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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never ashamed there’s nothing to be ashamed off
Little bit happy
For a beef moment a little used but that’s ok I like that as long as I know going in what it is
Then on with things don’t really put much thought in to it
Was what it was the only time I look back on them
If if they were exceptsholy good other wise
On to the next |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me it depends on the night.
When I was single it felt good to be used and happy it happened.
When I was married and doing it on the side (she was aware) it was better as she wanted to know what happened.
She never wanted to have an open relationship her side but happy for me to get my fill.
Shame it ended lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like one night's at clubs if they good  but do have a friend or two if they go wrong  but at the end of the day love my single life no hassle now  so never feel used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cost of a hotel and drinks i assume unless you split bill...not to mention a club visit which doesn't count as a one night stand.
That would be an all night standing!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.
But you are the stud of the fab forums!"
That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds 
In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships. |
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"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.
But you are the stud of the fab forums!
That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds
In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships."
Fair enough, I'm just an old bastard in a youngish persons body and thus doesnt go out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.
But you are the stud of the fab forums!
That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds
In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships.
Fair enough, I'm just an old bastard in a youngish persons body and thus doesnt go out "
I go out about 3 times a year and spend the full night wishing I hadn’t gone out. |
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"None of the afore mentioned
I don’t do ‘shag and go’ my integrity is worth more to me"
I don't shag and go either and did not take that to be what this thread meant. I meet for a social and if we get on we will arrange a hotel meet. A hotel meet to me is check in at 3 and stay overnight and enjoy lots of sex and lots of laughs. This probably wont be repeated but I never have regrets and never feel used. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.
I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.
As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.
I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.
As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few. A couple were great but mostly they were uninspiring. I much prefer to know someone a bit before I bed them "
I agree, like I think unless you get great chemistry from the get go, it can feel like that..
Not necessarily bad… just Uninspiring |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.
I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"I've had a few. A couple were great but mostly they were uninspiring. I much prefer to know someone a bit before I bed them
I agree, like I think unless you get great chemistry from the get go, it can feel like that..
Not necessarily bad… just Uninspiring"
Chemistry is the thing. Without it it becomes meh.. |
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"I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.
I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.
As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs."
Absolutely well said! X |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
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"Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.
I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner. "
Personally I'd always concentrate on my 'partner' regardless of it being a ONS or something more regular. Who knows when a ONS might lead to regular meetings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.
I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner.
Personally I'd always concentrate on my 'partner' regardless of it being a ONS or something more regular. Who knows when a ONS might lead to regular meetings."
Exactly! |
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Personally I felt independent, like it was my choice to do this based on the connection at the time.. only regrets was in morning (if it was shit maybe on both our parts) other than that my body my choice an itch may or may not have been satisfied but k went with the experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My last one night stand is still going!! I moved in with him the next day and we are still together 22 years later x "
I refer to the Mrs as the one night stand that wouldn't leave.
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"How does everyone feel after
Used
Happy
Ashamed
Or all three lol"
I think I've had a mixture of all those feelings.
It's a phase of my life I look back on and regret occasionally but I can also laugh about it too.
Katie. |
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Had a fwb who was meant to be just a one night stand but she was a good fuck and used to random text me to go round and service her a few times a week. I called it iff in the end which didnt go down well |
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