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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so.

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By *annyDanielleMan  over a year ago

Street, Somerset

I get more views if i post on the forums but as for messages, nah.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

Well...for us I don't see any difference really... get more views but that's about it.

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By *ourbonKissMan  over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

It never crossed my mind, I just found it a good way to have a joke and a laugh with like-minded individuals

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't sent a first contact message for 2½ years so contributing to the forums is my only engagement on the site and that combined with putting effort into my profile encourages others to get in touch.

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By *anilla-sinCouple  over a year ago

lancs

Again.. Curse of the single guy I suppose. If we post on a thread, then we get loads of messages (depending on what it is of course.. let's say Mrs Vanilla posts on a gang bang thread.. suddenly there are lots of offers. But if one of us posts about our favourite album, or cheese.. not so much!)

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By *ickshawedCouple  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Yes. It definitely leads to more chats for me. I've made friends from the forum. I've had meets from the forum. I'm not sure what more there is. Possibly socials? I'm more aware of them but not been to any

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By *ames5169Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

I’ve definitely had more interaction since using the forums Not any actual meets though unfortunately!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Yes we definitely get more views when we post in the forums and quite a few chats have come from here too.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

bugger all im un noticed totally

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes I think it does definitely. Very rare I’ll send a first message but I’ve only ever sent them to forum men. I like to hotlist and stalk for a while then think yeah he seems nice I’ll try my luck .

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus

Without a doubt, I’m blocked locally for posting lingerie photos, here at least some enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes I think it does definitely. Very rare I’ll send a first message but I’ve only ever sent them to forum men. I like to hotlist and stalk for a while then think yeah he seems nice I’ll try my luck . "

do you pick the ones in you like in certain posts Nora just asking for a friend

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes I think it does definitely. Very rare I’ll send a first message but I’ve only ever sent them to forum men. I like to hotlist and stalk for a while then think yeah he seems nice I’ll try my luck .

do you pick the ones in you like in certain posts Nora just asking for a friend "

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Ermmm. Kind of. Kind of not. I think being more active, getting out there and talking to people does. So the fora in a way facilitates that.

Actually there's no point pretending I don't meet forum folk. But there is a wealth of fuckers who never venture in here.

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By *og-ManMan  over a year ago

somewhere

Yes it does...Ive only ever sent one first message...it didnt work and I realised they never would. All my meets have happened from chatting on the forums and getting invited to socials because of the interactions on them

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Probably the opposite for me

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli

I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up "

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise "

i offered to bring the rope

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

i offered to bring the rope "

You did .

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise "

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise "

Haha. I know x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x"

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up"

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up"

In Aberdeen they just put their back legs in wellies so they can’t run away

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up"

It's a kink to me, I've only lived here 4 years

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By *ighty_tightyMan  over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I'm pretty much here only for the forums, not sure how or where I fit with the rest of the site now.

There's a reasonable bunch of adults on here and some reasonable conversations.

Does it increase my views? Probably, as I get some from ridiculous distances now that I never got before. Has it lead to some messages, without a doubt but they are all forum related, more friendly than fornicating.

The site is full and varied, make of it what you will and enjoy it.

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By *he love catsCouple  over a year ago

South Wales

We get a few more views on our profile especially when we partake in the game's, I can't see how it would lead to socials or meets as everyone is so far apart, though we would love to travel around and meet a few of these gorgeous people one day.

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood

No, not really, it's very cliquey

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By *rtyIanMan  over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up

It's a kink to me, I've only lived here 4 years "

still on the velcro gloves up the waterfalls walk lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Of course. But it makes little difference to my inbox.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS  over a year ago

somewhere

Probably also let’s people get a read on you from your replies x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

More chats yes, more meets no, everyone's hundreds of miles away!

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By *eadinthecloudsMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

That's my working theory.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man  over a year ago

Home

You get to chat on the forum but as for my inbox i doesn't make much of a difference

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chats: No

Meets: hahahaha No

Forum response: maybe 1 in 30messages

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up

. None of you men will let me bloody tie you up! It’s fun I promise

I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise

Haha. I know x

its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up

It's a kink to me, I've only lived here 4 years

still on the velcro gloves up the waterfalls walk lol"

Not quite, I've been up on waterfall walks though but only with company

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It definitely makes you more visible but I don't respond to people with the hope they message me in return. That's just happened naturally either because they agree with my points or vice versa. I've chatted to some amazing people off the back of the forums but I'll never message them directly as I don't want to impose on their inbox based off something they've said in a public forum although I don't mind then them messaging me first if they are interested

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d have to say I’ve got to know nearly all the lovely folk I do on fab, from posting in the forum.

It’s a shop window at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s only a % of the whole site who use them regularly but they are good to get chatting with people at a social level.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have definitely had more conversations leading on from my posts on the forum.

I have also had socials and made great friendships (non sexual) with people that I can speak openly with regarding this aspect of our life. Which I don't do with our vanilla friends.

I have had meets with people who post on the forum, and it's lovely to have that additional personal connection.

NBVN x

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

It depends on what you post and if it resonates with people.

But its also down to what people are looking for.

We speak to a few people based off our forum contributions, but none of them are looking to meet us (bar a social) because our interests do not match.

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By *hagTonightMan  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"You get to chat on the forum but as for my inbox i doesn't make much of a difference "
This, it is the same for me too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

the forums are a tiny tiny part of fab so you are very limited if using for meets ... been on fab right from the beginning and have never met anyone from the forums we find the men on the forums find ways of putting people off anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve chatted to a few from the forum J xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really enjoy the forums, but don't comment so much. Though I'd be more inclined to message someone from seeing them posting on here...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve had chats start from it and it’s nice to get a vibe from people, it’s definitely my favourite part of fab other than the friendships I’m developing x

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

I only use the forums so 99% of my messages are from other forum users. I have made some good friends from here

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By *acavityMan  over a year ago

Redditch

I'm a single male, so no meets for me. (Slightly bitter due to being stood up and blocked this morning)

But I've had some nice chats, sparked by a comment in the forum's.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I think in reality it depends on how you contribute, who you are and what your motivation is.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

It does, I’ve had tonnes of messages from forum users.

But does it help with meets? Yeah, if your willing to travel. All the messages I got from forum users looking to meet were from far away

Depends what’s your willing to do and how you present yourself on the forum

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london

I think it’s a good way to interact, you get to know personalities and helps with a first convo

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple  over a year ago

East Yorkshire

We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

[Removed by poster at 29/06/22 14:19:32]

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx "

I could be wrong but I think you can.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get messages which is sometimes welcome but sometimes people take me posting on forum as an invitation to message me unhinged shit that I don’t wanna hear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx "

I don’t have a membership and I post forums all the time

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple  over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Thanks I’ll give it a try xx

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By *etterdays2021Man  over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH


"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx

I could be wrong but I think you can. "

yeah i think your right... i just posted one in introductions.

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"No, not really, it's very cliquey"
not cliquey, just some people know each other and have met socially a few times

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By *elvet RopeMan  over a year ago

by the big field

I think i've only met one person through the forums- she was such a fucking loon i ended up deleting my profile and going AWOL for 6 months

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I’ve found it has I’ve made most of my friends via the forums

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair

I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone."

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Sometimes, but I don't really do it for that reason. Made a couple of lovely friends from this though, unexpectedly!

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By *r SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone."

That reminds me, I haven’t messaged you today

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone."

I wanted a recipe for cake clearly too much to ask

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some days yes somedays no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get more views but not more meets because I'm in Wales I also post in the welsh forums but no meets maybe one day it will change

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By *rtyIanMan  over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"I get more views but not more meets because I'm in Wales I also post in the welsh forums but no meets maybe one day it will change "

i find the welsh forum is 99% about chams

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By *ocksareoffMan  over a year ago

Out n About

I the odd view on my profile after posting on the forums but very rarely do I receive a message.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. Most of my views and meets come from in fab not the forums. Its just a place for me to chat shit and socialise really

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It maybe opens up another avenue of people to view your profile other than your local feed.

The forums are a small part of FAB…there’s cam rooms too, club sections, socials…it’s just another avenue to be seen.

It’s not the golden key…

K

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone."

You said you appreciated my daily coffee pictures

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman  over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

No, it doesn’t, but then I’m happy just posting my drivel

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think so. I'm not a great example but my only meets have been with people I've chatted to through the forums..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get less from participating in the forums.

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. "

There's a gang??!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I just post my thoughts, questions and attempts to facilitate connections between others. I have met people from the forums as a result

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!! "

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

It might. I suppose it get's across to people what sort of person you are. Be prepared to still be asked for a face picture though.

For me, I enjoy fab for the online social interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny. "

Cake you say?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

Cake you say?

"

Not funny.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny. "

It does kind of sound like you do care…

There’s nothing funny about cake though. That shit is serious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

Cake you say?

Not funny."

Strongly disagree

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Its interesting that people have made connections with others who have posted in the forum's.

Maybe I don't post/respond to the right ones, or perhaps my sense of humour is way off the mark then

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

Cake you say?

Not funny.

Strongly disagree"

Seconded

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By *jorkishMan  over a year ago

Seaforth

Nothing from being in here, rarely get a response in the actual forums lol

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, I think it does

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Yeah I've met another forum user, after having a giggle on a thread. Think it can help make connections

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"...leave me the fuck alone.

That reminds me, I haven’t messaged you today "

I know. Resist the temptation!

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By *rtyIanMan  over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"Yeah I've met another forum user, after having a giggle on a thread. Think it can help make connections "

had a few chats and laughs off the forum but nothing else over the years

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

I've met a couple of truly wonderful forumites who wouldn't normally have entered my world. It's the way forward!

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"...leave me the fuck alone.

You said you appreciated my daily coffee pictures "

I was being pølite!

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By *tarflyLouWoman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny. "

I’m not part of any gang, just unconditionally and irrevocably in love with cake

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By *ighty_tightyMan  over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

I’m not part of any gang, just unconditionally and irrevocably in love with cake "

#cakegangoriginalmember

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"...leave me the fuck alone.

I wanted a recipe for cake clearly too much to ask "

These aren't the Cåkes you're looking for.

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By *wogentlemencallersCouple (MM)  over a year ago

leeds

I rarely used the forum but over the recent weeks Iv been participating both commenting and new posts

Yes my views have gone up and had a few chats but I just see it as engaging with the genuine people on here. Fakes and timewasters aren’t going to bother with the forum so I’m safe from idiots…….well apart from the ones on the forum lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

Yes. Most of my messages, meets, and mores were either with forumists, or lurkers.

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

Not for me, but I like the entertainment factor. I get all of my meets just from private message.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx

I could be wrong but I think you can. "

You are wrong, and completely correct.

Hope this helps

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

Just do it ..put a thread out there and see what results you get...its entertaining if nothing else

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By *izandpaulCouple  over a year ago

merseyside


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

Depends how you come over in a forum.

Some profiles look great but the forum posts can sometimes be a turn off.

Best way to get noticed, get out more to clubs and socials.

Staying behind a keyboard makes you look at bit sad and lacking in adventure, spirit and confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms."

See-invisible

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms.

See-invisible"

You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms.

See-invisible

You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x"

You're one of the ladies I was on about

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms.

See-invisible

You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x

You're one of the ladies I was on about "

Haha not sure about the “lady” bit

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

Haha not sure about the “lady” bit "

More gender confusion?

(Runs away, very far, very quickly)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms.

See-invisible

You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x

You're one of the ladies I was on about

Haha not sure about the “lady” bit "

It's a safe word

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By *eneralKenobiMan  over a year ago

North Angus


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

Cake you say?

Not funny."

That’s cakeist

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone."

*Cries because not name checked*

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I didn't join in on the forums to meet for sex, but I did meet a couple of people through being on here.

I also found group socials meant more people who were interested in sex with me.

Have different avenues open.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The good thing about the forums imo is ya can talk to people without the assumption you want them to insert things or themselves in you.

Mostly.

There are those who probably think engaging with a comment I make will make them slightly gayish, so they don’t. And I’m here for those people. Cause I’m nice like that.

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

I’m not part of any gang, just unconditionally and irrevocably in love with cake

#gangoriginalmember"

FiFY

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It makes sod all difference

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"It makes sod all difference

"

Here he is xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I sometimes get an extra couple of views depending on the topic, but apart from that so far anyone I’ve tried to chat to from forums hasn’t been interested

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By *ighty_tightyMan  over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it.

There's a gang??!!

Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny.

I’m not part of any gang, just unconditionally and irrevocably in love with cake

#gangoriginalmember

FiFY "

Thanks

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple  over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I've made some friends via the forums and had some meets from it, I met the better half through them too on my singles profile via a random joke thread, as for now I just post when i find the thread interesting, as for the inbox is pretty quiet now on the singles and this one.

Tg x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It makes sod all difference

Here he is xx"

What?

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"It makes sod all difference

Here he is xx

What? "

What can I say ...I've missed your jaffa cake loathing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It makes sod all difference

Here he is xx

What?

What can I say ...I've missed your jaffa cake loathing "

No you didn't

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By *mily36CWoman  over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"It makes sod all difference

Here he is xx

What?

What can I say ...I've missed your jaffa cake loathing

No you didn't "

Oh yes I have (in pantoesque voice mode)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It makes sod all difference

Here he is xx

What?

What can I say ...I've missed your jaffa cake loathing

No you didn't

Oh yes I have (in pantoesque voice mode) "

That just proves me right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve had more chats stem from forums

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I suppose it depends what you say and how you say it really…

I do have to admit I look at more profiles through forums but most are miles away from me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I probably make our account look fake as I talk directly as myself and not as a we. Bad Bitch doesn't really come onto the site - she has Muggle level computer skills and fairly strong dyslexia so forums aren't her thing at all.

I only go on the forum as it's something I've always done in all of my hobby/interest areas. Gives you a broad idea of what the people involved are like and shows you who the real characters are

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By * Dare01Man  over a year ago

benfleet

I've been on and off fab over the years and it's getting so difficult to be seen these days, forums used to bridge that gap

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked* "

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman  over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

Yes it does.

There are some awesome people here.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked*

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over."

My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked*

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over.

My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you "

°

That's the 'love bug' you're referring to. We need a (bug) emoji.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I participate because I'm a charismatic fucker and it gets me loads of messages

Nah, no extra messages I'm just here because I have nothing better to do with my time at the moment

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By *heArrowsCouple  over a year ago

It got me attention and meets.

I feel like most people don't get my sense of humour, but those who do, they find me hilarious.

And we all know laughter is a real leg opener

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest, the majority of my interactions/meets are from non forum users. Too much drama ensues relating to forums....I left the playground a long time ago x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only to the other people on the forum .. A recent poll established that is around 300 users

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By *ixenforfunWoman  over a year ago

banes mask

Ive chatted to some lovely chaps because of the forums. Only downside is that theyre in a different bloody country but never know when a trip could be taken across the water

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked*

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over.

My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you

°

That's the 'love bug' you're referring to. We need a (bug) emoji."

What about this one?

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By *yourselfMan  over a year ago

Heworth


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

No not at all. Its good craic though.

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

dont think it leads to meets. but nice to chat and fun with people,,

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked*

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over.

My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you

°

That's the 'love bug' you're referring to. We need a (bug) emoji.

What about this one? "

FFS

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We met on the forums so they get our vote, absolutely!!!!! It just doesn't get any better than that.

Mr.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab.

It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS.

I mean, leave me the fuck alone.

*Cries because not name checked*

That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over.

My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you

°

That's the 'love bug' you're referring to. We need a (bug) emoji.

What about this one?

FFS "

You love me really

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

It certainly has for us. Most of the people we have met we first came across on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so."

I just post and don't really think about it, which is probably quite evident if you take any notice of the crap I post.

PW

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