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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Coming home to an empty flat after work, no one to talk to about your day or theirs, someone to snuggle up to, I miss the feel of someone sleeping next to me, sharing a meal, realistically, there are too many things to mention |
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I miss the intimacy, touch and affection. I love those hangover days spent in bed spooning, sex, cuddling, sex, nap, food.. repeat.. someone to talk nonsense to, the attention of someone you really care about   |
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"I miss the intimacy, touch and affection. I love those hangover days spent in bed spooning, sex, cuddling, sex, nap, food.. repeat.. someone to talk nonsense to, the attention of someone you really care about "
this is also true x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner "
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted. 
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
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What if they snore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
What if they snore? "
I said I’d whisper to them, i can’t hear anything with my earplugs in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
What if they snore?
I said I’d whisper to them, i can’t hear anything with my earplugs in.
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Lol well prepared then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
What if they snore?
I said I’d whisper to them, i can’t hear anything with my earplugs in.
Lol well prepared then "
Always  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
What if they snore?
I said I’d whisper to them, i can’t hear anything with my earplugs in.
Lol well prepared then
Always "
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
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it’s really not that’s the only meal I am not good at making |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
it’s really not that’s the only meal I am not good at making "
Deliveroo.
It’s like saying, I’d have someone to iron my shirt, or clean the bathroom because I can’t get behind the u-bend. |
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
it’s really not that’s the only meal I am not good at making
Deliveroo.
It’s like saying, I’d have someone to iron my shirt, or clean the bathroom because I can’t get behind the u-bend. "
not really how are take out Sunday dinners better than fresh home cooked ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
That’s an easy fix. Make yourself a Sunday. Sorted.
Me? I really miss someone to hold, and to hold me. A place where I would feel safe and wanted. Someone who I can whisper some thoughts to before going to sleep, knowing when we wake we both would know we are in this together.
it’s really not that’s the only meal I am not good at making
Deliveroo.
It’s like saying, I’d have someone to iron my shirt, or clean the bathroom because I can’t get behind the u-bend. not really how are take out Sunday dinners better than fresh home cooked ones "
It’s going to be better than yours if you’re no good at making it. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
I do not hate anything about being single.
I do sometimes regret that I did not make more effort to find a partner during my 46 years as a singleton.
I have however benefitted from a 40 year ongoing purely platonic friendship which has had its moments, one of which was a drink fuelled party which resulted in the birth of my daughter and subsequently 3 gorgeous grandkids.
The freedom of being able to do your own thing in your own home is great but old age living alone throws up its challenges.
It will remain that way until I meet my maker.
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner "
I miss having someone to cook a Sunday roast for
Mostly walking into an empty house after work or someone to share a lazy Saturday lie in with. Little moments that you don’t realise you miss till you don’t have it anymore |
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"Mine is I never get a Sunday dinner
I miss having someone to cook a Sunday roast for
Mostly walking into an empty house after work or someone to share a lazy Saturday lie in with. Little moments that you don’t realise you miss till you don’t have it anymore "
did you say Sunday roast lol hey |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
The only drawback about being single is that I have to make a special effort to arrange sexual liaisons rather than sex being available, on tap, to coin a phrase.
All relationships will eventually turn sour, in some respect, although with the good ones, that process can take decades.
Singlehood facilitates freedom of thought and action, especially new and interesting partners, no matter how long their tenure! |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
I don't hate anything about my single life, but I do miss company sometimes. However, having said that I don't think I could live with anyone again, so 'company' would need to know when to leave! |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Coming home to an empty flat after work, no one to talk to about your day or theirs, someone to snuggle up to, I miss the feel of someone sleeping next to me, sharing a meal, realistically, there are too many things to mention"
What he said ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing. No arguments about pee on the toilet seat as I know it's mine. Can sleep when I want. Drink when I want. Invite pretty things around to get dirty with or do the "afternoon boyfriend" thing. Go to clubs as a "Swingle" and play with whoever I'm clicking with. My flat is filled with my crap and I don't have to deal with other people stuff or "justify" buying ANOTHER pair of boots. If I need cuddles I've got my cat. |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"Nothing. No arguments about pee on the toilet seat as I know it's mine. Can sleep when I want. Drink when I want. Invite pretty things around to get dirty with or do the "afternoon boyfriend" thing. Go to clubs as a "Swingle" and play with whoever I'm clicking with. My flat is filled with my crap and I don't have to deal with other people stuff or "justify" buying ANOTHER pair of boots. If I need cuddles I've got my cat. "
Sounds purr..fect |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
"Nothing. No arguments about pee on the toilet seat as I know it's mine. Can sleep when I want. Drink when I want. Invite pretty things around to get dirty with or do the "afternoon boyfriend" thing. Go to clubs as a "Swingle" and play with whoever I'm clicking with. My flat is filled with my crap and I don't have to deal with other people stuff or "justify" buying ANOTHER pair of boots. If I need cuddles I've got my cat. "
Absolutely this. |
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I was really touched reading these posts.
And to remind everyone of the obvious it can feel a lot lot lonelier in a relationship that isn’t working than being single.
Being happy single is the best thing you can be for your sake and any future relationship you enter into
Xx |
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"Cwtches and cuddles, sex, sharing experiences good and bad, doing things together...the list goes on. Although being single has its benefits too...hmmm, what are they?.."
I fucked that up, note to self, read the OP!! This is what i miss being single, not hate |
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By *im le2Man
over a year ago
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I love being single.
I can get up when I want.
Go bed when I want. Eat drink.
I'm not getting dressed today.
I'm going to watch porn and play with myself. Then about 5pm I'll invite a couple of mates to come n join me.
What's not to love about being single.
Time for a cold one. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
Happy being single at the momentI don't owe anyone anything and my time and freedom.are my own.
Too many bad relationships to ever want to go down that road.
Don't rule it out totally it's just I have become more wary of falling for someone again. |
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By *im le2Man
over a year ago
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Wow I'm glad I'm not your partner/unpaid housekeepee All you want is someone to cook n clean for you and after that you expect them to pay half the bills. I bet you also want sex on deman.
If you can't cope with the bills get a smaller property. There's a launderet down the street it takes an hour to wash n dry. You can Evan nip in the pub while it's doing or grab a take away. Plus launderets are a good place to meet other single ppl. |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
"I miss the intimacy, touch and affection. I love those hangover days spent in bed spooning, sex, cuddling, sex, nap, food.. repeat.. someone to talk nonsense to, the attention of someone you really care about "
All of this, but also having to be the one who does everything, not having someone to share all the regular chores with, Ive always done half the chores in a relationship but doing everything every day just gets wearing. And not having someone to look after you a bit if you’re sick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being single…I hate the ignorance I get in Asda.
I found an Asda employee, all I asked for was “do you have any clotted cream?”, and she walked off. Nothing, not even a look at me.
So I complained to management. He just said I was a single male and her actions was just a polite “no”. 
*I’ll be back next week. Thank you. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Nothing I hate on being single.
Few things I am missing though. Missing good back scratching and moisturiser after swimming session. Missing drink buddy for spontaneous glass of wine watching some horror on Netflix. |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"Lack of intimacy and support you'd get from a relationship. And generally having less sex than if you were in a relationship
Otherwise being single can be nice at times "
You mean I get to have a negative amount of sex  |
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I don’t hate being single but I do miss being in a relationship.
Someone to share your day with whether it’s good or bad. A hug without words being said because you just know they needed one. Someone to cry with and laugh with. Spooning, cuddling, early morning sex
Yeah, I miss these things…X |
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Singles “tax” - holidays especially
Not having someone tall around for certain tasks
More sex the would of course be nice
Someone to go to shows and similar with ( that doesn’t have to be a Romantic partner though but the things I fancy my current friends don’t)
But mostly I like my independence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Coming home to an empty flat after work, no one to talk to about your day or theirs, someone to snuggle up to, I miss the feel of someone sleeping next to me, sharing a meal, realistically, there are too many things to mention"
^ this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss the intimacy, touch and affection. I love those hangover days spent in bed spooning, sex, cuddling, sex, nap, food.. repeat.. someone to talk nonsense to, the attention of someone you really care about "
im single but still have all of the above thats what freinds with benefits are for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing at all.
I was in the Maldives earlier this year and dined alone most nights but did a fair amount people watching. Couples who were on their phone or not talking for long periods lead me to be completely happy being on my own! |
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When you are really really poorly and there is nobody to just bring you juice/tea/soup and some medicine.
So you just have to lay on the floor in a sweaty dressing gown, have a tantrum because life is so unfair, cry a bit, then pick yourself up, get the juice and pad quietly back to crawl under the duvet . . . |
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