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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning ladies, I have always been intrigued to know why some women love to ride and some don't.
Is it uncomfortable or is it simply boring position
Does this position help for you to cum |
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I love it but I didn’t used to. I think for me it was a lot to do about confidence. Not only how I looked in that position as I felt quite exposed but also whether I could do it well enough. Well I’ve got over that and really enjoy the position now.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love it but I didn’t used to. I think for me it was a lot to do about confidence. Not only how I looked in that position as I felt quite exposed but also whether I could do it well enough. Well I’ve got over that and really enjoy the position now.
Thanks for the feedback. Does it help make you cum as some positions hit that special spot
Kx"
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"I love it but I didn’t used to. I think for me it was a lot to do about confidence. Not only how I looked in that position as I felt quite exposed but also whether I could do it well enough. Well I’ve got over that and really enjoy the position now.
Thanks for the feedback. Does it help make you cum as some positions hit that special spot
Kx"
Sometimes but not always. Depends on the angle and the size/shape of their cock. It’s great when it does. I have one very memorable experience with a guy off here where that position with him was amazing for me. |
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"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired "
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah so it's mainly a self confidence thing and the fact it is energy sapping.
I've never been one that's good at that and last couple of mins at best
I get jealous of those guys that can last for ages in that position and now I don't feel so bad |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
the middle somewhere |
"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below! "
Feel free to share the video with me and I’ll give you my honest opinion  x |
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I enjoy it, but being rather short and thick thighed. Means if the man has thick thighs also I will struggle to straddle over them, and then I have be on my feet rather than knees which can become tiring quickly if you don't have a bedframe to hold onto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a woman on top. Apart from the eye contact and boob access it gives, I like it that she can really let herself go and dictate the pace more readily. Makes a nice change....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One girl I was with said she didn't mind I wasn't that good at it but she was probably being nice and does deflate a man's ego sometimes "
You just have to lie there and watch! Not your fault, nothing you can be 'good at'. |
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"I enjoy it, but being rather short and thick thighed. Means if the man has thick thighs also I will struggle to straddle over them, and then I have be on my feet rather than knees which can become tiring quickly if you don't have a bedframe to hold onto. "
My thighs are small |
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As a cd i love it as i am in control of speed and how deep in arse he goes.
But like any postion if its the only you do it gets a bit boring.
Like to mix it up at meat and my fav with a guy is from behind |
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"I enjoy it, but being rather short and thick thighed. Means if the man has thick thighs also I will struggle to straddle over them, and then I have be on my feet rather than knees which can become tiring quickly if you don't have a bedframe to hold onto.
My thighs are small "
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy it, but being rather short and thick thighed. Means if the man has thick thighs also I will struggle to straddle over them, and then I have be on my feet rather than knees which can become tiring quickly if you don't have a bedframe to hold onto. "
My absolute favourite. I never last long when a lady gets on her feet like that. |
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"My thighs are quite thick as do weightlifting but never thought this would be an issue "
I genuinely struggle if thighs are thick because I don't have as much room to move. Which is why I have to go onto my feet, and kinda sit above and squat essentially. But it does take a bit of practice to get used to initially and you need a firm mattress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no stamina and rubbish rhythm, oh and I'm fat. If a man meets us half way and does some pushing while underneath maybe it would be better. If the man just lays there expecting me to turn into a bouncy bird its going to be a failure |
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"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below!
Feel free to share the video with me and I’ll give you my honest opinion x"
How convenient that we can now send videos in messages  |
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Two things- feeling self conscious about my body, and physical comfort in terms of I’ve got narrow hips and short legs so it doesn’t always work! Not always easy to get the right stimulation from it either. |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
the middle somewhere |
"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below!
Feel free to share the video with me and I’ll give you my honest opinion x
How convenient that we can now send videos in messages "
Oh we can? I never knew that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below!
Feel free to share the video with me and I’ll give you my honest opinion x
How convenient that we can now send videos in messages
Oh we can? I never knew that "
Video is longer than a minute you say? Never mind then |
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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago
North East Scotland, mostly |
I like to take my time, really grind down on him. I also love how the guy has full access to my tits when I'm on top. Mr says it's one of his favourite positions to watch me in with someone else.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to take my time, really grind down on him. I also love how the guy has full access to my tits when I'm on top. Mr says it's one of his favourite positions to watch me in with someone else.
Mrs TMN x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it if they let me take control. Annoying when men try to change pace and it knocks off your rhythm. Calm down pedro, I'll tell you when it's time to pound it. |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
The position can feel great with the right partner but the sound of my stomach giving us a round of applause and the idea of my partner looking up my nose really puts me off so I can't enjoy it enough to do it regularly. |
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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago
the middle somewhere |
"I love it but I can't do it for too long otherwise I get tired
I agree with this, and it also makes me really self-conscious, more so since I saw a video of myself - there’s a reason women don’t take selfies from below!
Feel free to share the video with me and I’ll give you my honest opinion x
How convenient that we can now send videos in messages
Oh we can? I never knew that
Video is longer than a minute you say? Never mind then "
Nothing of mine is very long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do love the cowgirl position but woman do it in two different ways….
The grinding method, and the bouncing up and down method. I prefer the later myself
OR alternating it can work"
Always alternate. Change positions when his eyes bulge and he looks desperate to cum. Make him wait! |
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"Wish I was better at it so I can let the women take charge but sadly I'm shit at it
How are you shit at it? "
I guess theoretically if you cannot give up control and let them control the pace and movement that could get in the way....
Not sure though |
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Being a little heavier than I used to be I get self conscious on top.
But I do love it as I can take control, control the rhythm, throw head back and grind my hips, lean over the guy, boobs in his face letting his tongue tease my nipples, leaning in for a kiss while I still grind, then he pulls you close, hands round your back and pounds away |
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"Being a little heavier than I used to be I get self conscious on top.
But I do love it as I can take control, control the rhythm, throw head back and grind my hips, lean over the guy, boobs in his face letting his tongue tease my nipples, leaning in for a kiss while I still grind, then he pulls you close, hands round your back and pounds away "
I need a little lie down... |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I still love that position, even though I'm not as mobile, and too heavy to move properly.
A current friend likes feeling my body squished up against Jim while I'm on top, which is slightly easier than sitting upright.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"Wish I was better at it so I can let the women take charge but sadly I'm shit at it
How are you shit at it?
I guess theoretically if you cannot give up control and let them control the pace and movement that could get in the way....
Not sure though"
I've found most men struggle to lay still and not thrust, eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wish I was better at it so I can let the women take charge but sadly I'm shit at it
How are you shit at it?
I guess theoretically if you cannot give up control and let them control the pace and movement that could get in the way....
Not sure though
I've found most men struggle to lay still and not thrust, eventually. "
It does tend to be subject to negotiation... |
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"Wish I was better at it so I can let the women take charge but sadly I'm shit at it
How are you shit at it?
I guess theoretically if you cannot give up control and let them control the pace and movement that could get in the way....
Not sure though
I've found most men struggle to lay still and not thrust, eventually. "
Nothing worse than you both thrusting at the same time and not getting into a proper pace |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it for a short amount of time, and yes the opportunity to tease with my boobs near his face or against his chest, and tease his cock as I ride him.
what I enjoy most about that position is when he grabs my arse and sets the rhythm, when he holds me in position and thrusts hard and fast from beneath me, and when I look down and see he is enjoying me, looking at my body moving etc.
But having said that I am only ever lost in that moment for a short amount of time. Usually my concentration is broken because my thighs start aching.
NBVN x |
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"Being a little heavier than I used to be I get self conscious on top.
But I do love it as I can take control, control the rhythm, throw head back and grind my hips, lean over the guy, boobs in his face letting his tongue tease my nipples, leaning in for a kiss while I still grind, then he pulls you close, hands round your back and pounds away
I need a little lie down... "
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"I like it for a short amount of time, and yes the opportunity to tease with my boobs near his face or against his chest, and tease his cock as I ride him.
what I enjoy most about that position is when he grabs my arse and sets the rhythm, when he holds me in position and thrusts hard and fast from beneath me, and when I look down and see he is enjoying me, looking at my body moving etc.
But having said that I am only ever lost in that moment for a short amount of time. Usually my concentration is broken because my thighs start aching.
NBVN x"
See I'm the opposite if M tries to dictate the pace I will strop. And then will do the complete opposite to what he was trying to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it for a short amount of time, and yes the opportunity to tease with my boobs near his face or against his chest, and tease his cock as I ride him.
what I enjoy most about that position is when he grabs my arse and sets the rhythm, when he holds me in position and thrusts hard and fast from beneath me, and when I look down and see he is enjoying me, looking at my body moving etc.
But having said that I am only ever lost in that moment for a short amount of time. Usually my concentration is broken because my thighs start aching.
NBVN x
See I'm the opposite if M tries to dictate the pace I will strop. And then will do the complete opposite to what he was trying to do "
You make me laugh for having a strop mid fuck 
I prefer the deepness I get from a good thrust from underneath and add another guy from behind me and I sit still like a good lady waiting for the rhythm from both guys....phwoar no strops from this lady
NBVN x |
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"I like it for a short amount of time, and yes the opportunity to tease with my boobs near his face or against his chest, and tease his cock as I ride him.
what I enjoy most about that position is when he grabs my arse and sets the rhythm, when he holds me in position and thrusts hard and fast from beneath me, and when I look down and see he is enjoying me, looking at my body moving etc.
But having said that I am only ever lost in that moment for a short amount of time. Usually my concentration is broken because my thighs start aching.
NBVN x
See I'm the opposite if M tries to dictate the pace I will strop. And then will do the complete opposite to what he was trying to do
You make me laugh for having a strop mid fuck
I prefer the deepness I get from a good thrust from underneath and add another guy from behind me and I sit still like a good lady waiting for the rhythm from both guys....phwoar no strops from this lady
NBVN x"
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"I like it for a short amount of time, and yes the opportunity to tease with my boobs near his face or against his chest, and tease his cock as I ride him.
what I enjoy most about that position is when he grabs my arse and sets the rhythm, when he holds me in position and thrusts hard and fast from beneath me, and when I look down and see he is enjoying me, looking at my body moving etc.
But having said that I am only ever lost in that moment for a short amount of time. Usually my concentration is broken because my thighs start aching.
NBVN x
See I'm the opposite if M tries to dictate the pace I will strop. And then will do the complete opposite to what he was trying to do
You make me laugh for having a strop mid fuck
I prefer the deepness I get from a good thrust from underneath and add another guy from behind me and I sit still like a good lady waiting for the rhythm from both guys....phwoar no strops from this lady
NBVN x"
Lol I proper do have a strop, I'll stop and then do the complete opposite
Same do like that deepness you can achieve on top and that you can wiggle yourself into the sweet spot.
In the scenario you've just described I wouldn't be stropping |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
When I was younger I always thought being on top was for the mans benefit. Then I met a chap who changed all that.
For those that are self conscious face the other way, thats rather nice to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was younger I always thought being on top was for the mans benefit. Then I met a chap who changed all that.
For those that are self conscious face the other way, thats rather nice to "
It is when the view is an arse like yours.. |
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"When I was younger I always thought being on top was for the mans benefit. Then I met a chap who changed all that.
For those that are self conscious face the other way, thats rather nice to "
Except eye contact is important lol |
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Like any position I find the answer is some like it, some love it, some aren't bothered one way or the other, some hate it.
One particular lady I knew, it was her favourite poition and the easiest for her to orgasm in. Others have liked it, still others it was a change of position. A very small number just didn't enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like to ride but it depends on cock size, level of confidence and comfort at the time .If it's not an encounter I'm particularly enjoying I'll probably not be inclined to ride him like a rodeo. |
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"When I was younger I always thought being on top was for the mans benefit. Then I met a chap who changed all that.
For those that are self conscious face the other way, thats rather nice to "
Never going to win a race though. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I absolutely love it, there’s an element of feeling in control, maintaining eye contact, being able to run your finger nails over his chest and torso, the ability to give him a little show as you circle your hips and grind against him, the sensation your clit gets as it brushes against his body whilst you ride him totally adds to the orgasm!
Never feel uncomfortable more like I’m taking this man in this moment and I’m going for it! Xx
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"I absolutely love it, there’s an element of feeling in control, maintaining eye contact, being able to run your finger nails over his chest and torso, the ability to give him a little show as you circle your hips and grind against him, the sensation your clit gets as it brushes against his body whilst you ride him totally adds to the orgasm!
Never feel uncomfortable more like I’m taking this man in this moment and I’m going for it! Xx
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Well if I wasn't feeling hot before...  |
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By *mily28Woman
over a year ago
Clapham |
"I absolutely love it, there’s an element of feeling in control, maintaining eye contact, being able to run your finger nails over his chest and torso, the ability to give him a little show as you circle your hips and grind against him, the sensation your clit gets as it brushes against his body whilst you ride him totally adds to the orgasm!
Never feel uncomfortable more like I’m taking this man in this moment and I’m going for it! Xx
Well if I wasn't feeling hot before... "
Me too! |
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"I absolutely love it, there’s an element of feeling in control, maintaining eye contact, being able to run your finger nails over his chest and torso, the ability to give him a little show as you circle your hips and grind against him, the sensation your clit gets as it brushes against his body whilst you ride him totally adds to the orgasm!
Never feel uncomfortable more like I’m taking this man in this moment and I’m going for it! Xx
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Ooh come to daddy. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
I love it now... I hated it when I was younger, fitter, smaller and much more conscious of how I might look, how fat I felt etc... Now, I couldn't care less once in the position of getting into that position |
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"I enjoy it, but being rather short and thick thighed. Means if the man has thick thighs also I will struggle to straddle over them, and then I have be on my feet rather than knees which can become tiring quickly if you don't have a bedframe to hold onto. "
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If I can't get my knees to the bed I just push off their hips with ny thighs instead. I'm sure they don't mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recently felt like red rum when my lover just went to town on me haha,
AC/DC shoot to thrill was on the play list, she was in her element…..I can now feel my abs haha …..
Who needs a gym membership! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely love it, there’s an element of feeling in control, maintaining eye contact, being able to run your finger nails over his chest and torso, the ability to give him a little show as you circle your hips and grind against him, the sensation your clit gets as it brushes against his body whilst you ride him totally adds to the orgasm!
Never feel uncomfortable more like I’m taking this man in this moment and I’m going for it! Xx
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Totally this. I like watching a woman enjoy this, especially when it's introduced to them for the first time!..  |
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"I love it, it’s my turn to switch it, take the lead, I enjoy the eye contact and setting the pace, and depth we go, not to mention the grinding "
It's my favorite position I love it when a woman takes control and I love holding her nipples as she rides me |
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being on top, teasing his mouth with my nipples..just keeping them out of reach with his arms pinned above his head x
