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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m curious guys, I recently joined the site and I’m looking to find just one person I can make a connection with and share fun times on a regular basis, (after 16yr relationship), I keep getting offers from strange people but no normal ladies I find attractive or click with..I don’t really want to sleep with the whole site to get Veri’s but I know I probably need em to find someone?, I don’t know…I’m new to all this.. am I doing something wrong? Maybe I do need to sleep with the whole site? I had a guy message me today, turned out he wanted me to sleep with his mrs while he watched and cleaned up?? I’m so confused.. I just want a no strings regular FWB lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess I’m asking is there some sort of process or something to get a Regular FWB, I like the swinging scene it’s beautiful to watch human nature show itself with no boundaries, I have seen some weird stuff on here and I say each to their own, me personally I’m just looking for someone to chill with and also fuck like bunnies when we get the chance.. no commitment, no strings…we have a laugh then go our separate ways till the next time…but that in itself is hard to find on here, or am I missing a trick?more power to those that already have fwb…it’s a tough game!lol |
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Yes there is a process involving time, patience and effort.
How you apply all 3 of those will be down to the individual but it requires both parties to do likewise.
There is no actual blueprint.
People have started fwb threads asking others who are interested in finding one to add their names and get chatting but you will never know if you are compatible until you have met numerous times.
Two people could be great friends but not compatible sexually or could be amazing in bed but very little in common elsewhere that could sustain a friendship.
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"I guess I’m asking is there some sort of process or something to get a Regular FWB, I like the swinging scene it’s beautiful to watch human nature show itself with no boundaries, I have seen some weird stuff on here and I say each to their own, me personally I’m just looking for someone to chill with and also fuck like bunnies when we get the chance.. no commitment, no strings…we have a laugh then go our separate ways till the next time…but that in itself is hard to find on here, or am I missing a trick?more power to those that already have fwb…it’s a tough game!lol"
What you are describing is more like a fuck buddy than a fwb.
FWB's focus on the friendship as much as the benefits and while there may be no strings attached there is an inherent commitment to each other as friends and doing more than just fucking.
If one or other is more interested in the benefits it will never work as a fwb relationship. |
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You need to have realistic expectations here, or else you'll likely get the disappointing 7 weeks here, to continuem.
You face much of the same challenges that most of the thousands of men here also do
It could be helpful to review much or the advice given to them. You have to sell yourself well here |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m curious guys, I recently joined the site and I’m looking to find just one person I can make a connection with and share fun times on a regular basis, (after 16yr relationship), I keep getting offers from strange people but no normal ladies I find attractive or click with..I don’t really want to sleep with the whole site to get Veri’s but I know I probably need em to find someone?, I don’t know…I’m new to all this.. am I doing something wrong? Maybe I do need to sleep with the whole site? I had a guy message me today, turned out he wanted me to sleep with his mrs while he watched and cleaned up?? I’m so confused.. I just want a no strings regular FWB lol"
On Wednesday we are meeting a guy who (we hope) will become my wifes new FWB. As others have said it takes time to go from 1st fuck to 'regular' status as it involves time, trust and compatibility. None of this can be gained until you get familiar with each other so my message to you OP is learn to walk before you run and enjoy the journey of getting to that point with somebody.
Good luck, everything comes to he/she who waits. |
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