Met a lady the other day that adored having guys that are attached, got a real kick from tasting the forbidden fruit. Not thought too much about this in the past but must it admit it has turned me on loads and find it quite kinky. Many females on here the same or is it a minority? |
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I used to not care too much when I had my girl in a candy shop phase
As I always thought, it’s his decision and that’s his issue to deal with… not mine
But I’ve decided to not go there anymore as I’ve been longing for something more meaningful, so somebody who can’t stick around or only message me when she’s not around.. is just not what I’m looking for!
Feeling wanted only in certain moments can feel completely shit!!
Also there would be no ground to build with people like that, because if he done it to her, he could it to me…
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I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?
Personally I'm not into it. I've been cheated on and it felt shite, and I wouldn't want to facilitate anyone's cheating. Plus the potential for being dragged into another's drama is always there.
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"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?
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I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.
I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.
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I suppose there are two sides to this coin. I like men who are attached mainly because they have less time on their hands to annoy me, single men tend to have too much time on their hand to push boundaries and make themselves a nuisance. I am not saying that attached men can't or don't do the same but I've found single men moreso. I would never seek out an attached man to cheat but if they've already made the decision to do so thats on them not me. As for it being a turn on re: forbidden fruit ...does nothing for me ..a cock is a cock . |
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"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?
I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.
I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.
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Yes, I think especially for individuals with lower self esteem… being wanted and desired so much by somebody who is supposed to be faithful
Can feel like a boost and power trip. In all the wrong ways
And as you have big highs, you also might have the big lows of… but he’s disappeared for a bit cos he’s with her. Or whatever |
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"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?
I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.
I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.
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Wow, that's spiteful! |
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"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?
I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.
I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.
Wow, that's spiteful! "
Power. It makes people do horrible things |
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Forgot to add if you've seen me as a couple for play and the agreement is that you play together ..if the hub ever contacts me without wife's knowledge for play one on one I'm snitching...directly and without hesitation  |
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Dirk was chatting to this one girl once, they agreed to meet up for a coffee, he said he'll run it by me first and she got offended!
She was okay with meeting a guy who is attached but categorically not okay with that guys partner knowing about it.
Safe to say they never met.
Now this kind of shit I do not condone nor respect.
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I have had quite the few disgruntled gents who are on here as part of a couple when I have said I wont meet them solo, because I refuse to play solo with anyone attached unless I am convinced BY the partner that they are ok with it. |
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