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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " I wonder how many Fay's there are here . . . . | |||
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"Ah auto correct don’t you just love it" Autocorrect is for aunts | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " In the words of Homer Simpson, doh ![]() | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? " I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy | |||
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"Popcorn time." The Fays will love that. | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy" I think you will upset a lot of people | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy I think you will upset a lot of people " People should not be upset. If the post is not something you like ignore it. That’s what I do with most posts | |||
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"Personally don’t think fat should be thought of as a bad word anymore, I’m fat and I’m happy ![]() As they say, offence is taken, not given | |||
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"I'm neither fat, nor a Fay. Simply curvaceous and a bigger size than some others. ![]() I'm fat | |||
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"I'm neither fat, nor a Fay. Simply curvaceous and a bigger size than some others. ![]() . And extremely sexy | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " Such a charmer lmao ![]() | |||
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"Ah auto correct don’t you just love it Autocorrect is for aunts " You’re funny! I like you! ![]() | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? " Dont do fat women myself but that's my opinion, at least I'm honest | |||
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"Wow …. Just wow " You like fat women as well? | |||
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"The word can be seen as insulting by some but I just own it. I'm fat and if people don't like it they don't have to look." And what a sexy lady you are | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? " Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. " ![]() | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. " Totally agree. Fat and sexy/beautiful etc aren’t mutually exclusive. | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. Totally agree. Fat and sexy/beautiful etc aren’t mutually exclusive. " I agree and you ladies here have proven fat and sexy definitely go together | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. " Couldn't agree more (although I don't like the word fat) Its all about how you carry yourself and having confidence (confidence is sexy) | |||
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"You will get far with that sort of outlook in life..... ![]() What is wrong with his outlook? He likes fat girls. | |||
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"Uh oh... Fabicide alert " He's been around a bit. He knows what he is doing and he isn't doing nothing wrong. | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy I think you will upset a lot of people " Why? | |||
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"Not everyone likes the term BBW, though I think that would be a safer option than 'fat girls' ![]() It is rather a blunt word for what I guess was intended as a positive message. I personally don't like the term. | |||
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"Not everyone likes the term BBW, though I think that would be a safer option than 'fat girls' ![]() A word is as strong as two things ...... The intent in which it is used. The receiving of the word. His intent was not bad, not to cause offence but use the word positively in this sense. Some received it very differently, maybe because they only see the negative vibes the word can create. | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. Totally agree. Fat and sexy/beautiful etc aren’t mutually exclusive. " Big yep on that ![]() | |||
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"Not everyone likes the term BBW, though I think that would be a safer option than 'fat girls' ![]() Very well put ![]() | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy" Size 8 women can be curvy. I’m a size 8 and curvy. I still don’t think it’s nice to call anyone fat. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. " I agree with this. I don’t see anything offensive about the post. No different to posting a thread about a preference for slim ladies really. A lot of people are happy being fat so why should it be negative? I’m overweight and not happy being fat but it still doesn’t offend me. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. " Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. | |||
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"Some received it very differently, maybe because they only see the negative vibes the word can create." So given we’re not short of alternatives, why use a word which you know can create negative vibes? It’s either clumsy or deliberate. | |||
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"Popcorn time. " Mind boggles, you’ll need a big tub this one will run… | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. I agree with this. I don’t see anything offensive about the post. No different to posting a thread about a preference for slim ladies really. A lot of people are happy being fat so why should it be negative? I’m overweight and not happy being fat but it still doesn’t offend me. " Because some people don't like the word and that is absolutely fine. I also think it's upsetting that so many people are basically bashing people who are upset by the word. | |||
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"Some received it very differently, maybe because they only see the negative vibes the word can create. So given we’re not short of alternatives, why use a word which you know can create negative vibes? It’s either clumsy or deliberate. " This is also true. Although I don’t find it offensive. Some do so it’s probably best avoided unless you’re wanting to create unrest. | |||
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"Not everyone likes the term BBW, though I think that would be a safer option than 'fat girls' ![]() Much prefer the term fat tbh. | |||
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"It’s pretty commonly regarded as a trigger word. If you can imagine it being used in the pejorative, it’s probably best avoided imo. " That's my opinion too, I could be in said category, but I'm not defined by my size or body shape. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. I agree with this. I don’t see anything offensive about the post. No different to posting a thread about a preference for slim ladies really. A lot of people are happy being fat so why should it be negative? I’m overweight and not happy being fat but it still doesn’t offend me. Because some people don't like the word and that is absolutely fine. I also think it's upsetting that so many people are basically bashing people who are upset by the word. " Bashing? I gave my view on it! | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. I agree with this. I don’t see anything offensive about the post. No different to posting a thread about a preference for slim ladies really. A lot of people are happy being fat so why should it be negative? I’m overweight and not happy being fat but it still doesn’t offend me. Because some people don't like the word and that is absolutely fine. I also think it's upsetting that so many people are basically bashing people who are upset by the word. Bashing? I gave my view on it!" As have many others and I have given my view on it. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. I agree with this. I don’t see anything offensive about the post. No different to posting a thread about a preference for slim ladies really. A lot of people are happy being fat so why should it be negative? I’m overweight and not happy being fat but it still doesn’t offend me. Because some people don't like the word and that is absolutely fine. I also think it's upsetting that so many people are basically bashing people who are upset by the word. Bashing? I gave my view on it! As have many others and I have given my view on it. " Ok ![]() | |||
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"Some received it very differently, maybe because they only see the negative vibes the word can create. So given we’re not short of alternatives, why use a word which you know can create negative vibes? It’s either clumsy or deliberate. This is also true. Although I don’t find it offensive. Some do so it’s probably best avoided unless you’re wanting to create unrest. " Couldn't agree more ![]() | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " Hey you're back! Hope you are well. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning Hey you're back! Hope you are well. ![]() ![]() I’m well how’s you sexy | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some received it very differently, maybe because they only see the negative vibes the word can create. So given we’re not short of alternatives, why use a word which you know can create negative vibes? It’s either clumsy or deliberate. " It's not me you need to ask, I didn't choose to post it. There are other terms used that some dislike. Slut, BBC, BBW for example. There are other words what people like to take and make less negative also. I believe his intent wasn't bad, maybe a little misguided assuming people will see that and not be so offended. | |||
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"When is the world going to stop coming up with new, more PC words to describe things that have been described the same way since FOREVER? So can a DJ still drop a fat beat? Music would be fucked across the globe if he'd been pressured to drop a cuddly tune! It's OK to be skinny, slim, average, fat or obese. If that's what you are. Want to change it?...eat more carbs or put down the pie! The choice is yours but just leave language alone. Fine, if you want new words use them but stop forcing people to drop words that are descriptive and were not designed to put you down. FAT is a layer under the skin, if that's why you are big shouldn't we correctly describe you as someone with excess fat? "Fat" for short. The fat people I have least problems with are those who openly say, "i am fat". Every day millions openly say "I am getting fat", then when they get there they shout at you for saying they're fat!! I am white but if i get the hump because you call me white, do we all have to resort to non black, non brown, paper coloured, dulux pantone 356? Seriously words are just words. Actions speak far louder than any of them. Be accepting of what and who others are, be accepted for what and who you are, then, then we'd all get along just fine." Isn’t it a “Phat” beat? Just saying ![]() | |||
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"If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative " Bingo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative Bingo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yep. This. As long as it's not used in an offensive manse (as it hasn't been here) then the only person with the issue is the one taking offense. | |||
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"Isn’t intent more important than execution? He’s saying he loves and finds fat women sexy He isn’t saying something nasty So if you take offence at that, isn’t that your problem? If he was saying something nasty, I’d agree. But he isn’t. Quite the opposite " ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() No they don't though. Fat is something every single person has, Fat is not a body type. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() I see you've already pointed that out. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() Very true. It is not a body type. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() And I'm pointing it out again because it's obviously not getting through. Being called fat is not the same as being called larger or curvy. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() Yeah but when a bloke has the same fat content as a wall's sausage is it better to call him fat man than sausage man? The latter might make them very popular on FAB but only till he pulls his boxers down! Lmao | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning I wonder how many Fay's there are here . . . ." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() Or we just call him a man and let him decide how he describes his body type. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() Larger or curvier are just politer terms...you say tomato, I say tomato. Some will take offence, others won't. Swings and roundabouts ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() ![]() Well then you've just answered your own question. ![]() | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " Smooth op very smooth | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() ![]() ![]() Exactly...the words all mean the same, it's how things are worded that seem to trigger some people. | |||
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"Popcorn time. " With butter, sugar, or salt? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() It is for some people. | |||
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"Personally don’t think fat should be thought of as a bad word anymore, I’m fat and I’m happy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Popcorn time. With butter, sugar, or salt? ![]() ![]() Popcorn should never be salty ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Popcorn time. With butter, sugar, or salt? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() See, i was agreeing with you until this point. | |||
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"Personally don’t think fat should be thought of as a bad word anymore, I’m fat and I’m happy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() And it isn't for others and I don't have a problem with people that aren't offended by it's the people that are saying nobody should be. | |||
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"Popcorn time. With butter, sugar, or salt? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Popcorn time. " Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. | |||
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"Popcorn time. Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. " Big, beautiful, curvaceous, BBC. | |||
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"Popcorn time. Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. Big, beautiful, curvaceous, BBC." I'm a LFD ![]() | |||
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"Popcorn time. Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. Big, beautiful, curvaceous, BBC. I'm a LFD ![]() Lateral flow device?? | |||
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"Popcorn time. Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. Big, beautiful, curvaceous, BBC. I'm a LFD ![]() Little fat dwarf ![]() | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.." But they weren't. | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.. But they weren't. " Would you rather they were..?? | |||
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"Popcorn time. Not too much, you may become big, beautiful, curvaceous, fabulous or something. Big, beautiful, curvaceous, BBC. I'm a LFD ![]() ![]() My go-to pornhub category ![]() | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() ![]() I'm curvy but I wouldn't say I'm fat. I'm not overweight and haven't been for some time. | |||
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"Interpretation is everything on here. For those saying the word "fat" is the wrong word to choose... Would you prefer the OP said "rounder, curvier, bigger etc etc...at the end of the day, they all more or less mean the same ![]() ![]() As I said, it's all down to how people wish to interpret the words used and what they perceive them to mean to that individual. | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.." BMIs for most people give an indication of whether or not they are overweight but for people who are very fit and train alot (such as athletes), other methods need to be used as a BMI can give a false impression of a persons health (someone with a high muscle mass, with very low body fat could easily score over 25. Whilst I have more body fat than I did when I was at my peak, there's not a lot of it and I'm very fit yet, my BMI is 25. BMIs without context say very little about a persons body shape and fitness. | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.. BMIs for most people give an indication of whether or not they are overweight but for people who are very fit and train alot (such as athletes), other methods need to be used as a BMI can give a false impression of a persons health (someone with a high muscle mass, with very low body fat could easily score over 25. Whilst I have more body fat than I did when I was at my peak, there's not a lot of it and I'm very fit yet, my BMI is 25. BMIs without context say very little about a persons body shape and fitness." As you say “ for most people” I think that is the group we are talking about on here, not athletes.. | |||
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"I'm really in the mood fora burger and chips now, thanks!!!" Ooohh... A dirty market cheese burger would be great, right about now! ![]() | |||
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"How about listing PC terms that even Karen's and Dave's can't complain about " I think I just won online bingo! | |||
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"How about listing PC terms that even Karen's and Dave's can't complain about I think I just won online bingo!" Do you go by name of Karen or Dave? ![]() | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. " In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? Honestly, I prefer it to “but you’re not fat! You’re sexy!” It’s really not hard to be both super fat and super fuckable. Totally agree. Fat and sexy/beautiful etc aren’t mutually exclusive. Big yep on that ![]() Well that was vastly more entertaining than looking at cats on the internet! If you're ever flying from/to Stansted or happen to find yourself lost in Cambridge I'll shout you a bloody strong coffee. ![]() | |||
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"How about listing PC terms that even Karen's and Dave's can't complain about I think I just won online bingo! Do you go by name of Karen or Dave? ![]() I'm fluid | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.. BMIs for most people give an indication of whether or not they are overweight but for people who are very fit and train alot (such as athletes), other methods need to be used as a BMI can give a false impression of a persons health (someone with a high muscle mass, with very low body fat could easily score over 25. Whilst I have more body fat than I did when I was at my peak, there's not a lot of it and I'm very fit yet, my BMI is 25. BMIs without context say very little about a persons body shape and fitness. As you say “ for most people” I think that is the group we are talking about on here, not athletes.." In that case, I'm an overweight slim guy ![]() | |||
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"How about listing PC terms that even Karen's and Dave's can't complain about " Man ... no Woman ... no Human ... no Fuck! | |||
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"For clarity I did some research The World Health Organisation state BMI over 25 = Overweight BMI over 30 = Obese BMI over 40 = Morbidly Obese. All rather unfriendly sounding but medically accurate…..I wonder what the reaction would be if those terms were used.. BMIs for most people give an indication of whether or not they are overweight but for people who are very fit and train alot (such as athletes), other methods need to be used as a BMI can give a false impression of a persons health (someone with a high muscle mass, with very low body fat could easily score over 25. Whilst I have more body fat than I did when I was at my peak, there's not a lot of it and I'm very fit yet, my BMI is 25. BMIs without context say very little about a persons body shape and fitness. As you say “ for most people” I think that is the group we are talking about on here, not athletes.. In that case, I'm an overweight slim guy ![]() I totally agree with your point about athletes and the like. The post just got me thinking, what is the correct terminology, that was the best I could come up with. Personally I prefer curves but that will upset someone… | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() What the fuck are you on about?! ![]() | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? " Well put ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() I read a news article just like that where the partner used dildos and the other half had no ideas that she too was a cis female. People just bed jumping and turning lights off? | |||
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"OP do you really think women want to be called fat? I am not trying to upset people but when you say curvy you see size 8 saying they are curvy. I am trying to say the type of women that really I find so so sexy" I’m not offended, and nor am I commenting on the op, but any size can be curvy, if they go in and out, that’s a curve. | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() ![]() Am i obliged to have to explain myself to you? I don't think so. | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() Wtf??? | |||
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"I'm not offended by the term fat girl but bored of the repetitive posts about fat girls from the OP ![]() then don't read move on simples | |||
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"We could take from this …. The OP likes ladies of a larger than average nature, that’s his choice, the variety of responses shows some aren’t offended, some are, no song was ever written about a slim girl but there are plenty about those with a big bum so he might be onto something here" Bony Moronie by Larry Williams | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() ![]() Did I ask you to? I thought the ?! Implied the rhetorical nature of my statement. | |||
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"Im fat.... 46 percent of me is fat according to my smart scales. Im also short. I dont see these words as a negative just descriptive " I went in one of those fancy schmancy scales that work out your bone density once and it said I was 100.2% obese ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Im fat.... 46 percent of me is fat according to my smart scales. Im also short. I dont see these words as a negative just descriptive I went in one of those fancy schmancy scales that work out your bone density once and it said I was 100.2% obese ![]() ![]() Whatever you do, don't use talking scales. I went on and the scales said 'One person at a time, please'. That said, we're both fat and that's that, but it's the add-ons that are more offensive, you always get 'fat bastard' never 'curvy bastard'. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() Not well put at all because there's some major generalisations and hypocrisy in it's an hypocrisy in there. In fact there is hypocrisy all over this thread. The people commenting saying the OP didn't mean offence, and it's OK to call others fat, have said the exact opposite on other threads with a different OP. Seems to very much depend on who the op is and who is commenting. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() That's your opinion which you have the right to express just as everyone else has. Not everyone is/has to agree. You find people saying others shouldn't be offended offensive....others don't....simple | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() Huh? I am not offended by the word what I am bothered is people saying nobody should be offended by it. I have also seen similar threads where an OP has been absolutely slammed for you for using the same word in the same context. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() I didn't say you were offended by the word ![]() | |||
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"Personally don’t think fat should be thought of as a bad word anymore, I’m fat and I’m happy ![]() I'd be happy too if I was close to those boobs. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm neither fat, nor a Fay. Simply curvaceous and a bigger size than some others. ![]() And very sexy in burlesque too ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Seems to very much depend on who the op is and who is commenting. " Sadly it does appear to be so, but it shouldn't be. | |||
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"While everyone is discussing the correct word to call us(as per usual). Our fabulousness is been overlooked. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() Some OPs love fat women. Some OPs hate fat women and are taking the piss. Hence the different responses. ![]() | |||
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"I love all the beautiful Fay girls on here. You are all so sexy. Pop along say hi this morning " I have no objection to the word fat or being called fat, as long as its not in an insulting way. | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() ![]() And I am talking about very similar threads where the op has not been defended. | |||
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"Nope, still not in favour of that as these days a man might jump into be before you realise he's actually got a vagina! and for not shagging him/her it's YOU that's in the wrong! ![]() ![]() Rhetorical - how many syllables in that then?! LOL | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() No hypocrisy from me and I maintain that OP has done nothing wrong in using ‘fat’ as a positive description. You not liking it is entirely your affair. But if you’re going to react to every comment where someone agrees with something that goes against what you think you’re going to have a long day. Is it not better to accept that liking someone else’s choice of word or not is a personal choice? | |||
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"In this context ‘fat’ has been used in a positive way so I’ve no idea why anyone would be offended. OP likes fat girls, there are lots of us fat girls on Fab. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t have used that word it’s because you obviously associate someone being fat as a negative thing, clearly OP doesn’t. Actually it's an incorrect word to describe someone. Nobody is fat that isn't a body type fat is something you have not something you are. If people don't want to be described as fat that's that's their decision you don't get to decide whether they should be offended by it. In the same way you don’t get to decide that everyone should be offended and that OP’s use of language is incorrect. It’s not incorrect, you just don’t like it. I have fat, I am fat (I don’t agree it isn’t a body type - we all grew up describing people as fat and thin) and have no issue with OP choosing to say he likes fat girls. Lots of people started jumping on him for his choice of word as though he’d done something wrong, he hasn’t. Just because you and others don’t like the term fat because you see it as negative doesn’t mean he’s wrong. He and others don’t see it as a negative thing. If you don’t consider yourself as a fat person and being described that way would offend you, then OP isn’t for you. Surely it’s as simple as that isn’t it? Well put ![]() ![]() I didn't say he had done anything wrong using the word fat. I said nobody gets the decide whether someone else is offended or not. Stop making assumptions and putting words in my mouth. | |||
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"Too funny not to share but we've all got a sense of humour on here. God knows we need one. Anyway..... Fat girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you on one! Boom, Boom, I'm here all week folks " Be careful...you'll be jumped on for that one. Having a sense of humour is frowned upon on fab ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fat bottomed girls, they make the rocking world go round ![]() Very true. ![]() | |||
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"Too funny not to share but we've all got a sense of humour on here. God knows we need one. Anyway..... Fat girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you on one! Boom, Boom, I'm here all week folks Be careful...you'll be jumped on for that one. Having a sense of humour is frowned upon on fab ![]() ![]() No it really isn't. ![]() | |||
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"Too funny not to share but we've all got a sense of humour on here. God knows we need one. Anyway..... Fat girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you on one! Boom, Boom, I'm here all week folks Be careful...you'll be jumped on for that one. Having a sense of humour is frowned upon on fab ![]() ![]() ![]() Now there's a surprise!! | |||
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"Too funny not to share but we've all got a sense of humour on here. God knows we need one. Anyway..... Fat girls are like mopeds, great fun to ride but you wouldn't want your mates to see you on one! Boom, Boom, I'm here all week folks Be careful...you'll be jumped on for that one. Having a sense of humour is frowned upon on fab ![]() ![]() ![]() What is sweet? | |||
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