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Should there be a limit on men

By *odieCI5 OP Man over a year ago

Solihull

As someone who has been on the scene a long time, I have seen this site change so much, there is now way way to many men on here, non swingers just after hook ups, even the old boys in the bar at my local are on here. It’s becoming unfit for purpose

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

But I'm here for the men, so it's not an issue for me.

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Cramping your style is it….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You go first then, trim the numbers by 1 to start with.

Thanks for improving my odds. Very considerate of ya.

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

there is to many men, they keep contacting me,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Imagine, people using this website to hook up.

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"You go first then, trim the numbers by 1 to start with.

Thanks for improving my odds. Very considerate of ya. "

Take one for the team!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As someone who has been on the scene a long time, I have seen this site change so much, there is now way way to many men on here, non swingers just after hook ups, even the old boys in the bar at my local are on here. It’s becoming unfit for purpose "

How would you decide who makes the cut? Should you be removed to make room for another man?

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"there is to many men, they keep contacting me,,"

Block them from message then, simples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You go first then, trim the numbers by 1 to start with.

Thanks for improving my odds. Very considerate of ya. "

It's Bodie's idea after all.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No Limit - 2 Unlimited

www.youtube.com/watch?v=qM5W7Xn7FiA

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybodie needs somebodie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there was a limit on men , who says who stays and who goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t think it would be possible to manage, maybe put the support prices up for new members joining and make it free for couples and singles ladies, personally it doesn’t bother me it is what it is

far more serious issues going on in everyday life than to stress about how many guys are on here. If people think I’m worth putting some time in getting to know then brilliant and if not so be it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’re blessed with plenty of choice then.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

If you fit a limiter how will some of us hammer away all night?

There will be so many disappointed women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many should we have? Out of curiosity?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS over a year ago

doncaster

I'm only here for the men so no complaints here

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

men are now blocked,,

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"If there was a limit on men , who says who stays and who goes. "

He's been listening to The Clash ^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many should we have? Out of curiosity?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"men are now blocked,,"

Congratulations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

thank you..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfit for your purpose maybe. Seems ok to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a bit of competition op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you"

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You know that’s there’s that many dudes in here, they had to make an overflow website called fab-guys.

true story

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you"

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

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By *odieCI5 OP Man over a year ago

Solihull

And outcome the keyboard worriers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?"

I quite agree, I should go along with the crowd and mimic their comments, that would be the better thing for me to do, I’ll be less salty going forward

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?"

Ooh the burn...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?

Ooh the burn..."

Salt and vinegar and burns do not mix well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…"

Entitled? He has a point, the ratio is probably 20:1, evening the odds up would improve it for some but that’s not going to happen as Fab is a money making enterprise. On that basis, he is entitled to proffer a suggestion from what I see as a fair point. As for me going away, unlikely

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?

Ooh the burn...

Salt and vinegar and burns do not mix well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?

I quite agree, I should go along with the crowd and mimic their comments, that would be the better thing for me to do, I’ll be less salty going forward "

Your progress is inspiring.

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Maybe he just needs to up his game?

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else..

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's definitely more than 20:1 too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Maybe he just needs to up his game?"

Who decides who goes? If you get rid of half the men that's still 10-1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Maybe he just needs to up his game?"

That would be a reasonable assessment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?"

Now it all makes sense. Guy just wanted improved odds of gettin some fanny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?

Now it all makes sense. Guy just wanted improved odds of gettin some fanny. "

I’ve always said Thanos was right in theory. This just confirms it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Maybe he just needs to up his game?

Who decides who goes? If you get rid of half the men that's still 10-1."

No one is going, he made an observation and a suggestion, a suggestion which will never be taken up.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Yes, as you suggested the idea you should be first to voluntarily delete your account maybe?!

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"there is to many men, they keep contacting me,,"

You can change your settings…….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else.."

Nothing fair in exclusion but the OP lacks the influence to affect a change, he has made an observation, see it for what it is. Can’t condemn a man for his thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

Would you like some vinegar with that salt?

I quite agree, I should go along with the crowd and mimic their comments, that would be the better thing for me to do, I’ll be less salty going forward

Your progress is inspiring."

Glad you approve of my progress, group think is always better than individual thought. I shall pay attention more to the consensus

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

The answer is to heavily limit number of messages you can send

Limit messages to 2 a day (unless replying to someone you’ve already spoke with)

Fabs won’t do it, because they care more about money coming in than user experience. Can’t blame them, it’s a business

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else..

Nothing fair in exclusion but the OP lacks the influence to affect a change, he has made an observation, see it for what it is. Can’t condemn a man for his thoughts "

But you can question his self entitlement that he should be here as opposed to anyone else..

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

With any website the value is on number of members so why on earth would Fab limit numbers?

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By *adyJayneWoman over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I've been on here over 15 years, possibly closer to 20.

In that time I would say precisely nothing has changed.

There have always been more men then women. People come and go buy fab pretty much stays the same.

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By *hat3wordsMan over a year ago

North West

What a ridiculous statement.

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By *tooveMan over a year ago

belfast

So who decides what men are allowed?

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

"Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?

Now it all makes sense. Guy just wanted improved odds of gettin some fanny.

I’ve always said Thanos was right in theory. This just confirms it."

Thanos's theory was wrong , as it wouldn't take that many years before the population would grow again to levels equaling and surpassing the time of the "snap"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to agree that there are too many non genuine men here but the issue is really there is not enough women in the NSA scene for some reason. Rather than blaming men i think the scene needs to do something to attract women as it seems they are not as interested in NSA as they used to be,shown by the small number of them.

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Why don’t we do it with a phone vote

I’ve a few who I’d vote to get booted out

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By *tooveMan over a year ago

belfast

"And outcome the keyboard worriers "

Yawn. People disagree with your daft comment so they're keyboard warriors.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably because it doesn't cost anything and no vetting etc. easier for people with a casual interest to join.

In a way that's not necessarily a bad thing,as long as everyone is aware.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?

Now it all makes sense. Guy just wanted improved odds of gettin some fanny.

I’ve always said Thanos was right in theory. This just confirms it.

Thanos's theory was wrong , as it wouldn't take that many years before the population would grow again to levels equaling and surpassing the time of the "snap""

I meant the fact that we’re overpopulated and it is unsustainable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else..

Nothing fair in exclusion but the OP lacks the influence to affect a change, he has made an observation, see it for what it is. Can’t condemn a man for his thoughts

But you can question his self entitlement that he should be here as opposed to anyone else.."

Questioning him is reasonable, I have no objection to those arguing against his point. Could be done gentler but I believe in free speech so I can’t dictate the manner in which people fire back

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

"Do you think this is what Thanos was really trying to do?

Now it all makes sense. Guy just wanted improved odds of gettin some fanny.

I’ve always said Thanos was right in theory. This just confirms it."

Thanos's theory was wrong , as it wouldn't take that many years before the population would grow again to levels equaling and surpassing the time of the "snap"

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else..

Nothing fair in exclusion but the OP lacks the influence to affect a change, he has made an observation, see it for what it is. Can’t condemn a man for his thoughts

But you can question his self entitlement that he should be here as opposed to anyone else..

Questioning him is reasonable, I have no objection to those arguing against his point. Could be done gentler but I believe in free speech so I can’t dictate the manner in which people fire back"
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And he advocates exclusion which you agree is never fair so how does he raise a fair point..??

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

"But I'm here for the men, so it's not an issue for me."

I think he may be trying to get on a podium where he stands above the rest of the guys here

How can a single guy say others aren’t swingers ….?

Swinging is all about having fun , socials, three/foursomes/moresomes orgies we’re all here for the same reason … to have a good time and enjoy other peoples company

Or do I miss the point of swinging ?

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

Yes, as you suggested the idea you should be first to voluntarily delete your account maybe?!"

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By *odieCI5 OP Man over a year ago

Solihull

I shall put it another way, why are there so many dick heads on here, and those who have taken this thread as an opportunity to throw insults, you can count yourself among them. You really are sad individuals. Lake the intelligence to have a discussion so out come the sly remarks. It’s definitely YOU who should be kicked off. How many times to you see a woman’s profile complaining about abuse from men

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It's fit for my purpose. Fab can be anything it wants to be by anybody who wants it. Even if the numbers of men were significantly reduced, it wouldn't guarantee a meet.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I shall put it another way, why are there so many dick heads on here, and those who have taken this thread as an opportunity to throw insults, you can count yourself among them. You really are sad individuals. Lake the intelligence to have a discussion so out come the sly remarks. It’s definitely YOU who should be kicked off. How many times to you see a woman’s profile complaining about abuse from men"

If it's not fit for purpose why are you still here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who has thrown an insult?

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

I genuinely agree that there are some issue with the site.

None of them are down to the pure number of men using it though.

I also think that by putting a litmus test on how people use it like you imply with who you claim are here now will diminish that experience.

Have a think on how you think the tools on here work for you, how they don;t work for you and take that to the feedback for the site.

I think that is likely to overcome your issues more so than simply lowering the number of men.

But that's just my two pence.

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Ah, the truth outs…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cute.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

What about the people who are only on here for men don’t you think it’s unfair to limit the amount of men ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Relax everyone x

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Do you think the forum regulars are some of those that are abusing other members?

Isn't it more likely to be the ones that sign up and get banned rather than the ones that participate here on a daily basis?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a lot of men and competition is probably fierce. Any site will have some less than polite people but as with all social you just skip past them. I think this site can be quite decent fun for people and sorry to hear you’re not having a great time of it.

Getting moody won’t achieve anything though

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Because men have dicks, therefore they (some, not all) are dicks.

Pretty sure I've seen men get abuse from women. Gender equality and all that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me to say. I don't have to manage the volumes.

There's probably of better ways of managing fabs issues if one was inclined.

That said, having been on and off for about six years, I've not noticed any change. But then again, I refer back to my first comment.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Op the number of men on here as nothing to do with anyone success. If able to grab the attention of the woman/women it's just natural.but if they don't like something they see well that's another story

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

And what’s fair about exclusion.. forgot to answer that.

And why is he more entitled to be here than anyone else..

Nothing fair in exclusion but the OP lacks the influence to affect a change, he has made an observation, see it for what it is. Can’t condemn a man for his thoughts

But you can question his self entitlement that he should be here as opposed to anyone else..

Questioning him is reasonable, I have no objection to those arguing against his point. Could be done gentler but I believe in free speech so I can’t dictate the manner in which people fire back.

And he advocates exclusion which you agree is never fair so how does he raise a fair point..??"

The fair point is the numbers, admittedly he should be drawn out on how that is achieved

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

And how many times do you see women complain about all the messages they get yet refuse to use their filters and women can be just as abusive as men on here. I know I took control over my inbox a long time ago and guess what,I very very rarely get any abuse at all on here. And when I do I just delete it and move on. I don't need men's numbers to be limited on here cos I took control of my journey and I have no issue with messaging someone first as well which a lot of women and couples don't seem to do or want to do.

Anyone who wants to be on here can and they can use the site for whatever reason they want as long as it is within the rules.Who exactly decides who is swinger is ? Because without single men (and women) a lot of people would never get their fantasy threesomes etc . If you are struggling then you should look inward and see if it's something you're doing that is causing your lack of success rather than deciding you should be entitled to stay but others should be kicked off the site.

This whole blaming other men is sad and what others do has no bearing on others lack of success on here.

There are plenty of single men who do very well on here and they all had to start off on here and learn how to be successful on here.They are usually not the ones who point the fingers at others and want to change fab to suit them .

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

You gonna vet all new applications for those of us looking for single men? Kick out some profiles so the quota is filled.

I'm looking for hook ups too (with men), maybe I should just leave then....

Leave you and your old boys from the bar to chat on here with yourselves about all the lovely ladies who are suddenly so interested now that options have been limited

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?"

I’ve no cause for complaint personally I’m just seeing where the OP is coming from. I’ve got no dog in this race to be fair but I can’t help drawing some of the heat away from someone if they are copping it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck sake! Can you all stop mailing me and asking if I FAF?

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The more men and subsequently poor profiles exist, the better the odds for the ones who can stand out

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

It's not a lottery to get chosen.

Their chances of being found an attractive option don't change due to lack of other options.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck sake! Can you all stop mailing me and asking if I FAF? "

Stop harassing Mr Soze, he doesn’t exist, now turn it in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit.."

I’m not personally attacking contributors but the cesspit comment stands as I see it as a place where a pile on can take place. Some are pleasant in their disagreeing, others less so. That said, that is just my opinion, I expect some agree and a fair few will disagree. As for showing my true colours, I’m not sure what assessment could be made from my opinion but if I need to be labelled or judged, so be it

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By *JstarsoloWoman over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

" It's not a lottery to get chosen. Their chances of being found an attractive option don't change due to lack of other options. "

Agreed

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ?

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

Men keep contacting me to and long may they continue to do so

It's great to have a choice

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, to help can you explain the difference between what you are here for as a swinger and the other old geezers from your pub?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

In the muggle world men and women make connections..have dates and meet without social interference...so fabland should have the same values and freedoms

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ?"
what car do you drive ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ?"
doesn't he use the indicators?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??"

A personal attack would be deemed as bullying. My comment on the Forums isn’t directed at individuals, so no one can claim to have been attacked. The owners of the Forum might feel different as they possess it, contributors merely utilise. It isn’t part of them. Someone can slag off a football team, I wouldn’t expect a supporter to see it as a personal attack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By limiting the numbers doesn't make who's left anymore attractive to the people who are looking to meet up OP.

In the club environment they limit men because of the way "some" men behave, it's the same there though, people don't play just because of what's available

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??

It’s directed at all the individuals that form that group….

You do like a contradiction don’t you…

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ? what car do you drive ?"

A reliant 3 wheeler like Del boy's

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ?doesn't he use the indicators?

He used to. But now there are so many extra drivers on the roads...... if only we could limit them.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??

It’s directed at all the individuals that form that group….

You do like a contradiction don’t you…"

I disagree, I understand you feel that way. I assume you agree slagging off a football team is a personal attack on its’ supporters. Slagging off the Tories or Labour, would that be a personal attack on its’ support?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so how do you choose who can join and who cant ?? i trust my own judgments i dont trust others just look at some of the clubs who select ..yep so boring ...

no the site is a free to join are there too many men yes but they are so easy to sort thru that its not a problem for us couples and ladies ...its only a problem if your a lazy guy or a sex on a plate type ..so no leave it be

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ? what car do you drive ?

A reliant 3 wheeler like Del boy's "
Del always aspired to drive a Mercedes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??

It’s directed at all the individuals that form that group….

You do like a contradiction don’t you…"

How about binning the virus threat & creating an argument room ? ( bit like Monty Python)

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Sorry Op, you raised a fair point but it appears the Forum or Cesspit have had a pop at you

What’s fair about exclusion..??

More entitled bullshit and if you don’t like it… guess what you can do…

Only 20:1, I'd wager it's higher.

But considering you are looking for single men and those odds are in your favour, no?

I think he’s shown his true colours as you did calling the forum and viz a vie it contributors a cesspit..

What’s the difference between a personal attack or an attack on a group…??

It’s directed at all the individuals that form that group….

You do like a contradiction don’t you…

The forum isn’t a team. It is made up by contributing individuals which you call a cess pit. Your team analogy just doesn’t work…

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By *ldbutrandyMan over a year ago

West Midlands

"I'd wager the OP drives a German car. Maybe a BMW or AUDI. Lol.

And has the opinion the world exists solely for himself. Everyone else is an obstacle to be hurdled, or even better removed / reduced ? what car do you drive ?

A reliant 3 wheeler like Del boy's Del always aspired to drive a Mercedes

True. But then he WAS a knob , a loveable knob , i give you.

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