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When you get down to it and they’re not for you?

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By *red and Wilma 75 OP Couple over a year ago

Staffordshire

What do you do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t get down to it, unless they were for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t get down to it, unless they were for me

Absolutely this. And if I’m relaxed enough with them to go that far, then I’m definitely comfortable saying if something they’re doing isn’t working for me xx

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By *tarburst babydollMan over a year ago

Dingwall

That is why we meet socially first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd get up from it.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

One of the reasons I insist on at least one social before any other decisions are made is to determine attraction.

If I'm not feeling it over coffee that's as far as it goes.

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Bliss

If it bothers me that much I'd tell them there and then, but If I liked him that much to get nekkid with him then I'd let the little things slide and bring them up in pillow talk time

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By *atfuckerbristolMan over a year ago

Wells

What is it the News of the World undercover reporters used to do after they’d pulled off a sting on a premiership footballer?

“Our reporters made their excuses and left”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely get to that point unless I'm into it. There have been occasions when during sex, I've realised we aren't compatible that way but finished the session anyway. I guess I don't want to make someone feel bad especially during a sensitive time like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Going by my history if i get to that point i simply say this is shit im off get up put my pants on and walk away

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Would not get that far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be a shock to be honest. I spend time chatting before any meet, then meet with no expectations or obligations. If I have that much of a turnaround when we are getting down to it, she's been hiding something. Being fab it's probably tackle..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does the op not mean the chemistry just isn't there, despite thinking it would be?

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

If unsure what would be so bad as to be a deal breaker when we’d got naked. All of my due diligence is done prior to that point, so we can enjoy that time.

If I’m still asking questions at that point, then I’ve done something very wrong

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