant situation once and I don't want to talk about it "
Doesn't mean it's always going to be like that m8. It's who rather than what someone is when all's said and done...
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Straight question and not a dig or a judgement..how many would consider playing with a bi guy would increase their chances of catching HIV more than it would in normal straight play?..especially given todays news about the alarming massive hike in Gay HIV/AIDS cases in the uk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight question and not a dig or a judgement..how many would consider playing with a bi guy would increase their chances of catching HIV more than it would in normal straight play?..especially given todays news about the alarming massive hike in Gay HIV/AIDS cases in the uk"
Only if the guy in question didn't play safe. It also said that a lot haven't been tested for three years. Not everyone is so reckless. |
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"Straight question and not a dig or a judgement..how many would consider playing with a bi guy would increase their chances of catching HIV more than it would in normal straight play?..especially given todays news about the alarming massive hike in Gay HIV/AIDS cases in the uk"
probably a big fat zero if all stick to safe sex..
the fact that a large majority of those quoted had not visited a clinic for a check up in ages (3 years i think?) is particularly worrying tbh..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a happily, straight married bloke as 1/2 of a 'hot wife' couple, I can say from a swinging perspective it would put us off slightly, as we would not wish anything to get awkward / any miscommunications to happen. Having said that, if it's clear that no M:M contact was appreciated or wanted, then we'd have no problem whatsoever meeting a bi-guy, for her pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a happily, straight married bloke as 1/2 of a 'hot wife' couple, I can say from a swinging perspective it would put us off slightly, as we would not wish anything to get awkward / any miscommunications to happen. Having said that, if it's clear that no M:M contact was appreciated or wanted, then we'd have no problem whatsoever meeting a bi-guy, for her pleasure "
As with all relationships, even temporary, communication is key but to much loses the natural feel and too little makes you think ' can I .....' |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"As a happily, straight married bloke as 1/2 of a 'hot wife' couple, I can say from a swinging perspective it would put us off slightly, as we would not wish anything to get awkward / any miscommunications to happen. Having said that, if it's clear that no M:M contact was appreciated or wanted, then we'd have no problem whatsoever meeting a bi-guy, for her pleasure "
Most people will never cross the line if you spell it out plain and simple that you're not interested in such things.
It's a matter of pride usually that people aren't made or felt to be manipulated into doing something that they don't want to do or feel uncomfortable with.
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know plenty of bi men and it doesn't bother us what sexuality they are.
We don't play sexually with bi men as I (Mr) feel a little uncomfortable when it comes down to being in close proximity in the boudoir lol (had an unpleasant situation once and I don't want to talk about it
Doesn't mean it's always going to be like that m8. It's who rather than what someone is when all's said and done...
Wolf
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It was posted in jest wolf and know not all are the same, just the odd few (and they are odd )
It just unnerves me a little when they eye me up, can't blame them wanting my adonis like body and good looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will attract some and put others off.
Personally, I think if you are bi you should state just that.
That way you are being true to yourself whilst allowing tbose who _iew your profile an HONEST perspective.
You will not be attractive to everyone - no one is, but at least you are going to attract mail from those who are genuinely interested in meeting you.
Good Luck. Have Fun "
My thoughts exactly |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"We know plenty of bi men and it doesn't bother us what sexuality they are.
We don't play sexually with bi men as I (Mr) feel a little uncomfortable when it comes down to being in close proximity in the boudoir lol (had an unpleasant situation once and I don't want to talk about it
Doesn't mean it's always going to be like that m8. It's who rather than what someone is when all's said and done...
Wolf
It was posted in jest wolf and know not all are the same, just the odd few (and they are odd )
It just unnerves me a little when they eye me up, can't blame them wanting my adonis like body and good looks "
I know m8...
Just tell em to look with their eyes and not with their bits
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"I think the hypocrisy comes from the misconception of bi-guy = gay guy!
As a straight fella, I'm self aware enough to know that just because a bi fella likes a cock......it doesn't mean it's my cock he wants!
Live & let live and play safe!
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"It will attract some and put others off.
Personally, I think if you are bi you should state just that.
That way you are being true to yourself whilst allowing tbose who _iew your profile an HONEST perspective.
You will not be attractive to everyone - no one is, but at least you are going to attract mail from those who are genuinely interested in meeting you.
Good Luck. Have Fun
My thoughts exactly"
Ditto an honest guy is much more attractive regardless of being bi or straight!! |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I see a difference between bi guy and one not phased by guy guy contact during play.. Thoughts? "
I may be repeating myself,but if the closest you get to another guy,whilst having a mmf,is a high five,that's going to be one tense threesome.
I can also say,without doubt,I am the most gorgeous guy you will ever meet,and to date,no bi guy has ever jumped me.
you can only admire their fortitude,in the face of the most extreme temptation.
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"I see a difference between bi guy and one not phased by guy guy contact during play.. Thoughts?
I may be repeating myself,but if the closest you get to another guy,whilst having a mmf,is a high five,that's going to be one tense threesome.
I can also say,without doubt,I am the most gorgeous guy you will ever meet,and to date,no bi guy has ever jumped me.
you can only admire their fortitude,in the face of the most extreme temptation.
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Ha ha must be self control, an admirable quality |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I see a difference between bi guy and one not phased by guy guy contact during play.. Thoughts?
I may be repeating myself,but if the closest you get to another guy,whilst having a mmf,is a high five,that's going to be one tense threesome.
I can also say,without doubt,I am the most gorgeous guy you will ever meet,and to date,no bi guy has ever jumped me.
you can only admire their fortitude,in the face of the most extreme temptation.
Ha ha must be self control, an admirable quality "
Indeed my friend,indeed.
I just didn't realise bi guys had so much of it. |
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"I see a difference between bi guy and one not phased by guy guy contact during play.. Thoughts?
I may be repeating myself,but if the closest you get to another guy,whilst having a mmf,is a high five,that's going to be one tense threesome.
I can also say,without doubt,I am the most gorgeous guy you will ever meet,and to date,no bi guy has ever jumped me.
you can only admire their fortitude,in the face of the most extreme temptation.
Ha ha must be self control, an admirable quality
Indeed my friend,indeed.
I just didn't realise bi guys had so much of it. "
Does it disappoint you? |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I see a difference between bi guy and one not phased by guy guy contact during play.. Thoughts?
I may be repeating myself,but if the closest you get to another guy,whilst having a mmf,is a high five,that's going to be one tense threesome.
I can also say,without doubt,I am the most gorgeous guy you will ever meet,and to date,no bi guy has ever jumped me.
you can only admire their fortitude,in the face of the most extreme temptation.
Ha ha must be self control, an admirable quality
Indeed my friend,indeed.
I just didn't realise bi guys had so much of it.
Does it disappoint you? "
More disappointing for them,truth be told. |
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"mmmm now it wouldn`t bother me, I get a kick out of seeing 2 guys together  "
i think its more of what dose it for one dosent do it for another but, on the whole for men its watching 2 women together so it has to work the same way for women watching to men together its like as we are all aminmals at the end of the day  |
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"It seems women are more able to enjoy same sex than we chaps.. We are more inhibited maybe
well if you think about it bi sex has been going on from the dawn of time i both sexes"
So it has and why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess ... "
I know the OP has deleted his account, but do biguys have a certain look about them then? Are we all Graham Norton-esque type characters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess ...
I know the OP has deleted his account, but do biguys have a certain look about them then? Are we all Graham Norton-esque type characters? "
More John Inman. |
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"Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess just after some feedback as to weather it's worth saying that I am if I'm mainly after ladies and only the occasional guy if I'm attracted.
Any and all feedback is appreciated xxx "
I guess you must have had the advice 'leave the site' cos that's what you've done. Not that you'll read this.  |
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"Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess ...
I know the OP has deleted his account, but do biguys have a certain look about them then? Are we all Graham Norton-esque type characters?
More John Inman. "
I look normal. Maybe a bit more confident and flamboyant at times than other guys. Certainly appears judging by some crap messages I was reading that my heads screwed on better. |
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"It seems women are more able to enjoy same sex than we chaps.. We are more inhibited maybe "
'seems'
There's no truth in that though.
I'd bet there are more women who indulge because they are encouraged to or because it pleases a male or because it gets them attention that they can't get alone than actually decided to do it themselves.
If people seek out woman on woman porn or pics or meets.....it's going to seem that more women are at it.
Can't see the wood for the lezzies - to coin a phrase.
In brief i'm saying it's part of a 'performance' by women for men.
Obviously - bi sexuals are not included in the above statement. |
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"Just wondered if advertising about being bi is putting people off.
To look at me you'd never guess ...
I know the OP has deleted his account, but do biguys have a certain look about them then? Are we all Graham Norton-esque type characters? "
Your stocking tops are a dead give away Wishy. |
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"It seems women are more able to enjoy same sex than we chaps.. We are more inhibited maybe
'seems'
There's no truth in that though.
I'd bet there are more women who indulge because they are encouraged to or because it pleases a male or because it gets them attention that they can't get alone than actually decided to do it themselves.
If people seek out woman on woman porn or pics or meets.....it's going to seem that more women are at it.
Can't see the wood for the lezzies - to coin a phrase.
In brief i'm saying it's part of a 'performance' by women for men.
Obviously - bi sexuals are not included in the above statement."
Can you please provide any tips and hints on where to find these performing lezzies? |
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"It seems women are more able to enjoy same sex than we chaps.. We are more inhibited maybe
'seems'
There's no truth in that though.
I'd bet there are more women who indulge because they are encouraged to or because it pleases a male or because it gets them attention that they can't get alone than actually decided to do it themselves.
If people seek out woman on woman porn or pics or meets.....it's going to seem that more women are at it.
Can't see the wood for the lezzies - to coin a phrase.
In brief i'm saying it's part of a 'performance' by women for men.
Obviously - bi sexuals are not included in the above statement."
I understand. as you say women are more willing to go along with it for their man probably, I dont know. Most men wont do it for their woman unless its what they want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found that it has put off some couples usually the man who thinks I'll jump on his cock as soon as he gets it out
and some ladies think that as a bi guy I'm not masculine enough - not sure how they get that impression I'm guessing its a preconception
But this has been a minority whilst most straight swingers appreciate bi guys respect limits and where the guy is bi the lady has often been tuned on watching two guys - after all I find watching two ladies a great turn on |
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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Where have all the bi guys gone?
Long time passing
Where have all the bi guys gone?
Long time ago
Sorry couldn't resist bastardising Pete Seeger.
Minces away, wearing a Victorian housecoat and drinking a dry sherry..
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"I know the OP has deleted his account, but do biguys have a certain look about them then? Are we all Graham Norton-esque type characters? "
Not sure about Graham Norton, think I'm more Alan Carr sweetie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems women are more able to enjoy same sex than we chaps.. We are more inhibited maybe
Or we, like the majority of women, dont like a cock up our ars! "
It is a common misconception that gay sex always equates to bum sex.
Whilst there is a place for it, most bi / gay sexual exchanges tend to be more orally centred than anally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it a turn on with the right couple. I never meet single guys unless its for a social as part of a threesome."
I'm the same, enjoy bi mmf fun, but could never ever be with a guy on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it a turn on with the right couple. I never meet single guys unless its for a social as part of a threesome.
I'm the same, enjoy bi mmf fun, but could never ever be with a guy on my own."
Fancy a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it a turn on with the right couple. I never meet single guys unless its for a social as part of a threesome.
I'm the same, enjoy bi mmf fun, but could never ever be with a guy on my own.
Fancy a shag? "
Oh go on then! |
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