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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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So are you single? Is it complicated? Are you happily involved with someone?
Singles, what do you miss about relationships?
Throuple, couples, moresomes, what do you miss about single life?
I am almost 10 years single and miss that closeness of a long hug after a long day where your partner nuzzles into your neck breathing you in and holding you like it’s the last time they might get to. |
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Single and I'm not sure miss anything really.
Men in my life have never been the practical kind when it comes to round the house stuff and fixing things etc, so that would be something I'd miss if I had it to start with.
I tell ya what I do miss. Having hopes and dreams. The rest of it though ... all tainted. |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Single and I'm not sure miss anything really.
Men in my life have never been the practical kind when it comes to round the house stuff and fixing things etc, so that would be something I'd miss if I had it to start with.
I tell ya what I do miss. Having hopes and dreams. The rest of it though ... all tainted. "
Lemme check the back of my sofa for you…might be some hopes and dreams there for you 
p.s. I think you are great  |
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Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house. |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Kerry and Dublin |
I'm solo-poly. I currently have a girlfriend who lives in Germany with her husband and potentially a girlfriend in the US (who was here on vacation) and one in Dublin.
I don't want to be someone's primary partner but I'm happy to be an emotional support for someone if they need it. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
I've been single for just over 2 years after coming out of a 22 year relationship. My life has changed immeasurably- new home, new career, new figure- I'm finally learning about myself & loving my life, but there are moments when I miss having a partner to share the odd moment with.
Every time I think of joining a dating service I back out in a matter of days!!
I guess I'm not really ready to look for someone yet.
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It's been a roller coaster of a 3 years, long term ENM relationship (18 years and living together) ended, entered into closed a poly Triad which was fantastic but it just faded out after 18 months.... I'm seeing some one at the moment, there's no "label" to it but it's amazing!
I miss having some one permanent at the moment, some one to come home to and share quiet moments watching a film etc etc, |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm solo-poly. I currently have a girlfriend who lives in Germany with her husband and potentially a girlfriend in the US (who was here on vacation) and one in Dublin.
I don't want to be someone's primary partner but I'm happy to be an emotional support for someone if they need it."
Wow! You spread your love internationally…wonderful! |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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Isn’t it lovely how we are all different about relationships and love? And I love seeing such a mix of poly people to happily single to long term commitment to one person, it really warms my heart
Apologies for not replying individually to all of you, I appreciate all your responses including the couple of private ones I got.
Have a beautiful day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happily in a couple and now (finally) divorced. I am much happier in a relationship, I'm a very affectionate and tactile person and need to share that with someone else. There are times I miss the simplicity of having my own flat to escape to but even there it was only a matter of a day or two until I would stay a night with her ladyship or she'd come over mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married, 13 years together 15. I like the company, the constant bustle but I miss the freedom of being single with no/little responsibility, but then I never did much with it, perhaps it would have helped if I had my own place, but I never could have afforded it.
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"So are you single? Is it complicated? Are you happily involved with someone?
Singles, what do you miss about relationships?
Throuple, couples, moresomes, what do you miss about single life?
I am almost 10 years single and miss that closeness of a long hug after a long day where your partner nuzzles into your neck breathing you in and holding you like it’s the last time they might get to."
I’m a single bird
Have been for forever
I won’t get into the boring long story why …. But my work at the minute is very spontaneous
Out of the country for long periods 
Ladies want more commitments than I can offer right now 
I miss kissing all the time
Bum grabs
Excitement
And a sidekick (companion) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, single. Miss the closeness and intimacy. I like being single and doing my own thing when I want, but just having that companion sometimes would be lovely.
I'm still on dating sites because u never know, but now I'm into this scene I don't think could date someone who isn't. But, never say never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently came out of a difficult relationship. Next to no intimacy unless d*unk and constant arguing over minor things. I loved her to death but don't feel it's mutual. She had a young child (12) and didn't want to do anything in the bedroom when she was about
I think maybe I didn't understand her or maybe she clearly wasn't into me after 5 years.
I'd like to know but I never wil she couldn't communicate in a relationship if there were issues and had to be her way or no way
Wanted me to move in and felt it would cause more arguments so ended it
I clearly have made a mistake or it might be for the best |
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"Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house. "
This... exactly this!  |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house.
This... exactly this! "
couldn't have put it better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single, been living alone for the first time in my life and there's lots about it I like, but there's lot's of what's mentioned above I miss. The main thing though, is someone to do nothing with. Just relaxing in each others company with no expectations or wants, talking, not talking, it doesn't matter. You just fit. If that makes sense |
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