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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had full hysterectomy just over 7 weeks ago, removal of ovaries and cervix included, followed all instructions from docs been cleared for intercourse now however I have found intercourse to be somewhat painful and appear to be somewhat tighter than previously, I have tried on my own with trusty old rabbit lol used to take it all now only hf way grrrr, is this nerves maybe? Will this pass or am I going to find it painful all the time  |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
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You have had massive invasive surgery and even though you have been the ok to have sex it is going to take time to heal properly.
I had my hysterectomy a long time ago, over 20 years (I know, don't look old enough!!) and even now if a man is too large it can be uncomfortable - don't forget you've had your cervix removed ..... it's a dead end now!!
Take things a little easier to begin with, it will improve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had mine last year and was told to wait at least 12 weeks, don't rush, don't forget you have internal stitches too, there are other ways to enjoy yourself. |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
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Had mine so long ago that I can't remember what I could cope with back then...not that I got much off my ex anyway...lol. I do know that I don't manage to take anything too big nowadays and everything is definitely very tight (I still have my cervix as 4 caesareans meant too many adhesions to remove it). My doctor recommended salt baths to aid the healing process for the first 6 weeks. |
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"Had full hysterectomy just over 7 weeks ago, removal of ovaries and cervix included, followed all instructions from docs been cleared for intercourse now however I have found intercourse to be somewhat painful and appear to be somewhat tighter than previously, I have tried on my own with trusty old rabbit lol used to take it all now only hf way grrrr, is this nerves maybe? Will this pass or am I going to find it painful all the time "
Kate had the same op 20yrs ago but we couldn't have sex for 3-4 months. I'm sure you'll be back to normal pretty quickly, just work your way up from weeners to whoppers and enjoy it.
best of luck, and I really mean that as we've gone through it ourselves xx   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex had hers a few months back and tells me now that it hurts with her new fella who is smaller than me. She asked my advice but I couldn't give her any. She went to docs and was told it was normal.
I know all women are different and I guess recovery times differ.
Ease off for a little while and try again with something a bit smaller? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had full hysterectomy just over 7 weeks ago, removal of ovaries and cervix included, followed all instructions from docs been cleared for intercourse now however I have found intercourse to be somewhat painful and appear to be somewhat tighter than previously, I have tried on my own with trusty old rabbit lol used to take it all now only hf way grrrr, is this nerves maybe? Will this pass or am I going to find it painful all the time
Kate had the same op 20yrs ago but we couldn't have sex for 3-4 months. I'm sure you'll be back to normal pretty quickly, just work your way up from weeners to whoppers and enjoy it.
best of luck, and I really mean that as we've gone through it ourselves xx "
3-4 fucking months omg it might heal over completely ffs lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Btw thanks for the advice suppose I just expected 6 weeks and back to normal but waited this long a bit longer won't hurt xxxxx thanks guys really appreciate the advice |
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