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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been having a discussion with a male on fabs.
Basically he says you men will have sex with anyone, that's your not fussy, and don't care abouts looks etc as long as your are guaranteed sex.
He is adamant all guys are same, so thought may be interesting to start a forum to see if he's right or not.
So, will you shag anything or are you picky?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Certainly wouldn't just shag anybody, but I would agree that the majority of men aren't picky and would cast the net wider than most women, but we are talking in generalisations here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tell myself that my verifications are proof that this is not the case.
Delusion is a wonderful thing.
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I've basically told this guy he lives in a dream world, men are just as picky as women. He seems to think all guys are interested in are girls who are after their money, and that a guy will shag anything with a pulse. Beliefs like that wont get him anywhere on sites likd this, or with life in general though meeting people the conventional way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Certainly wouldn't just shag anybody, but I would agree that the majority of men aren't picky and would cast the net wider than most women, but we are talking in generalisations here"
Disagree with that generalised statement, from messages I get, I would say around 2% are men that will shag anything, the other 98% prefer to get to know someone, be attracted to them in both looks and personality |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This whole conversation started with this guy because he came across a profile of a woman, the profile clearly states numerous times need a large wallet for her to find you appealing enough to meet.
He basically said all guys would rather meet a woman like her who's after money than a normal everyday woman who likes a man regardless of how much is in their bank account.
Well I'm proud to say I've never asked for a guys bank balance as a condition of meeting them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, it's not all about sex, or shagging anything that moves or has a pulse.
Got to actually like someone in some way, even if it's just to say "phwoar !",
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a man..of course
But I'd say from my knowledge, and of course just my opinion, the majority of men would shag anything that had a pulse
Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a man..of course
But I'd say from my knowledge, and of course just my opinion, the majority of men would shag anything that had a pulse
Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
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........ okay two half's of shandy and I'm yours Jules.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past I would have shagged anyone, now I like to click with woman/couple. I rarely meet single woman unless they have a few verifications and are definite swingers. Had situations in the past where they've wanted more. Couples who are secure in their relationship are what I want to play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all.
I am very fussy.
I want to meet people because a mutual attraction exists and because we both want to be there, not because one or both of us has somewhere warm and moist to play hide the sausage in.
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Theres some men that would fuck anythin with a pulse but thats also true about some women.
I think the majority of us need or want that little bit more..... Some je ne ce que..... Va va voom
But sometimes for some people any holes a goal
Like the guy above Ive fucked a woman just coz Ive wanted a fuck...... Mostly I have to fancy her and then Id like to make lurve not just a quick fuck (single or double bag) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a man..of course
But I'd say from my knowledge, and of course just my opinion, the majority of men would shag anything that had a pulse
Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
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Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
This bit is true - how many guys have had a few too many and woken up to the nightmare that was a lovely the night before?? Me for one!!!! |
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"sometimes picky, sometimes not. Have turned women down that I fancied but have slept with some that I didn't ... no generalisations here! "
Well said that man..... I can relate to that. Alcohol have obviously played a part...... Whats that saying...
Ive never been to bed with an ugly woman...... But Ive woke up with a few  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's more about personality than looks , don't get me wrong there needs to be some physical attraction but I'm a realist and I'm not a Adonis by any means I think most men are pretty much the same we realise women whoever they may be or what ever they look like still get the pick .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very picky. Even if I find someone attractive it doesn't mean I'll sleep with them. I also like my brain to be stimulated. She could look like Angelina Jolie, but if she had the intelligence of Waynetta Slob she would politely be shown the door.
This is where communication comes into play. You can get a fairly good idea of someone's personality by exchanging a few messages or a social rather than a quickly arranged play meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all.
I am very fussy.
I want to meet people because a mutual attraction exists and because we both want to be there, not because one or both of us has somewhere warm and moist to play hide the sausage in.
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And I'd certainly be 'ever so grateful' if someone else - single male, female or couple felt that they knew the inside of my head well enough to make such a generalisation that included me!
We're all different, have different tastes, attractions and attitudes. Some will have a long list of demnands, specific body types, ages, locations etc - some will be more open to their interactions - and yes, there will be a small percentage that have little/no motive other than to get their rocks off via the 'any hole's a goal' route.
But i'd like to think this was as small a proportion of site members as possible! |
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By *orkieMan
over a year ago
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Definately picky when it comes to the opposite sex, there has to be a connection there. Have never been a member of the "any holes a goal" club hence have never needed to chew my arm off to escape the next morning
In a swing club I usually apply the Weatherspoons test... if I wouldnt be attracted to a gal in the pub on a night I wont play in a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally think that if being really honest about it most single guys on here would shag anything with a pulse though very few would openly admit to it on the forums.
For a hell of a lot of guys it's hard enough to get a response to a message they send to a woman never mind turning a meet down if offered one even if they did think she was a utter munter.
"from messages I get, I would say around 2% are men that will shag anything, the other 98% prefer to get to know someone, be attracted to them in both looks and personality"
I think they are playing the "how will the women want me to come across as" game there, trying to make it sound as if they do care a lot more than they really do.
Face it, most guys if their switched on enough are going to realize quickly enough that women want to feel a bit special and not just shag meat so being tactful and respect and sounding as if they want a form of connection before having sex is I think what the guy thinks the woman wants before he's got a hope in hells chance of meeting her.
From personal experience, a guy on here would shag someone they met on here that they wouldn't touch with a barge pole if they saw them out in the pub while with their mates.
But getting guys to admit this on the forums is like asking them to commit forum suicide regarding getting meets with women who also use the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a man..of course
But I'd say from my knowledge, and of course just my opinion, the majority of men would shag anything that had a pulse
Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
........ okay two half's of shandy and I'm yours Jules. "
That's what I like to hear You're looking very gorgeous today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely picky - although I dislike the term... For me there has to be mutual spark otherwise it would not be fun - " mechanical" sex seems so pointless
Mal
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been having a discussion with a male on fabs.
Basically he says you men will have sex with anyone, that's your not fussy, and don't care abouts looks etc as long as your are guaranteed sex.
He is adamant all guys are same, so thought may be interesting to start a forum to see if he's right or not.
So, will you shag anything or are you picky? "
Well for starters, like women, we're not all the same (how boring would that be?). Some will, some won't - I put myself in the latter bracket. You don't have to be a super model but I certainly need to be attracted to you.
The thing about men is we don't need to feel 'comfortable' or 'in the mood' to have sex, we just can, as and when we want - perhaps that gives women the impression that we'll all shag anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all.
I am very fussy.
I want to meet people because a mutual attraction exists and because we both want to be there, not because one or both of us has somewhere warm and moist to play hide the sausage in.
And I'd certainly be 'ever so grateful' if someone else - single male, female or couple felt that they knew the inside of my head well enough to make such a generalisation that included me!
We're all different, have different tastes, attractions and attitudes. Some will have a long list of demnands, specific body types, ages, locations etc - some will be more open to their interactions - and yes, there will be a small percentage that have little/no motive other than to get their rocks off via the 'any hole's a goal' route.
But i'd like to think this was as small a proportion of site members as possible! "
Fancy a drink Obi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally think that if being really honest about it most single guys on here would shag anything with a pulse though very few would openly admit to it on the forums.
For a hell of a lot of guys it's hard enough to get a response to a message they send to a woman never mind turning a meet down if offered one even if they did think she was a utter munter.
from messages I get, I would say around 2% are men that will shag anything, the other 98% prefer to get to know someone, be attracted to them in both looks and personality
I think they are playing the "how will the women want me to come across as" game there, trying to make it sound as if they do care a lot more than they really do.
Face it, most guys if their switched on enough are going to realize quickly enough that women want to feel a bit special and not just shag meat so being tactful and respect and sounding as if they want a form of connection before having sex is I think what the guy thinks the woman wants before he's got a hope in hells chance of meeting her.
From personal experience, a guy on here would shag someone they met on here that they wouldn't touch with a barge pole if they saw them out in the pub while with their mates.
But getting guys to admit this on the forums is like asking them to commit forum suicide regarding getting meets with women who also use the forums."
I get what you're saying re 'outing' themselves in the forums - but don't forget that only a tiny minority ever come in here - and even a smaller percentage of single males on site.
But a read of profile content will always give a better indication of attitude than someone 'saying what someone wants to hear' in a forum post or PM.
Some people seem to forget this when totally contradicting themselves in posts/PM's ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely picky - although I dislike the term... For me there has to be mutual spark otherwise it would not be fun - " mechanical" sex seems so pointless
Mal
Have fun and be safe"
Yes but to many it is just the end result they are interested in, whereas personally, I'd still be in the blocks if there was no attraction, mentally and physically.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking honestly if i was horny enough i would and have shagged anything, normally the self loathing comes after i've realiased i shagged someone i would never have looked twice at.
Which is what is great about this site, you can cherry pick the ones you fancy and try your luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am as fussy as i can be in that i read all their verifications and the ones they have left for other people.
not just looks wise, they have to be my type of person.
at the end of the day though its only sex and not looking for a marriage partner.
i have had sex with men i didnt fancy and probably the other way round,
didnt always make it less enjoyable though didnt want to meet them again. |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"I have been having a discussion with a male on fabs.
Basically he says you men will have sex with anyone, that's your not fussy, and don't care abouts looks etc as long as your are guaranteed sex.
He is adamant all guys are same, so thought may be interesting to start a forum to see if he's right or not.
So, will you shag anything or are you picky? "
Not true here have to have a connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am picky hence my lack of meets and socials on my veris.... I have to like the person I'm going to spend an intimate encounter with, just cos I'm male I don't always think with my dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a man..of course
But I'd say from my knowledge, and of course just my opinion, the majority of men would shag anything that had a pulse
Especially if you add alcohol into the mix
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all.
I am very fussy.
I want to meet people because a mutual attraction exists and because we both want to be there, not because one or both of us has somewhere warm and moist to play hide the sausage in.
And I'd certainly be 'ever so grateful' if someone else - single male, female or couple felt that they knew the inside of my head well enough to make such a generalisation that included me!
We're all different, have different tastes, attractions and attitudes. Some will have a long list of demnands, specific body types, ages, locations etc - some will be more open to their interactions - and yes, there will be a small percentage that have little/no motive other than to get their rocks off via the 'any hole's a goal' route.
But i'd like to think this was as small a proportion of site members as possible!
Fancy a drink Obi "
Me? I'm teetotal don't you know! |
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"This whole conversation started with this guy because he came across a profile of a woman, the profile clearly states numerous times need a large wallet for her to find you appealing enough to meet.
He basically said all guys would rather meet a woman like her who's after money than a normal everyday woman who likes a man regardless of how much is in their bank account.
Well I'm proud to say I've never asked for a guys bank balance as a condition of meeting them "
I bet I know what profile this was. I can't accross one when looking at the top fabbed pics this morning!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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from my exerience on these type of sites, guys are very much outnumbered and dont get the choice females do.. so females can be picky.. to me and from a lot fo threads u read about females not replying etc.. men find it hard to get a meet let alone be choosy over it!
i would think lack of meets on someones profile would be due to them not being able to get a meet not be picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol the truth is the majority of single men would have sex with just about anyone if they were given the chance especially on here the problem been that the same majority wont admit it. |
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Blokes largely think with their cock ..
So yes I would say loads would but them admitting it is a different story ..
Also in our experince of clubs etc we have seen this,many times seen guys shagging women and thiking no way !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been having a discussion with a male on fabs.
Basically he says you men will have sex with anyone, that's your not fussy, and don't care abouts looks etc as long as your are guaranteed sex.
He is adamant all guys are same, so thought may be interesting to start a forum to see if he's right or not.
So, will you shag anything or are you picky? "
Think he's trying to justify something to himself, by trying to tar all guys with the same brush. Some of us have standards......
They're pretty low sometimes, but they're standards none the less...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm quite fussy but will admit to having the odd lapse or two over the years, mostly alcohol induced to be fair lol.
As far as swinging goes I like to have fun with people that are at least equal to what I already have at home, I have to be both physically and mentally attracted to the person otherwise my little soldier isn't going to stand to attention
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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A lovely heartwarming thread, so many guys who put the mental connection before the penile one.
me, I have been shagging a long time and have shagged people I have zero connection because I needed my scrotum emptied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lovely heartwarming thread, so many guys who put the mental connection before the penile one.
me, I have been shagging a long time and have shagged people I have zero connection because I needed my scrotum emptied."
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all.
I am very fussy.
I want to meet people because a mutual attraction exists and because we both want to be there, not because one or both of us has somewhere warm and moist to play hide the sausage in.
And I'd certainly be 'ever so grateful' if someone else - single male, female or couple felt that they knew the inside of my head well enough to make such a generalisation that included me!
We're all different, have different tastes, attractions and attitudes. Some will have a long list of demnands, specific body types, ages, locations etc - some will be more open to their interactions - and yes, there will be a small percentage that have little/no motive other than to get their rocks off via the 'any hole's a goal' route.
But i'd like to think this was as small a proportion of site members as possible!
Fancy a drink Obi
Me? I'm teetotal don't you know! "
Ah chocolate cake will work then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lovely heartwarming thread, so many guys who put the mental connection before the penile one.
me, I have been shagging a long time and have shagged people I have zero connection because I needed my scrotum emptied."
I'd always prefer just to have a quick wank!
It's sex with someone I like - and i'll never get a 'thanks, but no thanks' message!
And Julie - you know me and cake!!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"A lovely heartwarming thread, so many guys who put the mental connection before the penile one.
me, I have been shagging a long time and have shagged people I have zero connection because I needed my scrotum emptied.
I'd always prefer just to have a quick wank!
It's sex with someone I like - and i'll never get a 'thanks, but no thanks' message!
And Julie - you know me and cake!! "
and that is cool.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally think that if being really honest about it most single guys on here would shag anything with a pulse though very few would openly admit to it on the forums.
For a hell of a lot of guys it's hard enough to get a response to a message they send to a woman never mind turning a meet down if offered one even if they did think she was a utter munter.
from messages I get, I would say around 2% are men that will shag anything, the other 98% prefer to get to know someone, be attracted to them in both looks and personality
I think they are playing the "how will the women want me to come across as" game there, trying to make it sound as if they do care a lot more than they really do.
Face it, most guys if their switched on enough are going to realize quickly enough that women want to feel a bit special and not just shag meat so being tactful and respect and sounding as if they want a form of connection before having sex is I think what the guy thinks the woman wants before he's got a hope in hells chance of meeting her.
From personal experience, a guy on here would shag someone they met on here that they wouldn't touch with a barge pole if they saw them out in the pub while with their mates.
But getting guys to admit this on the forums is like asking them to commit forum suicide regarding getting meets with women who also use the forums."
age, size, colour, doesn't matter is what you read on some profiles when really they should just say .... wanted, female with tits and a fanny, (hopefully) anything is better than a jar of liver at room temp. |
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By *orkieMan
over a year ago
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"Lol the truth is the majority of single men would have sex with just about anyone if they were given the chance especially on here the problem been that the same majority wont admit it."
Its a free country and everyone is entitled to an opinion as is their right, conversely people are allowed to agree / disagree with the aforementioned opinion. In this instance I will disagree with the opinion, either that or I must be in the minority that wont shag anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I wouldnt just fuck anything with a fanny, got morals and standards, and no veri's.
Damn
Thats what a fish says when it swims into the wall"
What happens if the wall is not brick built? |
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"No I wouldnt just fuck anything with a fanny, got morals and standards, and no veri's.
Damn
Thats what a fish says when it swims into the wall
What happens if the wall is not brick built? "
Blame the beavers! |
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"No I wouldnt just fuck anything with a fanny, got morals and standards, and no veri's.
Damn
Thats what a fish says when it swims into the wall
What happens if the wall is not brick built?
Blame the beavers! "
I imagine the fish will still say 'Damn', I imagine that is as I cant hear them when Im under the water.
Under the water?? Who invented that, they ment 'in the water'. If your under the water ya back in dry land again, in, not on.
Save the tree's , eat a beaver |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol the truth is the majority of single men would have sex with just about anyone if they were given the chance especially on here the problem been that the same majority wont admit it.
Its a free country and everyone is entitled to an opinion as is their right, conversely people are allowed to agree / disagree with the aforementioned opinion. In this instance I will disagree with the opinion, either that or I must be in the minority that wont shag anything"
or more likely just another that wont admit it lol. |
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with respect the guy is wrong, he may be 'speaking for himself'...
some not all guys would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hair around it..
others wont, and may be very selective..
most will be somewhere within the spectrum'.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just picked up on this one..
Not going to bother reading all replies so far; but simple answer from me is...
No i am dead fussy who i put my willy into and its persaonilty first - followed by looks and smile - followed by hygine ...all have to tick box for me
Does that make me shallow and to fussy...i couldnt give a toss. that just me
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"Utter rubbish! I and many other guys have our likes and dislikes and I have to say if I do not find the woman attractive my old boy will not respond... "
I agree, unless there is a physical attraction and mental attraction, I can't just perform ..... We are not able to perform at the drop of a hat there has to be chemistry of some sort |
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What's the saying?" Women are looking for Miss right, men are looking for Miss right now!" ( Robin Williams ). There may be a grain of truth when if you took a poll of the site. There will be someone out there who matches your particular needs....that said, for me as a man ( and I will speak for my partner too, as she agrees ), make us laugh and like you, you will get our attention, we will throw in an element of shallowness when we say we have to fancy you! Be tedious and don't and we switch off very quickly! |
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"This whole conversation started with this guy because he came across a profile of a woman, the profile clearly states numerous times need a large wallet for her to find you appealing enough to meet.
He basically said all guys would rather meet a woman like her who's after money than a normal everyday woman who likes a man regardless of how much is in their bank account.
Well I'm proud to say I've never asked for a guys bank balance as a condition of meeting them "
I see profiles asking for or hinting that some kind of payment may be wanted... 'Sugar daddy wanted' etc. I resist the urge to report them but I do feel that this site should not be about that. In any case if I wanted a prostitute I'd find one!
It may be news to some of you ladies but many of us men (single or otherwise) do have some standards and self respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"with respect the guy is wrong, he may be 'speaking for himself'...
some not all guys would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hair around it..
others wont, and may be very selective..
most will be somewhere within the spectrum'.. "
No he's not speaking for himself, his words were definately "all guys", I think, just because he would shag anything with a pulse, and pay for it, he's delusional in thinking all guys are the same.
From responses on here, would say most guys would agree they don't shag everything that moves, and to me that's a good thing |
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"with respect the guy is wrong, he may be 'speaking for himself'...
some not all guys would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hair around it..
others wont, and may be very selective..
most will be somewhere within the spectrum'..
No he's not speaking for himself, his words were definately "all guys", I think, just because he would shag anything with a pulse, and pay for it, he's delusional in thinking all guys are the same.
From responses on here, would say most guys would agree they don't shag everything that moves, and to me that's a good thing"
agree with it being a good thing, he needs to be pointed in the direction of the thread..
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"with respect the guy is wrong, he may be 'speaking for himself'...
some not all guys would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hair around it..
others wont, and may be very selective..
most will be somewhere within the spectrum'..
No he's not speaking for himself, his words were definately "all guys", I think, just because he would shag anything with a pulse, and pay for it, he's delusional in thinking all guys are the same.
From responses on here, would say most guys would agree they don't shag everything that moves, and to me that's a good thing"
I personally only have sex with people I connect with. I never have sex on a first meet as there needs to be a spark and if there's not I wouldn't entertain a sexual encounter. No point sexsgiuld be about desire not about just cumming. If I want to cum I just have a wank to some black and white pics
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"I have been having a discussion with a male on fabs.
Basically he says you men will have sex with anyone, that's your not fussy, and don't care abouts looks etc as long as your are guaranteed sex.
He is adamant all guys are same, so thought may be interesting to start a forum to see if he's right or not.
So, will you shag anything or are you picky? "
While there are men out there that will shag anything with a pulse(and i have friends who are like this) i am one of those who you might call picky.
For me there has to be some attraction(maybe i'm a bit shallow?) and also chemistry before we get into bed. I have been in clubs and had the opportunity to play with ladies i did not find attractive for various reasons and although i was horny i did not play just for the sake of it.
On my last club visit 2 weeks ago i had sex with 5 women who were all great(personalitys and looks) and i was so tired it took me 3 days to get my energy back but it was definitly my highlight of the year by a mile.
Talk about livin the dream |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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I think however you word an answer to this question someone will twist it into a 'dirty fecker' type slur against your sexual habits. Lets put it this way...
I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't want to because wanting it is half the attraction to doing it. I'd expect no less from the other person. You can leave all the other qualifiers for discussion and arguments on a Thursday, but for me that key has got to be in the ignition first and foremost. Beyond that anything is possible.
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I wouldn't define myself as picky as I have wide range of looks that I find attractive, but I certainly don't find ALL women attractive and if I don't find someone attractive I don't play with them.
I'm very picky when it comes to guys for one-to-one playing which is why I hardly ever do this. The guy has to have great body, the 'right' sort of face, and the 'right' sort of personality.
However my standards for guys are far lower in a threesome situation as, as long as I am attracted to his lady, I will be turned on anyway. |
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Had a recent meet and as soon as I saw her I thought not a chance this is going any further. She looked haggard and told me I was the first to ever turn her down.
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I have a mate who's motto is "you've got to have the bad ones to appreciate the good ones..." very juvenile! When I was 18/19, I would have shagged anything! Now I am very fussy and have stupid standards. I would hate to sleep with somebody I didn't find attractive, the self loathing is too much. |
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Having said that... I do believe there are a high percentage of men who do not care about personality or looks but then I would a lot of women are the same!!! Not on here though, this sausage fest gives women of any look or personality a lot of power to sleep with men above their "station" (excuse the rudeness) |
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