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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
You are messaging on fab he / she is hot and ticks all your boxes but then they say or do something to change your mind Any examples ? Being too keen ? Asking for more pictures? A comment you don’t like ? Interested to hear what has put people off |
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"Not so much in messages but when the very first words when meeting were " Are you nervous about meeting me?" told me all I needed to know
What did you do ?"
Cut all ties some time later but unfortunately not before becoming an extra in her soap opera. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x"
How’s the forums working out for you? 
This whole site is filled with sex chat. 
Or do you mean sexting? |
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"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x
How’s the forums working out for you?
This whole site is filled with sex chat.
Or do you mean sexting? "
The forums are all about cake 
Yeah, I meant setting. Does nothing for me with a complete stranger x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x
How’s the forums working out for you?
This whole site is filled with sex chat.
Or do you mean sexting?
The forums are all about cake
Yeah, I meant setting. Does nothing for me with a complete stranger x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Normally asking for more pictures when they don't have any  "
This bothers me I can't lie. Some have an empty profile and actually think it's fine to send a friend request and ask for more pics lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a dick pic
How often do you have that pleasure ?
It's not a pleasure. That's the problem.
I was being sarcastic! I know it’s a big problem x"
It’s all about size isn’t it?  |
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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Send a dick pic
How often do you have that pleasure ?
It's not a pleasure. That's the problem.
I was being sarcastic! I know it’s a big problem x
It’s all about size isn’t it? "
Lol wrong choice of words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The list is endless.
Mmmm
Breed
Bull
Bareback
Pineapple on pizza
They wear jeans to lounge around the house.
WTF pineapple made for pizza  "
In the same way that ketchup was made for a roast  |
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Asking for more pics, trying to initiate sex chat; sending million messages per second (not literally); men asking if I could find another lady for MFF before even meeting me; asking if they could bring a friend (usually male) before even meeting me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm :
- straight into the sex talk *yawn*
about how they will please me and make my legs quiver -_-
- constantly asking if I like their pics
- continuous messages to supposedly check in  ....once or twice in a few days sure but surely not 3 or 4 times a day
- going on about what they have ..one guy actually messaged me and said he had his own company and Santander confirmed he hit his first million .... 'I rode that pony into town to amuse myself ...how stupid do guys think ladies are ? if you're going to lie at least make it believable or creative' ( a jerk is a jerk with or without a million bucks)
- constantly telling you how awesome you look hoping that the 5th or 6th time will do the trick
- or the classic here is my picture I hope you don't run away ...  ..like should I ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What you wearing? Send a pic.
Hehe
So, I know it's short notice but you free tonight/this weekend.
What you doing? Asked about 10 times a day.
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Oh, you haven't fabbed my pics. Can you fab the ones you like just so I know. |
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"He said he couldn't wait to poke my cervix with his cock
And that didn't make you collapse with lust?
it did make me tightly cross my legs reading it!"
I can do that, make women cross their legs that is, not poke their cervix  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Anything too suggestive immediately.
Telling me a list of things/or a copy and pasted story about what they're going to do.
When they tell me they've never been with a black/whatever heritage they guess I am woman before.
Oh actually. When they start mansplaining basic things to me.
Please no people. |
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The being to keen! Spoke to a Newby this week! Gave my number reluctantly after him promising not ot barrage Me ! So we could have a face chat! Looks nice had a nice chat! But since has kept texting! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate words like breed ram destroy your hole,
Just turn me off straight away"
Unless they are talking about types of dog, or you have a genuine need for some demolition work perhaps? |
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"Referring to me as 'she' or 'her' is 'does she?' or'do you let her?' followed by some sexual question."
What is wrong with she / her or does she? If they don’t know your names what are they going to refer to you or as?
I agree with the do you let her part though unless profile stipulates a master or owned by etc… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Using mmmmm is an instant no. First message or later use that - gone. Ick.
Had sone guy ask if I was “shy” cause I didn’t reply. No pics on his profile either. Twat. Guess he’s the shy one. Patronising me gets a block straight off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Her wanting to sit on my lap and then pee in her knickers. 
hang on you to pee in her knickers?
No, her to pee in her own knickers but so it would 'cascade' over me "
Oh that gave me a tingle, either way lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things turn me off that I can’t even explain.
But. Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
I started chatting to someone with no pics on their profile and no verifications so I let it go on a bit as they sent a couple of pics, but once things started getting a bit hotter I asked for verification and not too surprisingly I never heard from them again! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Asking for more pictures.
If you've already decided you're interested based on what you see then is that not enough?
Face pics aside, if there's not enough visuals on a profile to enable you to make a decision as to whether there's interest and/or attraction then you're either
a.) Sending copy and paste messages to anyone and everyone
b.) Happy to shag anything without knowing what they look like bar an armpit, knee or ankle
Or
c.) Blind
Asking for more pics just makes it appear you're knocking one out and the moment you've shot your load and wiped your cock on the curtains you'll lose interest.
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" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own. "
This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.
And anyone asking if we'll hold their hand to go to a club or similar. You can't walk through the door by yourself but you're going to perform once you're there, how's that going to work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.
This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.
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Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.
This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.
Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet! "
Who the hell wouldn’t be enthusiastic if a woman they fancied said yes to meeting up with them? I’d be clicking my damn heels in the street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.
This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.
Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet!
Who the hell wouldn’t be enthusiastic if a woman they fancied said yes to meeting up with them? I’d be clicking my damn heels in the street. "
It happened really recently, I cancelled the meet because of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish there was a way of determining whether or not people do that thing where their sentences get higher in pitch as it goes on and everything sounds like a question... |
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"Saying they hate cock pictures then asking for one
Getting to needy if you don’t instantly reply to a message.
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To be fair I don’t like receiving random cock pics but I don’t mind if I’m planning to meet someone or been chatting for a while. I’ve never asked for one though. |
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