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"I’m asking are you single girls that require the perfect first message rare, or just undatables that come of fab for fun as you love to be single. "
Nope. Still no fucking clue. Are you pissed off because no one is responding to your messages?
I thought a unicorn was a single bi woman looking to meet couples? Nothing to do with perfect first messages or being 'undateable'.
This thread seems like sour grapes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait, I'm confused. Are we undateable munters here to make demands, feel important and ignore people or are we independent women in control of our own sexual desires and connections whether we are single through choice or not.
Damn it, I wish I had a partner, it seems so much easier to pass judgement when you're feeling smug.
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"I’m asking are you single girls that require the perfect first message rare, or just undatables that come of fab for fun as you love to be single. "
That’s not how your original post was worded.
Way to insult a lot of women  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"We have a few but all seem to be on tinder too and happy to tell us, we don’t have a problem we find it funny"
Why is it funny? Can't people be having sex and look for someone to date?
Tinder is also a place where people go just for sex.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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I thought a unicorn was a single bi woman looking to meet couples?"
Agreed. It seems to be being changed into "anything rare to anyone else", which is wonderful for the evolution of language, but shit for making oneself understood around here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We get plenty action, just funny to talk to females saying that they need more than just 1 liners ect and thinking they are these unicorns that are rare. To find out they meet us and ask for advice about dating ect and can’t keep a guy off tinder. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I’m asking are you single girls that require the perfect first message rare, or just undatables that come of fab for fun as you love to be single. "
Why would an undateable (by definition someone getting a lot of rejection) "love to be single"? They're only open to not being dated if they're trying not to be single, surely?
Re the first question, my opinion is that yes, it is rare for anyone to insist on a perfect message. It is not rare for anyone to ignore anything below average, though.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"We get plenty action, just funny to talk to females saying that they need more than just 1 liners ect and thinking they are these unicorns that are rare. To find out they meet us and ask for advice about dating ect and can’t keep a guy off tinder. "
So all the women you two are meeting tell you about their high standards and make you think they have a trumped-up view of their own importance, but they're asking you for dating advice and tell you that all the people they meet from tinder never stick around.
And you're asking US for advice, INSTEAD of this harem of over-sharers??? |
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"We get plenty action, just funny to talk to females saying that they need more than just 1 liners ect and thinking they are these unicorns that are rare. To find out they meet us and ask for advice about dating ect and can’t keep a guy off tinder. "
Do they actually think that they are unicorns or are you just pussy about them want more that 'fancy a shag' type messages'?
Dating and fucking randoms from here are very different. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
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"We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free"
You're the ones meeting them all, you tell us. |
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" Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. "
I choose to be on Fab. It's certainly not a last resort because I have no luck in life !
Do you ever ask any of these women who you meet and they feel comfortable enough to confide in you, to give you a verification ? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Am still confused  "
OP gets laid a lot.
The extra women they meet are really rare and unusual on here, but apparently unsuccessful on dating sites.
Why this matters has not yet been explained.
OP wants to know if others are also meeting loads of women who are fussy on here and unsuccessful on tinder.
Why those things might correlate is also unexplained. |
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"We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free"
It may be true for some that the dating world hasn't gone well for them. It certainly won't be true for everybody.
Different people want different things and different platforms suit them. You'll just have to take people as you find them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free"
So because they have a moan about the wankers on tinder, you equate that to not doing well in life?
Single women can’t enjoy fab and have fun whilst looking for love?
Erm, ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free
So because they have a moan about the wankers on tinder, you equate that to not doing well in life?
Single women can’t enjoy fab and have fun whilst looking for love?
Erm, ok."
don't look for love on tinder!  (I have more hope finding it here!)
To the OP in this quote, I can't tell if it's the (percieved) negativity that is bringing you down ... Or that they are looking for love.
Either which way, remember unicorns are actually people. Who have ups and downs and want connections. It comes across that you don't want to offer connection not want them to have it else where. |
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"We send lovely messages, build good bonds have meets enjoy everything.. then people get comfortable letting you know there personal life and moan that people send one liners and they need this and that, then say they are having no luck on tinder ect. Just takes the whole fun out knowing there just not having luck in life so resort to fab. That brought me to ask how rare are these unicorns that don’t want love just to be free"
Discretion and respect for others who have shared personal feelings might be something to consider.. |
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"All these unsuccessful undateables have at least given you some great verifications though eh, oh wait……"
Seriously I love your responses. Well not quite sure what you'd label me as, I'm happily married and also bi sexual but not on any dating sites. I dislike being described as a unicorn. I'm not mythical but I am highly discerning in my choices, luckily there's threads like this to help me |
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