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By *uss49k OP Man
over a year ago
Exeter |
When i was married we were watching telly n if two male actors kissing i would say Ewwww turn it off compounding my disgust at the image.
However when she'd go out to her job id get naked put on some gay porn n chat with other men online whilst wanking lol. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I feel so sad you felt you:
a) had to hide who you were
and
b) even if you were 100% straight felt you needed to 'voice disgust' at something that should be as normal as heterosexual couples kissing |
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"I feel so sad you felt you:
a) had to hide who you were
and
b) even if you were 100% straight felt you needed to 'voice disgust' at something that should be as normal as heterosexual couples kissing"
Your point B is exactly what I was about to type. Thinking about it, I would imagine that kind of OTT reaction would arouse more suspicion than less...if that's what the OP was worried about. |
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By *uss49k OP Man
over a year ago
Exeter |
She wasn't against bi or gay people i had been struggling with my sexuality since early teens but locked it in a vault when i met her i did tell her i had experimented with other men.
We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some years ago a former boss guessed I was gay. His response was to tell me - in front of about 70 colleagues - that I “should be gassed”.
It set me back.
So I can understand why you felt the need to behave that way. |
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By *uss49k OP Man
over a year ago
Exeter |
"Some years ago a former boss guessed I was gay. His response was to tell me - in front of about 70 colleagues - that I “should be gassed”.
It set me back.
So I can understand why you felt the need to behave that way. "
Omg how awful!! |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked. "
That doesn't sound like "happily married" to me, but it seems you're in a better place now.  |
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By *uss49k OP Man
over a year ago
Exeter |
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We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked.
That doesn't sound like "happily married" to me, but it seems you're in a better place now. "
Actually we were until birth of our 2nd son she went right off sex & i went looking for someone to fulfil what id been missing apart from very vanilla sex.
Tbh i have more luck with males these days n considering to come out as gay  |
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