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Ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with
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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Many years ago, I worked in a night club in Leeds, every Thursday night, this group of women would be in, and I fell for one of them, however, being quite shy at the time, I never said anything about how I felt.
Shuffle on 18 months, I get an invite to a friend's wedding.
Image my surprise and shock when his bride turns out to be the same woman the I pined over and never had the guts to say anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never been in love or had a crush; I fear I am incapable BUT I have often thought about dating my best friend just for the thrill of it, though I’ve never had any proper feelings for her. |
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Yup it cost me a lot money and a lot of self respect. And what’s worse it cost me the trust and loss of a woman I adored.
I still wince now over the hurt I caused to two people.
I deserved all I got. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i fell in love with someone i had no choice but to love it only took 1 look altho i didnt know that was what it was at the time as id never felt it before it was amazing now shes not there not in my life i feel numb to all emotion my passion and excitability is gone but as long as wherever she is she is happy and thriving then my sacrifice served a purpose i couldn't have done any more than i am doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fell in love with my fwb when I was 20. That was my major boo boo. She was great  "
Thats my time theory just been proved time does heal nothing it is a thief wish people would wake up and destroy it before its too late |
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"I fell in love with my fwb when I was 20. That was my major boo boo. She was great
Thats my time theory just been proved time does heal nothing it is a thief wish people would wake up and destroy it before its too late "
Depends on what it is I guess |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Yes I have.
We’re all social creatures and need to interact with others on some basic level. As much as people try to avoid feelings and build walls up to stop getting hurt, when you meet ‘that’ person, they just get in, no matter what.
Love can hurt, unrequited love especially so but I don’t believe that there’s just one person for any of us. Love can happen at any point, it’s what you choose to do about it that’s the key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Love' probably not?... 'Limerance', yes definitely! Had an online friendship, flirtation, that crossed over with someone attached, and miles away... Ended up sooo into them. Met up once in person, twas an absolute let down
Parted company, but it still took me ages to stop having the' feels'... Pretty tough situation really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love? Probably not. Lust, infatuation? All the bloody time 
It's an absolute pain in the arse!!!! I agree but doesn’t stop me repeating over and over lol "
Same here. The thrill, followed by the pain. Its addictive |
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"Love? Probably not. Lust, infatuation? All the bloody time
It's an absolute pain in the arse!!!! I agree but doesn’t stop me repeating over and over lol
Same here. The thrill, followed by the pain. Its addictive "
It is addictive.. the struggle is real haha |
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