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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi all im a bbw and was just wondering what most men prefered as i get alot of email askin for pics why ask for pics when my profile states im a bbw so im not gunna b a size 8 am i.
what do men really want us woman to be like size 8 or above 28 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hey hun men are attracted to all types and just because a lady is larger doesnt mean she aint sexy ..if u dress well and look after urself anysize can look gd and sexy and be apealing to anyone so they prob want to see pics to just see if they are attracted to u xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't have any pics on your profile they will ask to see what you look like not to see if you are big or small, try putting some pics on so they don't need to ask."
thanks for the tip hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely have no great desire for size 8s, all skin and bone!! lol
And it's not just about size either, there's a little matter of personality, the inner self!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst some guys may indeed go for a specific body type, be that slim and sexy or big and sexy, I think ultimatley the sexiness comes from the person within."
Well said...
Personally find sexiness comes in many forms, big small, lith, buxom..... A turn on in one woman can be a big turn off in another..
Same with the men I should think... Ladies?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well said...
Personally find sexiness comes in many forms, big small, lith, buxom..... A turn on in one woman can be a big turn off in another..
Same with the men I should think... Ladies?
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I would not want to hook up with a gent whose stomach is bigger than mine!  
Kind of hypocritical, I know, sorry!   |
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"Whilst some guys may indeed go for a specific body type, be that slim and sexy or big and sexy, I think ultimatley the sexiness comes from the person within.
Well said...
Personally find sexiness comes in many forms, big small, lith, buxom..... A turn on in one woman can be a big turn off in another..
Same with the men I should think... Ladies?
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absolutely, yes, everyone has their "ideal" type, but if the spark is there...ideal type can go out of the window |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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There's more to asking for a pic than just establishing body shape.
You'll see clothing tastes, or a dungeon background, or possibly a face, or some clue as to preferences.
If they have actually read your profile (it does happen!), they might just like to appreciate a picture of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"absolutely, yes, everyone has their "ideal" type, but if the spark is there...ideal type can go out of the window "
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There must be a twinkle in their eyes for me to start with  |
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"absolutely, yes, everyone has their "ideal" type, but if the spark is there...ideal type can go out of the window
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There must be a twinkle in their eyes for me to start with "
oh yes...I like twinkly eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Same with the men I should think... Ladies?
absolutely, yes, everyone has their "ideal" type, but if the spark is there...ideal type can go out of the window "
Totally agree, I started out on here with an idea of my 'ideal' body type, can honestly say that has now gone right out the window, personality and a face I can kiss is much more important xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All women are sexy in different way but mr prefers them bigger as he finds them more sexy and loves to get hold of something."
As I'm hoping I get to find out some day xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All women are sexy in different way but mr prefers them bigger as he finds them more sexy and loves to get hold of something.
As I'm hoping I get to find out some day xx"
Cant wait hun. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" hi all im a bbw and was just wondering what most men prefered as i get alot of email askin for pics why ask for pics when my profile states im a bbw so im not gunna b a size 8 am i.
what do men really want us woman to be like size 8 or above 28 "
if your profile says your a BBW and men mail you asking for pics im guessing its because they want to see you with a view to meeting you, not all men who ask for pics want slim women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I remember a few years ago i used to meet a guy regular, i used to be a size 22 and very self conscious about my weight, he was a really good looking guy as well and i knew deep down he didnt really find me attractive even tho he said he did, he could have done so much better than me, anyway he had to work away for a while in another country so didnt see him for month, in this time i joined weight watchers and lost 8 stone, near on forgot about him till one day out the blue i had a message from him saying he was back in the country did i want to meet, so i said yes, had always enjoyed our meets so why wouldnt i, so we arranged to meet, and i sat in the pub waiting for him, he walked straigh past me so i shouted him and he looked at me screwed his face up and said.....what the hell have you done to yourself you look shit, and thats quoted word for word, he had a few drinks we chatted and he left, never contacted me again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I prefer my women curvy, I dont like to be able to count thier ribs!
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well i like my woman slim, i dont like being able to count their chins hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I prefer my women curvy, I dont like to be able to count thier ribs!
well i like my woman slim, i dont like being able to count their chins hahaha "
lmao..cunny funt...lol |
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Something else to consider is that there is no real standard for what constitutes "BBW". It seems to be a perceptual thing, which can encompass a variety of different body shapes and sizes, depending on who you're speaking to.
So a guy sees BBW on a profile and he'll have an image in his head of what that means to him, but he's not to know how the woman perceives herself and so his idea of BBW may not match hers.
But I would hazard a guess (and as suggested by a previous poster) if he's asked to see a photograph then he's attracted to BBW's (or at least his image of them)
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By (user no longer on site)
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So a guy sees BBW on a profile and he'll have an image in his head of what that means to him, but he's not to know how the woman perceives herself and so his idea of BBW may not match hers.
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this is true i class myself as BBW or what ever prase you may want to use, but people tell me all the time im not, but to me i am so its on of them things isnt it, sometimes you have to agree to differ, just get a pic and see if you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a lady to have some meat on the bone as such, so for me personally it is big.
Don't get me wrong, small ladies are nice, but takes more than just size, its personallity to. To me big ever time, so some bigger the better. love to get hold of a big lady and give her lots of cuddles xx |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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You'll see such a range of self-images on here though.
"Curvy" I've seen applied to people who claim to be size 10 - 18
"Average" has applied to about the same range
"Slim" I think I've seen a 14.
My point is not that any of those people were wrong, merely that it's not about size, it's about your approach to your size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" hi all im a bbw and was just wondering what most men prefered as i get alot of email askin for pics why ask for pics when my profile states im a bbw so im not gunna b a size 8 am i.
what do men really want us woman to be like size 8 or above 28 "
Some larger women are very pretty larger women and some are not. Would YOU meet anyone without seeing what he looked like first? I think it's perfectly reasonable to be asked to supply a photograph.
I think you have issues about your size that is clouding your judgement on everything else. A man who likes BBWs should tell you something: Your size isn't the issue, your personality and the way you carry yourself are the factors that will make him want to meet you.
Wishy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" hi all im a bbw and was just wondering what most men prefered as i get alot of email askin for pics why ask for pics when my profile states im a bbw so im not gunna b a size 8 am i.
what do men really want us woman to be like size 8 or above 28
Some larger women are very pretty larger women and some are not. Would YOU meet anyone without seeing what he looked like first? I think it's perfectly reasonable to be asked to supply a photograph.
I think you have issues about your size that is clouding your judgement on everything else. A man who likes BBWs should tell you something: Your size isn't the issue, your personality and the way you carry yourself are the factors that will make him want to meet you.
Wishy x"
i have met quite a few men with out pics and one or two i have met again after wards. i am not very confident am am very concious about my size. i just hate it when men email me then see my pics and tell me im a big fat slag.
just the other day i turned a bloke down just because he came across as wanting a tart sex on tap he started emailing me with abuse sayin im too fat to b on fab no one wud ever want to meet me and yes i did report him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A few years back I tipped the scales at 19st and got a few unfriendly comments about it - pffline, not online. My standard response at the time was:
"I can always lose weight, whereas you will ALWAYS be a wanker."
It seemed to shut them up instantly.
Wishy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" hi all im a bbw and was just wondering what most men prefered as i get alot of email askin for pics why ask for pics when my profile states im a bbw so im not gunna b a size 8 am i.
what do men really want us woman to be like size 8 or above 28
Some larger women are very pretty larger women and some are not. Would YOU meet anyone without seeing what he looked like first? I think it's perfectly reasonable to be asked to supply a photograph.
I think you have issues about your size that is clouding your judgement on everything else. A man who likes BBWs should tell you something: Your size isn't the issue, your personality and the way you carry yourself are the factors that will make him want to meet you.
Wishy x
i have met quite a few men with out pics and one or two i have met again after wards. i am not very confident am am very concious about my size. i just hate it when men email me then see my pics and tell me im a big fat slag.
just the other day i turned a bloke down just because he came across as wanting a tart sex on tap he started emailing me with abuse sayin im too fat to b on fab no one wud ever want to meet me and yes i did report him. "
its gits like him that stopped my wife from swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" just the other day i turned a bloke down just because he came across as wanting a tart sex on tap he started emailing me with abuse sayin im too fat to b on fab no one wud ever want to meet me and yes i did report him.
its gits like him that stopped my wife from swinging "
but what i want to know is why do people let men like that bother them, your not to fat to be on fab the fact he mailed you in the first place proves that, most women will get abusive mail at some point by guys they have turned down, take it as a compliment, if you not meeting him bothers him that much he has to resort to such childish insults he much have really wanted to meet you other wise he'd have just shrugged it off and moved on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" just the other day i turned a bloke down just because he came across as wanting a tart sex on tap he started emailing me with abuse sayin im too fat to b on fab no one wud ever want to meet me and yes i did report him.
its gits like him that stopped my wife from swinging
but what i want to know is why do people let men like that bother them, your not to fat to be on fab the fact he mailed you in the first place proves that, most women will get abusive mail at some point by guys they have turned down, take it as a compliment, if you not meeting him bothers him that much he has to resort to such childish insults he much have really wanted to meet you other wise he'd have just shrugged it off and moved on "
very true naughty his loss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Makes me chuckle.... they mail you and whisper you in chat...one knock back and the insults fly! So what was their reason for contacting you in the first place? ...oh yes... fancy a fuck sexy?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Makes me chuckle.... they mail you and whisper you in chat...one knock back and the insults fly! So what was their reason for contacting you in the first place? ...oh yes... fancy a fuck sexy?? "
i think all ladies on here get the old fancy a fuck email why do men do this when its a swinging site not a prostitute pick up site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Makes me chuckle.... they mail you and whisper you in chat...one knock back and the insults fly! So what was their reason for contacting you in the first place? ...oh yes... fancy a fuck sexy??
i think all ladies on here get the old fancy a fuck email why do men do this when its a swinging site not a prostitute pick up site "
At one point this summer I had to put on my profile NO I don't play golf or run a B&B, it's surprising the amount of golfers coming to St. Andrews who thought I did both accommodation and a playmate inside and out of the bedroom for a day or two..... many suggestions were replied with, "get a room and a whore ye cheapskate!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Makes me chuckle.... they mail you and whisper you in chat...one knock back and the insults fly! So what was their reason for contacting you in the first place? ...oh yes... fancy a fuck sexy?? "
its just a shattered ego isnt it, i got a mail from a guy not so long back, we'd exchanged a few messages and i could see what was coming as with each message he seemed to be getting more and more short with me, he'd asked me to meet, i said no because he had no pics, he said we could meet 4 a drink see if i liked him, so i said no because i dont meet without seeing people first etc etc etc he didnt seem to want to take no for an answer, then he mailed me askinmg what i was doing on here if i didnt meet people then the last message came that said words along the lines of.....
im getting bored with you now, i think you should move on and stop mailing me, i have a life outside this site and i can pull anyone i like,sites like these was mad for ugly sad fuckers like you so please stop mailing me and get back to your other sad fuckers on the site
and then, and this is the worse bit, blocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly have never had an abusive email about my weight.
Im always always up front and tell those im contacting or they are contacting me that im all tits and ass and all the bits in between.
If they then dont like it, they can go on their way.
I am quite happy with my FB so presently am hidden.
As i cant see the point of putting my stall out if i dont want anyone to buy
I also think its a confidence thing. guys are normally attracted to confident happy women regardless of size |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a long think about this topic, and came to the conclusion that I would shag one of those bricks with the holes through them if I had lube, so my answer is ANY, I'm not too fussy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a long think about this topic, and came to the conclusion that I would shag one of those bricks with the holes through them if I had lube, so my answer is ANY, I'm not too fussy. "
A true any hole's a goal guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think sexiness is a state of mind.
I am larger that I would like to be but I feel sexy so I project sexiness (if that makes sense??)
I think sexy is who you are not what you weigh.
I have been a size 8 (ok a long long time ago ) but I did not feel sexy I felt fat frumpy and horrible.
I know I am not everyones cup of tea there is no way everyone is going to find the same thing attractive and sexy or we would all be a bunch of boring feckers.
Think how boring life would be if we all found the same things great??
I cant tell anyone what sexy is since it means sooooooooooo many different things to so many different people. and thats a good thing I think.
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
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In recent years I have started to edge more towards plus sized strange as it sounds. I am bombared with these 'ultra fit' images of thin women all the time in the media and on adverts and it just gets old after a while.
But as mentioned in many posts sexual confidence is way more sexy than any body shape. I would prefere a full body woman riding aggresively on top of me staring me in the eye with a look that says 'theres no escape from me until I have your seed!' than some thin 'supermodel' type that just lays there like a sex doll with barely any eye contact and you just feel like she is giving it to you as a reward or something lol
Hope that clears things up |
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"In recent years I have started to edge more towards plus sized strange as it sounds. I am bombared with these 'ultra fit' images of thin women all the time in the media and on adverts and it just gets old after a while.
But as mentioned in many posts sexual confidence is way more sexy than any body shape. I would prefere a full body woman riding aggresively on top of me staring me in the eye with a look that says 'theres no escape from me until I have your seed!' than some thin 'supermodel' type that just lays there like a sex doll with barely any eye contact and you just feel like she is giving it to you as a reward or something lol
Hope that clears things up "
i thought you'd left lol |
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People like what they like and can’t help being attracted to what they like… whether that be fat , thin, tall, short, or something in the middle.
I will always remember someone telling me I wasn’t big enough… anyway…
If someone likes thin people… they like thin people.
If someone likes fat people… they like fat people.
If someone likes any size… they like any size.
No one should be judged because of what they find appealing.
It is a very unfulfilling hobby if people are not true to themselves and only seek what they have been conditioned by their friends and society to think of as appealing.
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My lady Jessica is a bbw, and i love her to bits. The couples and ladies we have played with have mostly been on the curvier side of the line, however if the chemeistry is right we wouldnt turn away a slimmer lady if the opportunity is there. Our preferences are deffinately on the voluptuos side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexiness comes from within, large ladies are sexy, slim ladies are sexy. Someone with hangups and baggage are not sexy"
that is so true, my sister has what most women would call a body to die for, i personally would sell my soul to the devil for her figure, shes tall, leggy, no lumps and bumps, her skins tight and fits her well unlike mine which looks 3 sizes to big for me lol but is she happy? she cant keep a relationship because shes so insecure and obsessed with her lack of looks, even tho she has nothing to be insecure about, now no matter how attractive she looks noone wants to sit and listern to you moaning all the time about how ugly you are, and i know her feelings are important and true to her, and ive tried for many years to unserstand and support her, but its just not attractive to the opposit sex |
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