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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m with you. Not many people are on the same wavelength as me. Well I don’t think so anyway. I dislike the idea of taking things too seriously. "
I know that feeling only too well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure we’re cut from the same cloth OP , but I often wonder what I’m doing here. The times I do comment in the forums often goes un-noticed. "
Yep, I get that. I'm even skimmed past on the "comment on the person above" threads. |
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"Not sure we’re cut from the same cloth OP , but I often wonder what I’m doing here. The times I do comment in the forums often goes un-noticed.
Yep, I get that. I'm even skimmed past on the "comment on the person above" threads. "
I don't even look at those. Posting for the sake of attention? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure we’re cut from the same cloth OP , but I often wonder what I’m doing here. The times I do comment in the forums often goes un-noticed.
Yep, I get that. I'm even skimmed past on the "comment on the person above" threads. "
I don’t mind when it happens to me. It just confirms that I’m a square peg. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely have days when I shouldn’t be playing with the nice people but to be fair I’m often driven to this level of negativity by the unbelievable fuckwittery and the sheeplike behaviour I come across in the forums.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I definitely have days when I shouldn’t be playing with the nice people but to be fair I’m often driven to this level of negativity by the unbelievable fuckwittery and the sheeplike behaviour I come across in the forums.
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Succinctly put. May I also add, brown nosing and pontification. |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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I, Mr, had a solo profile for ages and always felt like I was a slight oddball in comparison with others. (See "towing ball" thread for definitive proof!)
Then I got together with Ms, who just as weird as I am but in different ways. And fortunately just as big a pervert  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I, Mr, had a solo profile for ages and always felt like I was a slight oddball in comparison with others. (See "towing ball" thread for definitive proof!)
Then I got together with Ms, who just as weird as I am but in different ways. And fortunately just as big a pervert "
Living the dream, proof there is someone for everyone. Happy you found eachother but you're jollying the tone of this post ;-p |
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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago
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"I, Mr, had a solo profile for ages and always felt like I was a slight oddball in comparison with others. (See "towing ball" thread for definitive proof!)
Then I got together with Ms, who just as weird as I am but in different ways. And fortunately just as big a pervert
Living the dream, proof there is someone for everyone. Happy you found eachother but you're jollying the tone of this post ;-p "
I apologize most sincerely for raising the tone 
Normal, miserable service will be resumed as soon as possible |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I, Mr, had a solo profile for ages and always felt like I was a slight oddball in comparison with others. (See "towing ball" thread for definitive proof!)
Then I got together with Ms, who just as weird as I am but in different ways. And fortunately just as big a pervert
Living the dream, proof there is someone for everyone. Happy you found eachother but you're jollying the tone of this post ;-p
I apologize most sincerely for raising the tone
Normal, miserable service will be resumed as soon as possible "
;-p rightly so. Actually I'm quite a happy go lucky person, just seem to have a lot of bad luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I believe you create a persona its other people that go along with it or not ! So call me what you like its not actually going to have an impact on me ! "
And what is your persona? |
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"Definitely jaded, definitely weird not negative. I've spent my entire life being a square peg failing to fit in a round hole, the forums are a continuation of that "
I'm just behind you, agreeing with you, with my notebook researching the arcane mating habits of the self appointed normal people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im more a jaded daydreamer living on past glory only dipping a toe into true reality from time to time to collect the imagionary post"
Past glories and the glory yet to come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p "
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Salvador Dalí.
I fancy a dali-ance.
Great Wedding Present song
One of their best. "
Bring your daughter to the slaughter. By iron maiden would be most fitting 1st dance. |
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By *tooveMan
over a year ago
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"Salvador Dalí.
I fancy a dali-ance.
Great Wedding Present song
One of their best.
Bring your daughter to the slaughter. By iron maiden would be most fitting 1st dance. "
Think my post and the one I quoted has gone right over your head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Salvador Dalí.
I fancy a dali-ance.
Great Wedding Present song
One of their best.
Bring your daughter to the slaughter. By iron maiden would be most fitting 1st dance.
Think my post and the one I quoted has gone right over your head. "
I think you may be correct. Please excuse my stupidity. How embarrassing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am like wallpaper, not many people actually notice it"
You know, someone wrote a coffee table book about Wetherspoons carpets. You'll be surprised what people notice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol"
We should do a "thread kill head count" my comments come with their own tumble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im more a jaded daydreamer living on past glory only dipping a toe into true reality from time to time to collect the imagionary post
Past glories and the glory yet to come"
the yet to come we shall see i dont look forward  |
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol"
Is it wrong to laugh at that and still be here? |
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Square peg, black sheep and whatever other metaphors there are for one who doesn't fit in here.
And I don't want to.
God forbid I become one of those shiny suited, pointy shoed, lease hired Audi driving, identifit boreholes.
Vive le diffèrence! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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I am considered a bit of a square peg at work and that’s ok by me I come in do my job and go home.A few people know me from the forums and some have told me that I come across well and positive although at times I do feel like a square peg on the forums as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am considered a bit of a square peg at work and that’s ok by me I come in do my job and go home.A few people know me from the forums and some have told me that I come across well and positive although at times I do feel like a square peg on the forums as well."
I think you come across very well. I've seen you give sage advice to people on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good lord, I remember being so into Nirvana and listening to the MTV unplugged live album continuously for about 5 years. Still very fond of it now"
Loved grunge back then and still do now. Although I'm.not going to pearl jam in the park  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Square peg, black sheep and whatever other metaphors there are for one who doesn't fit in here.
And I don't want to.
God forbid I become one of those shiny suited, pointy shoed, lease hired Audi driving, identifit boreholes.
Vive le diffèrence!"
Exactly, keep doing what you're doing as long as it makes u happy. If it makes others happy then it's a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tired pissed off crap day work go get shower  "
I feel your pain. Take the original source mint body wash in with you for some soothing, ball tingles x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
Is it wrong to laugh at that and still be here?"
A wry smirk is acceptable |
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
Is it wrong to laugh at that and still be here?
A wry smirk is acceptable "
Laughter kept to inside voices only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p "
Absolutely 100% with you on this one. 
I can be entirely social, jovial and upbeat, but I can also be an utterly miserable prick, a happiness black hole.
Happy-clappy positivity makes me want to  …..’Demotivator’ posters and dark humour fill me with joy.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
Absolutely 100% with you on this one.
I can be entirely social, jovial and upbeat, but I can also be an utterly miserable prick, a happiness black hole.
Happy-clappy positivity makes me want to …..’Demotivator’ posters and dark humour fill me with joy. "
Yep, if people are genuinely full of positivity and light then fair play to them. I have a friend who is like that and awesome. It's the ones that fake it I don't like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
Absolutely 100% with you on this one.
I can be entirely social, jovial and upbeat, but I can also be an utterly miserable prick, a happiness black hole.
Happy-clappy positivity makes me want to …..’Demotivator’ posters and dark humour fill me with joy.
Yep, if people are genuinely full of positivity and light then fair play to them. I have a friend who is like that and awesome. It's the ones that fake it I don't like."
Indeed, and they are completely obvious…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
We should do a "thread kill head count" my comments come with their own tumble. "
Challenge accepted. I've killed 4 in the last 60mins thus far |
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"Good lord, I remember being so into Nirvana and listening to the MTV unplugged live album continuously for about 5 years. Still very fond of it now
Loved grunge back then and still do now. Although I'm.not going to pearl jam in the park "
The grunge seen was pretty good snapshot of late 80s/early 90s cool. It still resonates with me now but I think you might have had to experience it previously to really enjoy it.
I missed the Pixies when they played Brum pre pandemic because the tickets were like £200  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good lord, I remember being so into Nirvana and listening to the MTV unplugged live album continuously for about 5 years. Still very fond of it now
Loved grunge back then and still do now. Although I'm.not going to pearl jam in the park
The grunge seen was pretty good snapshot of late 80s/early 90s cool. It still resonates with me now but I think you might have had to experience it previously to really enjoy it.
I missed the Pixies when they played Brum pre pandemic because the tickets were like £200 "
Yes, the price of live music is insane now. Add on the drinks and the fact that you're usually watching the band on the screen as everyone is holding their phones up to record. Not worth it anymore. There are some decent tribute bands around which are a bit of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
We should do a "thread kill head count" my comments come with their own tumble.
Challenge accepted. I've killed 4 in the last 60mins thus far "
I've only got 2 at the moment but I'm going to green arrow you and resurrect those threads mwah ha ha!!! |
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By *J2020Man
over a year ago
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Social I wear that happy smoky face , but inside of screaming , I can’t do people who get excited because of a loaf of bread has 1 pence off .
I am in a WhatsApp family chat group , about 10 of us , and I can shut that shit down in 1 comment , I came , I saw , I made that shit awkward .
I am always the one that takes things to the dark ( humour ) side , and only a few work associates get it and join in . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Social I wear that happy smoky face , but inside of screaming , I can’t do people who get excited because of a loaf of bread has 1 pence off .
I am in a WhatsApp family chat group , about 10 of us , and I can shut that shit down in 1 comment , I came , I saw , I made that shit awkward .
I am always the one that takes things to the dark ( humour ) side , and only a few work associates get it and join in . "
You sound a lot like me, but I bail out of WhatsApp groups as soon as im added. |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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"Good lord, I remember being so into Nirvana and listening to the MTV unplugged live album continuously for about 5 years. Still very fond of it now
Loved grunge back then and still do now. Although I'm.not going to pearl jam in the park
The grunge seen was pretty good snapshot of late 80s/early 90s cool. It still resonates with me now but I think you might have had to experience it previously to really enjoy it.
I missed the Pixies when they played Brum pre pandemic because the tickets were like £200
Yes, the price of live music is insane now. Add on the drinks and the fact that you're usually watching the band on the screen as everyone is holding their phones up to record. Not worth it anymore. There are some decent tribute bands around which are a bit of fun. "
London gig prices are insane by the time we factor a train in to London amd tube across London its another £20-25 each. We tend to drive to Cambridge, Bedford or Milton Keynes and see smaller bands and it's not too expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
We should do a "thread kill head count" my comments come with their own tumble.
Challenge accepted. I've killed 4 in the last 60mins thus far
I've only got 2 at the moment but I'm going to green arrow you and resurrect those threads mwah ha ha!!!"
Fuckin evil bastard. Might as well kick my cat while your stooping so low |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope, not a thread for Nivana fans. This post is for all those square pegs, wierdos, misfits and anti social shadow lurkers that view and sometimes comment on the forums.
I'm definitely not one of the "shiny happy people" and embrace my dark humour whilst drinking from my half empty glass.
Who else is a jaded jerk or morose muttafukka?
Some say "hi" or "meh" or "whatever" ;-p
I feel your pain. With humour as dark as fritzels dungeon I can kill a thread faster than a hookers door slamming shut.
But hey ho. We can't all fit in lol
We should do a "thread kill head count" my comments come with their own tumble.
Challenge accepted. I've killed 4 in the last 60mins thus far
I've only got 2 at the moment but I'm going to green arrow you and resurrect those threads mwah ha ha!!!
Fuckin evil bastard. Might as well kick my cat while your stooping so low "
If you kick a cat your leg will crack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really try to be social and bubbly and I can be at times, but my natural place is quite meh and my humour is very dark.
Nice to know others are out there too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really try to be social and bubbly and I can be at times, but my natural place is quite meh and my humour is very dark.
Nice to know others are out there too"
Dark, inappropriate humour is where its at. Embrace your inner demons
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X"
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none."
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show. "
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a negative creep and I'm stoned.
I'm not stoned, really.
I'm just a miserable old bugger.
This is th thread for me."
Stoned or not, all welcome to poor out their misery here
Such a great song |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV."
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street "
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings "
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter.  |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter. "
My "check ins" help if I've lots articles on the night out. When I'm "black-out d*unk" I'm actually more aware of stuff going on around me and in control of the situation (ironically) it's my day after head that can't remember shit that panics. |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter. "
I don’t like losing control like that. I like to party (Maybe a bit too much), I wouldn’t want to become vulnerable and maybe let people see the side of me I keep hidden |
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over a year ago
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter.
I don’t like losing control like that. I like to party (Maybe a bit too much), I wouldn’t want to become vulnerable and maybe let people see the side of me I keep hidden "
I've only been drinking for 10 years so "mad sessions" are still a novelty to me. I like to remember good nights out but it does amuse me when I have to piece bits together. I don't hide any sides of myself. Some filters are in place from time to time but I am very much who I am. Took a while to get there but I love my inner negative creep. |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter.
I don’t like losing control like that. I like to party (Maybe a bit too much), I wouldn’t want to become vulnerable and maybe let people see the side of me I keep hidden "
Don't hide embrace. I have zero filter anyway. Just when I'm d*unk I tend to share the thoughts I know that are not acceptable to share while sober. Doesn't make me a bad man. I never have the intention to offend anyone just speak my mind |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter.
I don’t like losing control like that. I like to party (Maybe a bit too much), I wouldn’t want to become vulnerable and maybe let people see the side of me I keep hidden
I've only been drinking for 10 years so "mad sessions" are still a novelty to me. I like to remember good nights out but it does amuse me when I have to piece bits together. I don't hide any sides of myself. Some filters are in place from time to time but I am very much who I am. Took a while to get there but I love my inner negative creep. "
Ditto to that. Fine example. I was at Silverstone for weekend in a very high end hotel. Went down for breakfast sat morning and the security all knew my name. No recollection of Friday after enjoying hospitality for 12hrs at track. Thankfully they seemed to see me in a positive light. Luckily the wife was in as much of a state as me and couldn't recite to me a play for play rundown of the night before |
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"I’m an antisocial, sarcastic lurker.
I find trying to be sociable and happy all the time exhausting. X
There is only so much "love island" chat I can tolerate and its actually none.
All pretentious wanna be famous reality shows are banned from my TV. I seriously think a brain cell dies with every single second spent watching that nonsense.
Only accepted reality show is come dine with me and master chef if you can call that reality show.
I haven't watched mainstream TV since the "switch over". I've had friends that have put Netflix or amazon on devices of mine but they've broken so I manage to avoid all the crap. Now I get "there's a pale, tattooed ginger" on love island" lol. So I tell them about the goings on at the swinging club I was at on Tuesday. All of a sudden they are all ears. Funny how people assume you're the one missing out by not watching crap on TV.
That's a fine example of the general public these days. They love to look into other people's lives. Exactly the reason reality programs and social media is so popular. People are quick to judge and also quick to feel inadequate if their lives don't match up to others. It's toxic. Some people only tend to share the good times to make their lives look exciting. Others the bad for the sympathy. Its all about the attention in my opinion.
Hence I have absolutely no social media at all. Have no interest in sharing what I had for dinner with people that would walk past you in the street
I only have 4 friends on mark Zuckerberg thing. Its more like a diary for me so I remember where I was after blackouts. And the John Baku one as it has photos I cant post on here and it's great for event listings
Finding out what I've done after a d*unken blackout gives me the total fear. If I can't remember I have no desire to find out, as when I do it either involves stories of me.getting but naked or having to apologise to a lot of people for my inappropriate banter.
I don’t like losing control like that. I like to party (Maybe a bit too much), I wouldn’t want to become vulnerable and maybe let people see the side of me I keep hidden
I've only been drinking for 10 years so "mad sessions" are still a novelty to me. I like to remember good nights out but it does amuse me when I have to piece bits together. I don't hide any sides of myself. Some filters are in place from time to time but I am very much who I am. Took a while to get there but I love my inner negative creep. "
It’s things I do in my private life that I wouldn’t want to share with most people.
Nothing too outrageous. They just don’t need to know. |
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"Not sure we’re cut from the same cloth OP , but I often wonder what I’m doing here. The times I do comment in the forums often goes un-noticed.
Same "
I think a lot of people are focused on making their point and not interested in others opinions. I try and get a good balance and not be all "me, me,me" |
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"We exist outside ‘the click’ the randoms at a party without the six packs, fake tans and Gucci flip flops
Doesn't make us bad people lol "
A Gucci flip flop still sounds the same as primark one. Not quite sure what it reminds me off though;-p |
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"We exist outside ‘the click’ the randoms at a party without the six packs, fake tans and Gucci flip flops "
I like the gang with the six packs. Saves going up to the bar ;-p |
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"So, who's lurking in the shadows, hiding from this heat? Where are all the odd bods and square pegs on this fine summers day.
Harsh. I've got feelings you know x"
Hey you x I'm not outing anyone just giving one the tools to self identify
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I'm more and more bemused by people including terms like "No weirdos or creeps" in their profile text.
What's the criteria for that, and do people think "I'm a weirdo, best not text them". |
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" I'm more and more bemused by people including terms like "No weirdos or creeps" in their profile text.
What's the criteria for that, and do people think "I'm a weirdo, best not text them". "
On some level I've done that. More of a case of knowing that a particular person is not going to get my humour or take things out of context. I'm not everyone's cup.of tea but occasionally I'm someones shot of whiskey. |
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"So, who's lurking in the shadows, hiding from this heat? Where are all the odd bods and square pegs on this fine summers day. "
That would be me. Being self-employed is great in this weather because I get to hide at home in the dark until Wednesday. I'm sooooo looking forward to rainy Wednesday. |
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Nah that's not us. We maybe Misfits and weirdos but we're way too busy fucking shit up and enjoying ourselves in our own special way to hide in the shadows. Life is hard, shit happens and all we can do is laugh about it and make the best of the good. |
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"So, who's lurking in the shadows, hiding from this heat? Where are all the odd bods and square pegs on this fine summers day.
That would be me. Being self-employed is great in this weather because I get to hide at home in the dark until Wednesday. I'm sooooo looking forward to rainy Wednesday."
Rain you say? Interesting |
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"Nah that's not us. We maybe Misfits and weirdos but we're way too busy fucking shit up and enjoying ourselves in our own special way to hide in the shadows. Life is hard, shit happens and all we can do is laugh about it and make the best of the good."
Raising a glass to fucking shit up! |
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Hello, thanks for starting this thread.
I'm definitely a misfit, I don't go to pubs, but in enforced family events or work dos, I would be considered a lurker.
Not many people find the chink in the armour I put on to face the world, but when they do, they find I'm a dark humoured nuisance, and might be shocked to discover I'm on here
That's one thing I love about fab, you may have to look really hard, but there is someone for everyone.
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"Hello, thanks for starting this thread.
I'm definitely a misfit, I don't go to pubs, but in enforced family events or work dos, I would be considered a lurker.
Not many people find the chink in the armour I put on to face the world, but when they do, they find I'm a dark humoured nuisance, and might be shocked to discover I'm on here
That's one thing I love about fab, you may have to look really hard, but there is someone for everyone.
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Hello there! I'm actually suprising social but I do tend to cause many awkward silences as people pause to process what ever crap I have killed the conversation with. I'm no longer embarrassed by my "quirkiness" and there are lots of "kooks" and "crazies" that make me feel "normal" on here. |
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I just have very little interest in what other people are doing. I try and join in and all but it feels awkward and forced and am I really bringing anything of any value? |
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"I just have very little interest in what other people are doing. I try and join in and all but it feels awkward and forced and am I really bringing anything of any value?"
Probably, it's the outsiders opinion that I like to listen to rather than the status quo (flood gates now open for Quo jokes) |
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"So, who's lurking in the shadows, hiding from this heat? Where are all the odd bods and square pegs on this fine summers day.
Harsh. I've got feelings you know x
Hey you x I'm not outing anyone just giving one the tools to self identify
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I was busy looking at your luscious locks x |
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