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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay, so as we are all different when it comes to what we find intimate , I’m very curious to know how would you rate these “activities” with a person from 1-10 or you can put them from most intimate to least intimate.
Kissing (3/10) (tho it depends what type of kiss - some may be high value and it’s not the snog type)
Sex (2/10)
Oral sex and similar (so mutual play) (1/10)
Massages (2/10)
Making love (9/10)
Cuddling (6/10)
Holding hands (8/10) (I find this extremely intimate)
Prolonged Eye contact (8/10)
Hugging (4/10)
Feeling comfortable in sleeping in somebody’s bed (7/10)
Do you have a fave out of these?
Being a bit of a wild cat, I find the most simple gestures of affection, as the most intimate. As if I allow it to happen, it means i like you
Gaaaad im such a softie  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I think it’s amazing how swingers and others on this site have such an inverted idea of intimacy to the rest of society.
It just proves what I’ve always thought; that we’re wired differently and do everything upside down |
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"Okay, so as we are all different when it comes to what we find intimate , I’m very curious to know how would you rate these “activities” with a person from 1-10 or you can put them from most intimate to least intimate.
Kissing (3/10) (tho it depends what type of kiss - some may be high value and it’s not the snog type)
Sex (2/10)
Oral sex and similar (so mutual play) (1/10)
Massages (2/10)
Making love (9/10)
Cuddling (6/10)
Holding hands (8/10) (I find this extremely intimate)
Prolonged Eye contact (8/10)
Hugging (4/10)
Feeling comfortable in sleeping in somebody’s bed (7/10)
Do you have a fave out of these?
Being a bit of a wild cat, I find the most simple gestures of affection, as the most intimate. As if I allow it to happen, it means i like you
Gaaaad im such a softie "
It’s impossible to answer sovce they are all person and situation dependant
Prolonged eye contact 8/10?
Does that include the guy on the tube that’s been staring at you?
Is it still 8/10 if it’s just a quick fuck buddy? Or is that kinda awkward?
All very situational and person dependant. |
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"Okay, so as we are all different when it comes to what we find intimate , I’m very curious to know how would you rate these “activities” with a person from 1-10 or you can put them from most intimate to least intimate.
Kissing (3/10) (tho it depends what type of kiss - some may be high value and it’s not the snog type)
Sex (2/10)
Oral sex and similar (so mutual play) (1/10)
Massages (2/10)
Making love (9/10)
Cuddling (6/10)
Holding hands (8/10) (I find this extremely intimate)
Prolonged Eye contact (8/10)
Hugging (4/10)
Feeling comfortable in sleeping in somebody’s bed (7/10)
Do you have a fave out of these?
Being a bit of a wild cat, I find the most simple gestures of affection, as the most intimate. As if I allow it to happen, it means i like you
Gaaaad im such a softie "
Sex 1/10
Oral sex 1/10
Kissing 7/10
Massages 8/10
Making love 10/10
Cuddling 9/10
Holding hands 10/10
Eye contact 2/10
Hugging 2/10
Sleeping in someone’s bed 10/10
The ones I rate high I would only do with my husband except kissing but their still needs to be some kind of connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Okay, so as we are all different when it comes to what we find intimate , I’m very curious to know how would you rate these “activities” with a person from 1-10 or you can put them from most intimate to least intimate.
Kissing (3/10) (tho it depends what type of kiss - some may be high value and it’s not the snog type)
Sex (2/10)
Oral sex and similar (so mutual play) (1/10)
Massages (2/10)
Making love (9/10)
Cuddling (6/10)
Holding hands (8/10) (I find this extremely intimate)
Prolonged Eye contact (8/10)
Hugging (4/10)
Feeling comfortable in sleeping in somebody’s bed (7/10)
Do you have a fave out of these?
Being a bit of a wild cat, I find the most simple gestures of affection, as the most intimate. As if I allow it to happen, it means i like you
Gaaaad im such a softie
It’s impossible to answer sovce they are all person and situation dependant
Prolonged eye contact 8/10?
Does that include the guy on the tube that’s been staring at you?
Is it still 8/10 if it’s just a quick fuck buddy? Or is that kinda awkward?
All very situational and person dependant. "
It means with a person you are intimate with.
Example the eye contact with, do you feel comfortable having long eye contacts with a person you are intimate with? Or are you avoidant? Do you find those moments very intimate or not really?
Some people find sex like the most intimate thing, while for me, it’s the least intimate. I could have sex with anyone I find attractive, but I would struggle to let them do certain things to me, if I don’t feel a certain way about them. Because I’d considered them way too intimate/sacred. Hope it makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it’s amazing how swingers and others on this site have such an inverted idea of intimacy to the rest of society.
It just proves what I’ve always thought; that we’re wired differently and do everything upside down "
Absolutely, I think this is bang on.
I do wonder if it’s to do with childhood and maybe not having had much simple physical affection (like hugs and kisses from parents)
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