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so he just deleted his profile
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By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Manchester |
After weeks of daily chatting, planing for a meet, and talking about emotion and feeling of love, he just deleted his profile? No other way of contact, because I didn't want to exchange number till I meet someone.
Feeling quite crap at the moment. Anyone else had similar feeling? Yes I know its a sex site, but we are all human, ain't we? |
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You need a thick skin for this site, things like this happen daily and I find the longer you talk before meeting the more likely something like this will happen
Don't take it to heart it happens to us all, brush yourself down and move on to the next one |
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"That's why you take everything said on here with a pinch of salt. Believe nothing until you've met that person face to face x"
 100 percent this .As sad as it is for you he was probably a fantasist who has a family .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah that's crappy, I guess it's the non closure that makes it worse. But I bet the reason wasn't your fault.
He might be back.
I had one that kept deleting and reappearing, at first I liked him then it becomes draining. You're worth more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least he's shown you who he really is before you did meet OP. I imagine it would sting more if he ghosted you after meeting.
Try not to take it to heart. It happens often here. Go find someone to take your mind off it  |
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I sympathise because a dom bi guy led me on for ages, forbid me from ejaculating, obtained lots of private info and let me demean myself online and by phone as I tried to please him until we met.
Then the day of our meeting he blanked me.
What pleasure did he get?
A lot less than if we had met, surely? |
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By *lynJMan
over a year ago
Morden |
"After weeks of daily chatting, planing for a meet, and talking about emotion and feeling of love, he just deleted his profile? No other way of contact, because I didn't want to exchange number till I meet someone.
Feeling quite crap at the moment. Anyone else had similar feeling? Yes I know its a sex site, but we are all human, ain't we?"
I've had this a few times. Never feels any easier.
There is someone out there who is real and with whom you will click. There's just a lot of frogs to get through first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, in a few weeks he will rejoin and no doubt seek you out with a load of excuses such as.....
Work has been hectic
Family member was sick
He caught covid
His feeling for you were so intense that he had to "take a step back" to avoid getting hurt
Be ready for it as it will 100% come.
Then hit the block button.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or maybe he does have a valid reason and sometimes it's easier to think the worst. Give it a while and see how things go.
Plus , plenty more swingers in the jungle  |
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"“Feelings of love”. For someone you’ve never met? "
Yup you don't need physical proximity to have the chemical reaction we call love. It is all dopamine and norepinephrine being released during attraction, that can entirely happen through a screen. |
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