So I’ve been excitedly chatting to a hottie on match.com all week, we have a date arranged, she asked to see my body, and immediately told me that we would have to shave me!!!
And went on to say, she likes her men to have shaved armpits… so the question is….
Hairy or smooth?!
Personally men with hair free armpits remind me of boys… would I get more love if I lost the belly fuzz? |
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Oof! Trying to change someone before you've even met them  .
Hairy, but not too much for me. When people shave the stubble is really uncomfortable when it's starting to grow back in. It's a proper turn off rubbing against you like a brillo pad, feel like it's going to take some skin off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to shave to try and fit in around here.
It was expensive, time consuming, played havoc with my skin and ultimately pointless.
Don't feel pressured to change yourself for unimportant reasons. Only do it if it's what YOU want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't sit right with me personally, wanting to change someone before you've met them "
Had that very recently when dating - I think after /during first date infact. “Get rid of the stubble” (which was on all photos she’d seen..! |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I say whatever you're comfortable with. It's your body after all. If she can't accept you for being you, maybe she's not the right one for you. A few minor changes I get that, it could be a good change but too much and that's not on really |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
"So I’ve been excitedly chatting to a hottie on match.com all week, we have a date arranged, she asked to see my body, and immediately told me that we would have to shave me!!!
And went on to say, she likes her men to have shaved armpits… so the question is….
Hairy or smooth?!
Personally men with hair free armpits remind me of boys… would I get more love if I lost the belly fuzz?"
You've arranged a date and gonna shave yr armpits on that basis alone. Aren't u being a bit presumptuous that it will lead to more? What about if u shave and she cancels?
Did she say the date is only on the "condition" u shave them? Personally if u feel u could be tempted to shave them Id wait n see how the date goes. Surely if u hit it off and she's that interested she'll want to see u again and u can do it then if u really wanna go down that road. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its your body. Shes not worth it if shes trying to change you before youve even met. She wouldnt dye her hair because you said you prefer a colour. Why should you shave?? Stay away. "
Tell her she has to dye her head hair and grow her armpit hair.  |
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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"She didn’t demand shaved armpits before a date!
She said she doesn’t fancy men with chest hair, and if I wanted to be “her man” I would have to deal with it, regularly."
Wow, specific demands and not even met. Does that not raise any red flags for you? |
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She’s a gonner!
I woke up to a goodbye message from her! Stating my confidence issues as the main reason!!!
I took your advice, told her to make like an elephant trunk and hit the road
Got a new thread topic now tho! |
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